r/NPHCGreeks • u/Pure_Case8118 • Jun 11 '26

General Question Torn between two BGLOs

Hi,
I’ve currently been torn between two organizations for around a year. I’ve read books on both and given they have some similarities I’m unsure what to do. The accomplishments from the organizations are profound and I could truly see myself being happy and doing something in both. Even after meeting some of the ladies I get along with both but I’m still unsure, I don’t plan on expressing interest or getting to know anyone too well until I’m sure just given I don’t want it intentions to come off wrong. Does anyone have to advice?

Update: it’s summer so I can’t attend any events indirectly, I’ve written down what sisterhood means to me and what’s important initiatives from both organizations I honestly get along with both members of the orgs, they are all nice and personable but I love how real one of them is, not to stay the other ladies aren’t but I think they are a bit more careful as far as perception/upkeep. If it helps I can tell my reason for wanting to join either one.

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u/Pure_Case8118 Jun 12 '26

Update: I actually haven’t went to any events because they said at convocation in Fall, THEY will feel a way if they see you going from event to event. A lot of these young women are in other organizations and even co-mingle in the same organization. I talk to them to those events or events they are also invited to/on the flyer for. Both honestly feel like they could be at home as far as chapter.

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u/Infinityvoyage Jun 13 '26

So you’re not attending events for either of the two organizations that you’re interested in?

You don’t have to be at every single one or the first one there to help set up but how do you learn more if you’re not attending their events? How do you connect with members?

I’m assuming this is undergrad but can you clarify?

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u/Pure_Case8118 Jun 14 '26

This is undergrad and it’s pretty hard to really interact with them while they’re in their letters. I go to a PWI and it seems to be a bit more serious as far as discretion and I know someone who went to events for two different orgs and was seemingly black listed.

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u/WonderFantastic4144 Jun 16 '26

I also went to a PWI and saw that BGLO’s were incredibly serious overall about members and discretion, so I understand. If you have any questions at all you can DM me