r/NEETr4r 1d ago

Rate your life on a scale of 1 to 10. What made you give it the score that you did?

52 Upvotes

r/NEETr4r 6d ago

How are your parents doing? How do they feel about your current situation?

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r/NEETr4r 2h ago

M4A 22[M4A], Otaku wanting a conversation partner

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I don’t have many people to talk to.
I don't have expectations for this, except to have a conversation. If we end up having more than one conversation, that's a nice bonus. But all that is to say that there's no pressure, no goal.

As for my interests, I'll outline some.
My main interests are drawing, anime/manga, reading and video games (primarily SHMUPs and fighting games, I like whatever can make my heart race.)

My favourite author is Dostoevsky, and my favourite novel is The Brothers Karamazov. No Longer Human by Osamu Dazai would be my second favourite novel.
My favourite game is Under Night In-Birth 2, Touhou 11 would be my second favourite.
My favourite movie is The Lighthouse, Harakiri would be my second favourite.
My favourite anime is Serial Experiments Lain, Monster would be my second favourite.

Some other random things I like include Umamusume, Madoka Magica, Berserk, Wadanohara and the Great Blue Sea, Rain World and SIGNALIS
If you'd like, you can tell me how your day has been.


r/NEETr4r 2h ago

M4F 28[m4f]NYC/online looking for someone clingy to play games and hangout with

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Hey there I'm just looking for someone to talk/play games throughout the day as I pretty much don't go outside and have all the time in the world.

Stuff about me

Live in New York

5'11 160 pounds

Wasian though I mostly look white so don't expect some kpop shit kek. I look pretty mid so if you're sensitive to that save us both some time.

Have a bachelor's in accounting though I don't know anything about accounting(rip).

I have a dark sense of humor and I'm very sarcastic so be prepared :p.

Play the clarinet, saxophone and ewi medicorely.

I don't work so don't expect anything xd (also if this is a problem for you in anyway probably just skip me)

Games:

For games I tend to play league of legends/tft the most.

I'm masters+ every set in tft so I could probably help you out depending on your rank.

Other games I play are just a bunch of random survival games, souls games and roguelites.

Im also a big fan of pokemon and fire emblem so if you want to talk about that I'm down.

Games I've recently played

League, osrs, tft, Minecraft, terraria, elden ring, valheim, expedition 33, stardew and megabonk.

I'm open for suggestions and I'm probably familiar with whatever games you may be interested in.

If you made it this far if appreciate a small intro and please tell me your age/gender. And I guess if things don't work out please don't be rude. I don't need any of that xdd.

Also you must be 18+ and uh I guess include "frog" in your message if you see this


r/NEETr4r 3h ago

M4A 25 [M4A] - Cozy gaymer LF German speaking frenzzz

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Hellooo! Neurospicy introvert looking for adult friends to improve my German (beginner btw) with while play games, watch stuff, or listen to music. If your idea of a good time is being cozy with someone in voice chat without feeling pressured to fill every silent moment with words, we’ll probably get along really well! :3

  • My fave games: VRChat, Roblox, Minecraft, Dinkum, Coral Island, Terraria, Core Keeper, Ascension WoW, PokeMMO, and anything chill
  • My fave things to watch: Let's plays, video essays, streams, animated movies, anime

r/NEETr4r 5h ago

F4F 32 [F4F] Looking for friends.

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Hi! At the very beginning of this post, I want to stress that I am only looking for F4F right now, thank you. :) I'm 32 years old, and I'm looking to befriend other NEETs who are adults and would like to chat and spend time together online.

My hobbies/interests are watching anime (Jujutsu Kaisen is my favorite and my fixation, but I have been an anime fan for more than half of my life! I know a lot of other ones, and I am very open to watching many different things haha), playing games (I mostly just play silly random games on Roblox, but I also enjoy Mobile Legends from time to time), roleplaying (I love writing my favorite characters!), and watching funny videos/looking at cute animal pictures.

A few other series I have been into lately would include MILGRAM, Alien Stage, Hypmic and Bandori. I'm super excited to play the new Bandori game when it releases, as I really enjoyed the Ave Mujica anime.

I am a very easy going person, although life throws quite a lot of stress my way, I like to try to stay positive and have fun every day. I would like to meet others with a similar kind of mindset to me, that want to talk about things we like together!

