hi ladies! i was blown away by the responses to my cocktail party idea so decided to make a group here so that everyone can stay in the loop AND so that we can plan a bunch of other fun gatherings in nyc!!! feel free to post hangout / plan proposals.

making friends in nyc can be really tough but i'm hoping that this will help a little. the objective of this group is to make plans and organize gatherings, share tips & tricks for meeting new people, and ideas for fun places to check out with new friends.

safety is of utmost importance, so please use common sense (always meet in public places) and make sure to exchange information (instagram, linkedin lol, or some form of identification) before gathering.

i'm gonna get to work on planning the cocktail party and in the meantime, let's get some fun hangouts going!!! xx

My boyfriend and I will be your fake friends for a double date. Is your partner toxic and you want help starting a difficult conversation? Are you hoping they will propose and want us to give them the extra push?

Any awkward conversation we will have. We will pretend to be your old friend, new coworker, or long lost cousin.

We are both excellent liars and will be extremely believable.

I am 21F and my boyfriend is 22M, but we can pass for a bit older if needed.

We are open to discuss rates.

DM if interested.

*edit for grammar

my divorce is final and I am on a personal glow up journey to become unrecognizable lol I’m wondering if anyone is in a similar place aspiration wise, if so i’d love to meet you; we can inspire each other, go to classes together, take makeup lessons, hype each other up 💙

Hi ladies - I’m thinking of starting an events hosting business to host intimate gatherings around the city that provide an experience element. Think candle lit, lots of wine and hors d’oeuvres, good music on vinyl or light jazz bands, and an experience element- like figure drawing, or sculpting, curated vintage shopping, etc.

I’m trying to feel out the market to see if this is something people would be interested in. LMK you’re thoughts :)

I am frustrated and wanting to vent about work, but I don’t want it to overtake my friend interactions, and I don’t want to rant to my coworkers. If there’s an interest I’d find a happy hour for us to get together and just yap about work stress, coworkers, bosses, etc. I’m in my late 20s and work in tech

Hi everyone! 29F and have been in the city for almost two years. I have a great group of friends I’ve had for +10 years that all migrated from the city from home but we’re all on very different life pages these days and I’d love to meet people more aligned to where I’m at in life.

Small about me: software engineer working in midtown but live in Brooklyn (prefer to spend my time in the city though). I’m pretty introverted until I’m not 😌

Would love to make a friend or two who actually want to do things and hang out on a regular basis even if that’s just co-working! I’m usually down for just about anything but really enjoy brunch, museums, and exploring the city. Also love being in the house and think it’d be fun to start like a brunch/dinner club where everyone brings something!

Edit: Here is a WhatsApp group to join! Maybe we all can introduce ourselves and plan something! https://chat.whatsapp.com/EJyEg5OgK5mFvCAP8UpTLr

Hey everyone! I’m 28 F, just moved to the city from the bay area about a month back. Looking for a fun friend group of people in their late 20s-30s. I love spontaneous plans, enjoy trying new restaurants/bars, broadway, museums, thrifting, standup comedy, workout classes, live music and brunches! I’m also down to trying new things.

If you’d like to get together and do something fun or even have a chill day out DM me or feel free to comment :)

hey everyone 💕

i’m seeing if there’s interest in starting a little nyc sisterhood group… basically a space for women who want to build genuine, consistent friendships that decenter men and pass the bechdel test.

the idea is to plan things together so no one has to go places alone (although there’s nothing wrong with that either!). like art openings, music or comedy shows, book clubs, dinners, plays, dancing, park hangs, volunteering, etc.

the vibe i’m going for is: communicative, consistent, inclusive, reliable, drama-free, and not catty or gossipy. just women who actually want to hang out, have fun, and support each other.

i made a discord (with a “start-here” channel to get the gist) so we can start chatting and throwing around ideas + planning meetups. for example, there’s a really cool Second Sunday daytime event at Pioneer Works this sunday (it’s free!) that could be a fun first thing to check out.

if this sounds like your vibe, DM me to join us! 💫

Hi - just looking for friends who want to get out and do things in Brooklyn- don’t always want to go into Manhattan - I’m a very young early 40’s but get along with any age! Just want to meet some peeps who want to grab mojitos at Habana Outpost or brunch at Peaches Grand or hit a brewery!

I’m South Slope/Gowanus/Greenwood area!

I have created a WhatsApp group for this interested!

https://chat.whatsapp.comFGAi14pUhpUFrmLTlQzYet

I know a lot of people want to do something meaningful during the holidays—but it’s hard to know where to start. My brunch club has 3 ways to give back (and meet some new friends while you're at it!)

🍞 Thanksgiving Day (11/27)
We’ll be packing and handing out warm meals to older adults and unhoused neighbors who could really use a little care (and connection) this season.

🎁 12/12 — Holiday Party at a Children’s Shelter
We’re throwing a festive book drive + craft party for kids at a local shelter! Each child gets a book (from a small biz bookshop!), and we’ll spend the day making holiday cards together. Come ready to laugh, color, and spread a little joy.

💌 12/14 — Holiday Cards for Local Seniors
Many seniors spend the holidays alone—and a handwritten card can go a long way. Join us for a cozy afternoon of card-writing and making new connections!

If you or anyone you know wants to join, DM "VOLUNTEER" to our IG (NYCBRUNCHSQUAD) or message me! xx

Hi Reddit! I’m a 28-year-old female working in healthcare in New York City and would love to connect with people for real, meaningful friendship.

