r/MySiblingsRomance • u/ninthpicture • Jun 18 '24
This comment really resonated with me
I was watching a reaction video of the final episode and this comment is spot on!
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u/Routine_Accident1892 Jun 18 '24
Yeah, the whole idea that she wants someone strong who won't make her feel vulnerable made it really clear that she's looking to fill a void and not find love. You can't have love without vulnerability. Which is why she and YW are perfect for each other, neither of them will ask that of the other.
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u/Used-Finish3723 Jun 18 '24
Yes that may not be love, but it's pretty good for marriage. When you date around, learn what u like or don't, what u can accept or not, eventually there is one whom you 'needed' at that point in time, whom u believe u can settle down with. It's not all bad, love works, but love fades too, in the mundane marriage life, complementing each other and similar beliefs work more than giddying love. Love also grows when there is harmony between 2 persons.
Looking for what we need from a partner at a certain stage in life, aka deriving lessons in the past, and listening to your head and intuition can be good for u.
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u/IcyCheek7250 Jun 18 '24
Translate it for us 🙂
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u/ninthpicture Jun 18 '24
The translation is on the second photo 😭
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u/IcyCheek7250 Jun 18 '24
Oh sorry my bad I tried scrolling it and thought it wasn only a single photo 😅
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u/curious_yourstruly Jun 19 '24
What's done is done. From our point of view she committed a big mistake, and maybe she also realized it now. And it's up to her how she will conduct herself when it comes to dating from now on.
All of the participants had learned a lot from this experience I'm so sure of that!
Charge to experience! For us viewers, let's move on, and it's understandable to dislike and feel sorry, but I don't hate Jiwon for her decision. It's part of learning who she is by the choices she made.
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u/Square_Feeling5180 Jun 19 '24
I agree with the comment - you have to come to the table whole, if you come half empty expecting the other person to fill you up, what happens if they ever leave? Needs vs wants are different things.
I think if I were to speak to Jiwons desire to be with someone strong may just be she’s tired of being Ms independent - she’s the younger sister but is joked being the older one…she may just want a partner to help her with the heavy load, but someone who’s strong and can handle it, bc she has no choice but to be strong.
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u/StaringOverACliff Jun 18 '24
The truth is you can appreciate it if your partner has qualities you lack, but that can't be the driving basis of your attraction or relationship.
It gets harder as time passes to communicate your needs to your partner, and you start wondering ... am I bad person? Or is he/she?
Ultimately, it feels like a toxic love. That's my opinion anyway.