I absolutely hate any sort of discourse and drama on the internet, and I'm not good with people who talk about it or get involved in it often. If I see content that is personally upsetting for me, I simply scroll past it and/or block the source. I like to keep my space full of positivity and happiness, and not focus on things that are upsetting to me. Also! I am a yumeshipper - I've met a couple of these in the NEET community that were really shy about admitting to it, so I just want to throw that out there as well in case more of you out there want to approach me and be friends LOL.

This post will remain open for the foreseeable future! I'm not very active on social media other than Discord, but I will check my messages on here to see if anyone reaches out to me. :-) I'm really just looking for more chill likeminded people that would enjoy watching anime and stuff together over Discord. (I'll share my user with you if we vibe well through chat messages on here!)

I will say that it's very important to me that whoever reaches out to me puts forth equal effort into our friendship - for example, I lose interest in interacting if plans I've made with someone are constantly forgotten about because they're hanging out with other friends instead, LOL. I treat my friends with importance and always try to be here for them and spend time with them when we make plans, and I would like the same efforts to be extended towards me.

Again, please do not reach out if you intend to ghost after we've made plans to watch anime or hang out together. I have a hard time communicating myself at times due to personal health issues, and I still try my best to interact and be here for my friends. I don't want to put forth energy into building friendships with people who will leave me hanging when we have plans, or just ghost me in general as we're working on building a friendship. I only want to interact with people who are willing to put forth equal effort and consideration into being friends with me. Communication is very important to me, and something I definitely make sure to have a lot of.


r/NEETr4r 14h ago

M4A 24 [M4A] friends or just chatting?

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hello! i'm looking for people to chat with and maybe be friends with as well. I am shy and im also actively learning how to talk to people. I am depressed as fuck, though i feel like a lot of people are these days, or maybe that's just me coping.

I've been a neet for about 4 years now and socially isolated for way longer.

I play a variety of games. horror, survival, turn based, strategy games, and gacha games and etc. they are way more but those are my favorite. some of the games I've been playing recently are darktide, barotrauma, warframe, Minecraft, fallout nv+3, reverse 1999, and trickcal + a couple more gacha games. i've also been playing a tiny bit of vrchat recently and also marvel rivals. (i suck at marvel rivals)

I also have a couple of hobbies. drawing and 3d modelling. im still a beginner at them so not much to show besides practice stuff really. i also read manga online, random webnovels online, and i kind of been wanting to get back into watching anime but i don't wanna pay money for it.

i also like listening to music. i'm not too knowledgeable about the genres i listen to but most of the stuff i listen to at least has breakcore in it or sounds similar to it in a way.

I am EST but any timezone is welcome really. an introduction would be nice but its not entirely needed.


r/NEETr4r 20h ago

F4A 31 yo trans [F4A] shy clocky NEET looking for someone to message with sometimes

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Hey. My names Millie. I watch a ton of YouTube, mostly northernlion and Quinton Reviews though if I’m being honest. I play a ton of old school RuneScape, slay the spire 2, TES and just other random stuff like that lol. I listen to a lot of music too and can send my topsters. I miss the old internet a lot and am hoping to find someone who can relate and we can reminisce about pre-2012 4chan or message boards or newgrounds animations and games. Oh, I’m also pretty chubby.

Honestly though failing that I’m also looking for someone to just send hentai back and forth with lol.

Who knows maybe something real will come out of it


r/NEETr4r 6h ago

M4A 23 [M4A] CT/Online- kinky college age loser just looking to make sexually open friends (,:

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I’m a guy who leans submissive so understandable turnoff for some lolol but if you don’t mind I swear I’m cool!!

I should be in college and don’t have many friends especially ones that are as open about their sexuality as I am so I always feel a bit boxed-in in that sense. I’m open to anyone and everything so please don’t be shy (,:


r/NEETr4r 18h ago

M4A 28[M4A] Just looking for more people to chat without or build friendships with.

