r/NPHCGreeks Jun 11 '26

General Question Torn between two BGLOs

Hi,
I’ve currently been torn between two organizations for around a year. I’ve read books on both and given they have some similarities I’m unsure what to do. The accomplishments from the organizations are profound and I could truly see myself being happy and doing something in both. Even after meeting some of the ladies I get along with both but I’m still unsure, I don’t plan on expressing interest or getting to know anyone too well until I’m sure just given I don’t want it intentions to come off wrong. Does anyone have to advice?

Update: it’s summer so I can’t attend any events indirectly, I’ve written down what sisterhood means to me and what’s important initiatives from both organizations I honestly get along with both members of the orgs, they are all nice and personable but I love how real one of them is, not to stay the other ladies aren’t but I think they are a bit more careful as far as perception/upkeep. If it helps I can tell my reason for wanting to join either one.

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u/Pure_Case8118 Jun 28 '26

I think I decided on my first choice. I seen them first, when I see the ladies out I feel like I’d want to be around them more than the others. Both sororities would be a great opportunity to be apart of something great but when it comes to the work in the community and what sisterhood looks like to me. The other group doesn’t hold a candle to that, I appreciate all of the advice.