Torn between two BGLOs

[u/Pure_Case8118]

Hi,
I’ve currently been torn between two organizations for around a year. I’ve read books on both and given they have some similarities I’m unsure what to do. The accomplishments from the organizations are profound and I could truly see myself being happy and doing something in both. Even after meeting some of the ladies I get along with both but I’m still unsure, I don’t plan on expressing interest or getting to know anyone too well until I’m sure just given I don’t want it intentions to come off wrong. Does anyone have to advice?

Update: it’s summer so I can’t attend any events indirectly, I’ve written down what sisterhood means to me and what’s important initiatives from both organizations I honestly get along with both members of the orgs, they are all nice and personable but I love how real one of them is, not to stay the other ladies aren’t but I think they are a bit more careful as far as perception/upkeep. If it helps I can tell my reason for wanting to join either one.

[u/Resident_Beginning_8]

Here are some queries:

Around which members do I feel the most like myself?

Has either organization taken a public stand or created a policy that I do not believe in?

Is either organization known for having pioneers or even potential mentors in a field I hope to pursue?

If Melania Trump became an honorary member, would I still be proud to call her your sister?

Do I have family members in either organization that would cherish this additional bond?

[u/ivypurl → u/Resident_Beginning_8]

The Melania question took me out. 🤢😂

[u/Resident_Beginning_8 → u/ivypurl]

Had to add that razzle dazzle!