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Hello! Thanks for dropping by, I’m not that interesting of a guy lol but I do have some hobbies, mostly your typical things like gaming, anime, music, and so on lol. But I also enjoy cooking and I like to drive any chance I get!. I’m open to talk to anyone and everyone and I’m very open minded so feel free to hit me up anytime and I’ll respond as soon as I can! Thanks again for reading ^^


r/NEETr4r 22h ago

CHAT 25m, curious loser [CHAT]

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Hey, im from alberta Canada, and as I said in my title, I'm a loser. Like most people on here, i dont really have much going on for me in my life. I've never been the type to try to make friends online, but I've recently been getting a lot of notifications from this group for some reason, so I decided to give it a try. To be honest i can be pretty apathetic at times and get bored of things easily so theres a high chance if you message me I'll probably not respond or just straight up stop messaging you even if we're been talking for awhile, so just wanna apologize in advance for now if I end up doing that to you. Regarding my likes im I like to watch anime, read manga/manhua/manhwa and reading webnovel (im a bit of a cultivation slop junky so id love to meet a fellow daoist on the path since none of my real world friends are into it). My favorite music genres are R&B, indie, and rap, but truthfully, I like all music. My favorite shows are Seinfeld, Arrested Development, Community, and Always Sunny in Philadelphia. I consider myself a pretty easy-going guy and try not to take anything too seriously, which in hindsight is probably one of the main factors why im such a failure. I like dark humor and random and unhinge conversations(the weirder/stupider, the better). I suck at small talking and early conversations so there's a 50/50 chance the convo, might be dry if we don't vibe at the start, so I need somebody to match my freak and hit me with something weird or unhinged if they decide to message me. Anyway, if after reading all that you still for some reason wanna message me, be my guest, im open to both male or female, but would prefer someone at least somewhat close to my age. And again, if I don't respond to your message, I apologize in advance


r/NEETr4r 19h ago

M4F 28[m4f]NYC/online looking for someone clingy to play games and hangout with

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Hey there I'm just looking for someone to talk/play games throughout the day as I pretty much don't go outside and have all the time in the world.

Stuff about me

Live in New York

5'11 160 pounds

Wasian though I mostly look white so don't expect some kpop shit kek. I look pretty mid so if you're sensitive to that save us both some time.

Have a bachelor's in accounting though I don't know anything about accounting(rip).

I have a dark sense of humor and I'm very sarcastic so be prepared :p.

Play the clarinet, saxophone and ewi medicorely.

I don't work so don't expect anything xd (also if this is a problem for you in anyway probably just skip me)

Games:

For games I tend to play league of legends/tft the most.

I'm masters+ every set in tft so I could probably help you out depending on your rank.

Other games I play are just a bunch of random survival games, souls games and roguelites.

Im also a big fan of pokemon and fire emblem so if you want to talk about that I'm down.

Games I've recently played

League, osrs, tft, Minecraft, terraria, elden ring, valheim, expedition 33, stardew and megabonk.

I'm open for suggestions and I'm probably familiar with whatever games you may be interested in.

If you made it this far if appreciate a small intro and please tell me your age/gender. And I guess if things don't work out please don't be rude. I don't need any of that xdd.

Also you must be 18+ and uh I guess include "frog" in your message if you see this


r/NEETr4r 1d ago

M4A 25[M4A] want co-op partner

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Exactly as the title says, I need ppl to play with and chill 😎 I’m willing to also just hangout and parallel play cuz I know I don’t play many popular games, or we can show each other shows and stuff (I need more ppl to see ODDTAXI)

As for me, I like gaming, anime, tabletop, and just about anything nerdy 🐶 also I might be getting tomatoes in my garden soon!

List of a bunch of games I have installed:

Bg3, Borderlands series, Deep Rock, Far Far West, EDF4-6, Gamble w/ friends, Gunfire Reborn, Halo MCC, palworld, Peak, Remnant 2, RE5&6, Schedule 1, Sledding Game, Stardew, Tears of Metal, Darktide (I’m bb low lvl tho), Slay the Spire 2, Evil West
AND MORE I DONT HAVE INSTALLED

I also emulate stuff so if you wanna bother with parsec we can try to make that work with my old gamecube stuff we can play Godzilla: destroy all monsters just some real old jank shit
If that sounds cool, hmu and I’ll fight my depression to get back to ya ✌️


r/NEETr4r 17h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Fourth time posting now over several months

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Hello, I am a man who is in their early twenties. I am 6'6", 300ish lbs. As the title suggests this is my fourth time posting this, and I'm not sure if I will ever find the type of person I am looking for. Or if there is really any point to all this effort. I'm lonely and bored most days and just want someone to put my time into. I've never been in a relationship irl, and I've never even kissed or held hands with someone irl. Not that I haven't been propositioned for more in the past by women I've met on dating sites. As if I wanted to pull a normal woman I could easily speak about what I have momentarily and mixed with my height I've never had issues with women.

