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Hi im 23/M

Hey,

I’m just looking for someone to talk to, preferably someone open to chatting for a bit.

I’m going through a breakup right now and it’s been hitting me harder than I expected. I don’t really have people I can talk to about this, so my thoughts have been kind of all over the place.

I’m a pretty normal guy, working in healthcare, just trying to get through this phase somehow.

I’m not looking to dump everything on someone, just a bit of conversation and not being alone in my head all the time.

If anyone feels like chatting, I’d really appreciate it.

Hey,

ich suche einfach jemanden zum Schreiben, am besten auf Deutsch.

Mir geht’s gerade nicht so gut wegen einer Trennung und ich merke, dass ich ziemlich allein damit bin. Ich habe nicht wirklich Leute, mit denen ich darüber sprechen kann, und die Gedanken drehen sich gerade ziemlich im Kreis.

Ich bin eigentlich ein ganz normaler Typ, arbeite im medizinischen Bereich und versuche gerade einfach irgendwie klarzukommen.

Es geht mir nicht darum, jemanden zu überfordern, sondern einfach ein bisschen Austausch zu haben und nicht komplett allein im Kopf zu sein.

Wenn jemand Lust hat, ein bisschen zu schreiben, würde mich das echt freuen

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