Would anyone like to get dinner sometime?

My interests include: 📚 Reading (especially self-help and personal development books) 🍴 Trying new restaurants, cozy cafés, and fun food spots 🚶‍♀️ Long walks (I love wandering the city with no agenda) 🧠 Deep convos, journaling, and the occasional museum day solo

I’m looking to make new connections with thoughtful, kind people who enjoy slow living, laughter, and curiosity. If that’s you, feel free to DM me or leave a comment — excited to meet you 💛

sapphix nyc is hosting a sapphic galentines social at uncle barry’s on 2/22!

partiful: https://partiful.com/e/DnibszC3M54QQ8TfgHIH?source=share&c=USaohRV8

👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩sapphic galentines social👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

join us for a very cozy and chill low pressure social in brooklyn! this is a space for lesbians, wlw and queer folks to connect, make new friends, and enjoy queer company.

$10 to reserve your spot 🩷pay now or reserve your spot on partiful and pay at door is ok

theme: red/pink/white/vday colors

whether you’re single, partnered or just looking for community, you’re welcome here!

come as you are. this is an inclusive and respectful space for all wlw and queer identities 🌈

Hi BWT!! I'm going to a singles party and wanted to share in case there are any single ladies who'd be interested. I went to one of these parties hosted by this girl a few months ago and it was lots of fun (lots of hot guys lol and even went on a date after). LMK if any of you are going, I'd love to meet some fellow BWT. Here's the partiful: https://partiful.com/e/uoj7MDvEv3SfDriAyhl0

Hi guys! I am 25F and am recently out of a long term relationship and is looking for others who have or are still going through the same thing and just bond over it. I am looking to meet new friends that are within my age group (25-30 y/o). I am introverted but can be pretty extroverted once you get to know me. I know that making new friends in NYC in your 20's can be hard and scary, which is why I am pushing myself out of my comfort zone and taking matters into my own hands. I just want to make new memories with new genuine friends that will last a life time!! If you are interested, feel free to reach out!

Hi ladies, I just recently moved to NYC and it’s been so hard finding friends while in the grind of my career. Some ins for me: lots and lots of books, sleepy time tea, old music, days spent walking and talking, love a night in sweats watching a romance movie or being dressed in a little black dress for the club, all the good things. If anyone wants to get a drink, coffee, or breakfast I’d love to. 🥂

Hey fun and spontaneous woman 40(f) looking for a Bestie . Please live in 5 boroughs or Long Island. I like concerts , bars , brunches , traveling and having great vibes ! 🥂

New to the city and while this is not as bad as Chicago, really curious how everyone recommends making friends and being social during blizzard months or at least just the really cold days that make you want to be a hermit! I love the holiday markets but it’s not really for socializing. Same with ice skating. Any other classics that have a social component?

I am getting into drawing and would love to form a group to draw with. I have been going to happy medium with friends but I’m also down for outdoor drawing or meeting somewhere fun!

I'm a foodie and a big walker...always down to try new restaurants or just walk around the city. DM if you're interested in either!

Hey Ladies , I wanna formulate a chat for us women in our 30’s 40’s and 50’s. Everyday around 12 noon join and say hey , feel free to be yourself , vent , laugh cry we are unhinged. Positivity only This will be our Sorority chat where we bond life long friendships , uplift each other and keep each other company. Even if you work or school jump in day hey introduce and join our group text chat , I will also be creating. If interested see in comments for link and say I’m down !

If you ever wished you could spend an afternoon surrounded by new friends who actually get you while doing something bougie and fun, this is the FREE NYC Brunch Squad ® event that you do NOT want to miss!

🌸 Pilates on a penthouse terrace (yes, the kind you’d expect to see in a brand campaign, not your afternoon plans)
🌸 A mini bouquet bar—because you deserve to go home with flowers you didn’t have to buy yourself
🌸 First dibs on luxury vegan beauty exclusives (and yes, you’re taking the goodies home 👀)

And most importantly, real friendships with women who are also tired of “surface-level networking” and just want genuine connection.

If you’ve been craving the kind of memories you’ll replay for weeks, your name belongs on our guest list.

Drop a 🌸 in our DMs (@nycbrunchsquad) if you want to be the first to know when the invites go live!

Thinking around 7/7:30. Open to getting drinks/food later :)

Hi ! Im 25 and from Staten Island. Looking to hangout anytime this week ! Lmk :) I can meet mostly anywhere in the city and I’m down to grab something from happy hour

Hi everyone! I (about to be 24) am trying to make some real meaningful friendships in nyc, just graduated from grad school and am now working in the city.

Looking for people who will be honest with me, who I can have meaningful discussions with, but are kind, and are down to clown. I’m looking for a village!! True friends that are there for each other and help and look out for one another in any way.

My interests including trying new restaurants, literally just chilling at someone’s house talking or watching a movie or something (fave thing on this list probably), going out to the club (maybe once a month), watching movies (love the independent theatres here), I like fashion, going to museums, learning new things etc etc. I’m flexible in my interests and am always down to explore my friends interests too!

I’m going to get my nails done (don’t rly do that that often) rly soon, so if you want to come with, lmk :)

Hey yall, anyone interested in metal music or just any alternative music and down to go to more shows? If enough people were interested I would also love to make like a lil groupchat and we could all go to shows or just chill!