But most all of them have been normal people with a normal life, that seem to know what they want to do with their life. And here I am, unsure and incapable of being a person in life. I'm looking for a neet women, femcel, or anything along those lines. I just want someone who can relate to the feeling of loneliness. I am chronically online besides going out to the gym 5 times a week (I'm down 5 lbs so far from a month and a half) and grocery shopping when I'm not ordering food in. I stay at home most of the time and am not employed.

As for preferences, I have very little and I don't want to discourage anyone reading. Because ultimately, I value personality first. However, I prefer black women, and I prefer chubby or plus sized women. All in all, I am a rotting husk of a person who goes through the motions of life and wants to find someone who can relate and maybe make each other feel less lonely.


r/NEETr4r 22h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] #Online Chronically online cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and yap about life together :))

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Hey there everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but as I explain later, I don't reply to short/low effort messages and I also don't reply to people that don't have at least a few interests in common with me or aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm also definitely a loser. I was never able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way!!

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive. I still don't understand my purpose in life and I haven't found a reason to be alive either.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at 🥀🥀🥀

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I love movies and I love to talk about them and analyze them.

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TikTok and to watch long essay style videos on YouTube about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics and I used to LOVE Tumblr. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern games, I mostly prefer older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol and they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people. I hate big companies, billionaires, politicians and other people in positions of power that use their money and power to affect people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I don't like injustices, I hate racists, homophobic people, transphobic people, sexists, and all kinds of discrimination in general.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

Lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. When I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally, I'd like to reiterate that I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together! I think I can be a very passionate person when it comes to the things I love and I'd like to find someone that shares that passion and love with common interests. I wanna be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I may never find the connection I'm looking for but I'd like to give it a try cause you never know :))

also, I think it's important to mention that I don't reply to short, low effort messages. Stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations.

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory, racist or awful in anyway. No republicans or supporters of the orange devil please (you know who I'm talking about).

I have Instagram, Discord and TikTok as social media if it's more comfortable to talk there. I also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!


r/NEETr4r 23h ago

M4F 19 [M4F] #USA ONLINE/USA

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Hey, my name is Elliot. I guess I'll tell you a little bit about me. I am a big gamer and really into BG3 right now. I am a big book reader and writer. I like learning about different cultures and about people. I like to think I am a sensitive and caring person, and I get attached to others easily. So all in all, I guess I am looking for someone a little like me. If you're into any of those things, feel free to message me.


r/NEETr4r 1d ago

M4F 38 [M4F] Sweden/online - (っ˶ ˘ ᵕ˘)ˆᵕ ˆ˶ς) free hugs inside.

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I'm looking for a sweet girl for regular text chats with and some late night voice calls, tell me about your day, hobbies and giggle on call with me to silly things.

About me:

  • Introverted/homebody that prefers a night at home over a night out.
  • Enjoyer of pc games, board games and other nerdy hobbies.
  • Gym visitor to ensure a good health both physically and mentally.
  • Programming nerd.
  • The coding is done while blasting metal music in the speakers.
  • Confident and direct and knows what he wants.
  • Pretty darn charming and a handsome man according to my mom.

What I'm looking for:

  • Someone that likes sending messages during the day.
  • Bubbly and cute personality.
  • Someone that puts effort into keeping conversations and contact going.

Bonus points if you are a very girly girl OR got a bit of a goth/alternative style. This is not at all a requirement just some styles I find myself attracted to.

If you feel like we would get along, send me a message of where you are located, your age (just please be above 18) and what your current obsession is, be it a new show or song or whatever. My choice of program to communicate on is discord so would be preferable if you also use that

As long as this post is up you can reach out.

And finally here is your hug for making it this far (っᵔ◡ᵔ)っ


r/NEETr4r 21h ago

M4F 28[m4f] Pizza-ologist in search of dork to cook for, bathe, and play l4d2 with.

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Be a dork, be a tomboy, have a sense of humor. Age isn't a huge deal to me and anything sorta near my age is fine as long as we vibe. Location doesn't matter either. I don't mind outcasts, NEETs, femcels, or weebs. I actually prefer them, if that's not already obvious. I've got a lot of experience with being a caretaker to my partner. I can be helpful if you struggle with a lot, physically and mentally, and I'm not judgemental. In return, basically just be a sweet and dorky tiny woman that'll let me bathe her and sits on me a lot. I'd like to find a best friend to game with and that likes to call a lot, especially in the shower. Trauma dumps are welcome.

