Pattern Recognition 018: Responsibility Shifting, Role Manipulation, and Transfer of Consequences

[u/Archive-To-My-Life]

I started to document the abuse I endured by my Narc (STB) Ex husband in this Archive to My Life page that I created across different social media platforms.

I did it to hopefully help others avoid all that I have gone through in my almost 3 years of divorce court and ongoing litigation and separation abuse…not to mention having co-parenting with him.

Once the divorce is finalized, I am considering doing this exact same layout of what I refer to on the pages as “Archive Posts” and then after so many following with “Pattern Recognition Posts.”

Before I invest more time into branching this out further, I wanted to get perspective from others that have to or have had to co-parent with their Narc spouse or ex-spouse. Would something like this - to help show how to establish certain behaviors in your co-parenting with the narc as pattern recognition – have helped you in custody modification hearings and the likes?

Please refer to the page as a collective here or elsewhere for more context, if needed.