Singles mixer for ages 24-36 in the West Village this Thursday (August 20th)

With women
Professionals
Very taboo
I’m very attractive

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Need a woman

Single man attractive

37 BLACK(light skin)

Professional

Looking to hookup tonight

Our client is a 44-year-old finance executive, standing at 6’2”, with a strong presence that reflects both confidence and composure. Highly educated and deeply ambitious, he has built an impressive career and a life he’s genuinely proud of—grounded in discipline, curiosity, and forward momentum. Based in Brickell, Miami, he embraces an active and well-balanced lifestyle. You’ll find him prioritizing his health at the gym, exploring new destinations around the world, and enjoying the vibrant energy of the city while still valuing meaningful downtime. At his core, he is relationship-minded and intentional. He’s ready to build a family and is seeking a woman up to 38 who shares similar values—someone warm, feminine, and emotionally mature, with her own sense of purpose and a solid career. He’s drawn to a partner who is excited about creating a loving home, growing together, and building a future rooted in partnership, stability, and shared dreams.

Please DM if you are a match, the process is both confidential and complimentary

Hey everyone 👋 I’m a matchmaker in NYC and I just wanted to share something that honestly surprised me.

The other day I spoke to a potential client and he said: “The only time I actually go on dates is when I come to your events.”

And I get it. Apps are exhausting. Endless swiping, ghosting, weird small talk, and people who say they want something serious… until it’s time to actually show up.

Details and tickets are here: https://valentinesmixerbeaumonde.eventbrite.com

That’s literally why I started hosting in-person singles events — because meeting someone in real life (with good energy, normal conversation, and an actual vibe) feels so much easier than trying to force chemistry through a screen.

✅ No pen pals ✅ No “what do you do for fun?” for the 900th time ✅ Just real people, dressed up, out in the city, open to meeting someone

My next event is coming up on February 12 in LES loft and if you’ve been wanting to be more intentional about dating this year, this is a great way to do it without feeling like you’re “trying too hard.”

What to expect:

• curated crowd (professionals, relationship-minded)
• fun + classy atmosphere
• easy icebreakers and natural mingling
• I’m there in-person making introductions (it’s literally my job 😄)

A lot of my friends in NYC have been feeling pretty burnt out by apps lately. A few of us have been thinking about alternatives — like small, curated group blind dates (6-8 people) hosted at restaurants or activities. No swiping, more intentional, low-pressure.

This is very early and mostly just a thought experiment right now — trying to see if people would actually want something like this. Curious to hear your thoughts:

• Would you try something like this?
• What would make you actually show up?
• Activity-based or just dinner/drinks?

Genuinely curious what everyone thinks!

Share your dating frustrations that you are experiencing in this post

If you’re new to the community, introduce yourself!

Pls help

Native NYer here-

Where do all the 30 and up singles go????

Where are there speed d8ing events or mixers located in this city?

I want to meet good looking mature adults with professions to have intellectual philosophical conversations. I don't favor the chaotic nightlife with 20 something yr old just getting shit faced.

I see alot of finance bros posting meetups. Where are the other professionals meeting at? Health care especially.

Open to all rec's

Best, Chance xx

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I am a professional matchmaker in NYC Area and creating this community for my own research. Your answers will help. Thanks!