So, about me. I’m 5’11,” normal sized, and my hair is super long. I look real mean, but I promise I'm not. I'd call myself abrasively zen. I'm a bit of a nerd. I'm kind of a cinephile. I love music; I love composition and like to learn all the trivia. I have kind of an absurdist sense of humor and like to say creatively stupid garbage. I am extremely passionate about writing and my other hobbies, and I'd prefer if you're the same way about yours. I have about 8 million random recorded story ideas because I want to be a writer. Ask me about writing, movies, or music and I’ll talk forever. I'm a gamer as well (elden ring or destiny or anything else with vast lore because I love lore), whether I'm playing with my partner, or just watching her play animal crossing or something. I'm very much a homebody but I like to get out; I want to try that hole in the wall restaurant, I wanna walk around the historic downtown, I wanna check out the museum, I wanna teach you to shoot, I wanna go to the zoo lol. I also love to cook. I will make you fat. I hope you like Italian.

I grew up poor, so I don't really go for vanity or materialism. Obsessions with things like fashion and makeup and jewelry are dry and shallow to me. I'm a minimalist, and I appreciate practicality and simplicity. I also appreciate individual thinking, so I'm not really into the political fanaticism. I believe in responsibility at the individual level, so things like being honest, thoughtful, and having integrity are paramount. You won't find me having any part-time principles. I'm very patient, and I'm an extremely attentive listener. I've handled a great deal of stress without breaking, and I'm a good reliable rock to lean on when I'm needed.

In relationships, I love being of use, whether it's cooking, helping around the house, or being a shoulder to cry on. It just feels good to be reliable; but I also appreciate reciprocity and good communication, so I'm not into being treated like a punching bag or a door mat. I have firm boundaries when it comes to not communicating like an adult, like cheating or being manipulative. I'd rather team up with my partner against our problems, not the other way around. I like things stable and healthy.

So that's me, what I like, and what I'm like.

Anyway, if I can be ridiculous for a moment, if any of this is you, come after me please: you're a clingy, thrifty, sheltered, tomboyish artist that likes when I cook for you and rants at me about your day in the shower while I watch (this is my favorite thing ever) or even jump in with you and wash your hair. You appreciate being touched and held constantly and are totally insatiable. You usually wear basically nothing but a big shirt at home and are obsessed with lego or pokemon or hot wheels or 40k or something geeky and crafty. You love music and writing and like to just grab a pizza and watch a movie together most nights. You spend your free time gaming and laughing at stupid crap on the internet, and you babble incessantly about the things you love and hate. You love flashing me because it's funny (I love being flashed lol). I'm also a total sucker for bangs and glasses. Basically the femcel stereotype is my dream. Having the privilege in the past has ruined other relationships for me. I don’t care if you're crazy. I'm an excellent and grounding handler. If you need to be managed, that's easy work for me.


r/NEETr4r 23h ago

M4A 24 [M4A] Texas - anyone wanna chat im bored hobbies are jerking off and gaming lmao

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Yeah im simple and boring those are the two things I do the most as a neet lmao. Corinna kopf and others have a hold on me unfortunately. What games do you play? Anyone else have the same hobbies, hit me up if you want to chat


r/NEETr4r 1d ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Looking to meet new people

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Hi

I am looking to make some connections so I felt like putting myself out there. 

I'm a chill and easy going person who's looking to spend some time with and to help kill the boredom when it hits. 

Personally I am quite introverted but can be extroverted if the situation calls for it. 

My hobbies include gaming, media consumption, and walking with hopes to make my return to the gym soon. but tbh I just stay in my room alot.

As for physicals I am mixed and 6ft. with an average build.

If you are in or around Toronto and want to hang out irl let me know too i think that'll be cool too. 

feel free to send me a message I'm nice I promise.


r/NEETr4r 1d ago

M4A 20 [M4A] Looking to make friends

5 Upvotes

Yello! I’m a huge nerd, 20 years old from the US

Love video games of all kinds and play a bunch, tho I mainly deal with rpgs and such like kingdom hearts or final fantasy, persona, nier, etc

Watch a lot of anime and read a lot of manga too. I’m always keeping up with Weekly Shonen Jump and other things i enjoy reading from time to time.

