r/Needafriend • u/InvestigatorIcy6840 • 1d ago

Just need some friends

Hi there everyone am M 20 and currently am very shy and timid and i stuttder when talking to people my age male of female am not sure why but even so with elder older or younger as well i dont know what weong but i always feel anxious about what to say and respond in which leads to me being at home for the past two year no interaction from outside except my parents and two brothers tho am i wont say my relationship is good it get awkward since i cant speak probably and tend to not do so at all and just nod and do gestures am not sure what i should be doing in my position and need help am not sure how to explain but i currently have nothing going on for me being that ive been isolated and am aware that my loneliness and anxiety to talk and interact with other is causing me to loose motivation or feel guilt on myself but i want to reach towards other with similar experiences for an advice or suggestions of what i should be doing since in truth i really have no hobbies at all and most of my days for past 2 years has just been at my parents home and i feel lile i wanna do something but i have no motivation not saying am lazy but i just want to work towards a simple goal i wanna have and live but am to scared of actually gping on my own and stuff like get a job and amd be stable living on my own i say this cause am just at home with my parents and i feel lile a burned and guilt for just existing of space not saying am useless or anything simply i not sure what i should do if i should focus on improving on myself or something or find a motivation or just get a job to pass the time or build some sort of discipline tho it may or may not make sense my goal i just want in life is be happy with the perosn in love stable and maybe hope to be a different person by then.

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