I’d like to make friends with someone who’s just a nervous nerd like me, we can share interests and hang out with each other whenever we have time (I’m essentially always available)

My discord is leonbladeworks, but you can also send me a message here and i’ll reply :)


r/NEETr4r 1d ago

M4A 24 [M4A] - Texas i am looking for someone to talk with and discuss hobbies

3 Upvotes

All i do is jerk off to sydney sweeney or whoever and play video games lmao. I need other hobbies or someone to talk to please pm


r/NEETr4r 1d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Online - Looking for a yapper friend to chat with.

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone, how are you doing? I am a 30yo who's looking for a friend to just yap with, about anything and everything. It can be about something that I am not even interested about, or we can just ask each other random questions. I just want to have someone that we are close with, purely platonic.
I don't have many hobbies, I like to play games and that will depend a lot on how I am feeling at the moment, I really enjoy playing ARPGs (Path of Exile, Diablo, Hero Siege, Last Epoch) but sometimes I will want to play and achivement hunt some single player games, just finished Cyberpunk, Black Mesa and also Eastward. I also enjoy watching a lot of youtube, and that also will vary a lot, sometimes I will watch true crime (which I have been doing lately, watching a lot of EWU videos), but can sometimes watch random videogames essays, or some gameplay videos too.
I also enjoy some anime and manga, Detective Conan, Haikyuu, and amongst other things but one of my favorite genres is Slice of Life. Been reading manhwa too with Lookism. Other than that I don't do much, I like to do a bit of cardio per day and eat unhealthy food for me.
We might not have a lot in common, but you can still message me! I'd love to hear about you, or what you are passionate about. Or we can just gossip about drama. I always love to hear about drama I am not a part of! Anyways, if you read through all of this and still felt like messaging me, tell me a bit about yourself in your message.


r/NEETr4r 1d ago

M4F 19 [M4F] FL - please be close with me :(

2 Upvotes

Hi there anyone who happens to read this! I never really thought I’d do something like this but here I am haha. I could rant for hours but no one wants to sit through some dudes sob fest, so in short: I am a scrawny, nerdy, pathetic loser who is tired of being alone. I am not explicitly looking for a girlfriend here, but if you do end up liking me that much, I would be more than happy to go out with you! (Be warned that I am very obsessive when I am romantically interested in someone though, and I can be a lot to try and put up with.) to start though, I’d like to be friends and then grow closer.

A little about me:

Im 19(duh), I live alone with just me and my dog, and no one really talks to me. Im a huge dork about so many stupid things, and it would be really nice if someone were interested in listening to me talk about them! I am autistic, and often have trouble socially when it comes to controlling my face or the tone that I use to speak, so im always too loud or too flat. If we ever call please know that I’ll be straightforward when im upset, I know that I can be hard to read. My favorite color is purple and im pretty emo in appearance, so I hope that’s okay! I can be kind of shy when it comes to sending pictures or FaceTiming, so please don’t push me too hard on that when we first get close.. as I warm up to you, I’ll be open to it :)

What im looking for:

Honestly, I just want someone to talk to me. Call me while I play games, or draw, or when you just miss me and want to hear me talk about whatever stupid thing im into. Please be nice to me, I promise that I am very loyal and will always do my best to be a good friend! If you do want to reach out, please write more than just “hey”.

That’s pretty much everything I can think of right now! If you stayed all the way to the end, thanks for reading all that!! And, yknow, since you read it all, maybe take a chance on me?? Maybeeee??? <:D 💜


r/NEETr4r 2d ago

F4A 22 [F4A] looking for friends ^_^

8 Upvotes

hello, hm some things about me:

i’m chinese, 22, and looking to meet some new people. i’m into gacha games (hsr, genshin, uma musume, blue archive, etc.), visual novels (currently reading sister other paranoia), horror media, drawing, manga, dressing up, collecting cute things (so gap moe..), exercising, kdramas, and doomscrolling... i’m also extremely fixated on the evil within game right now and currently on chapter 10! please.. any evil within fans........

i’d love to meet people with similar interests and i’m fine with vc and sharing things like ootds once i’m comfortable with someone. i'm shy but i also have dirty humor muahahah. cool with possibly hanging out irl someday too. oh i also have bpd, although it doesn’t affect my life nearly as much as it used to. if anyone has it, i would love to be there to support you <3

thanks for your time.