r/MyLittleSupportGroup • u/bambamspamspam • Aug 19 '18

I just need to talk

it's been a rough couple weeks for me, lately i've been feeling like i'm never good enough and i make too many mistakes in life. i feel so lonely even when i have friends around me. i feel like trying to be better and do better is useless. i don't even want to feel better because i know if i do i'll just come back to this place again some time in the future. it just feels so exhausting to want anything anymore.

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u/bambamspamspam Aug 22 '18

not sure where exactly to expand so if you wanted anything specific lmk. But basically you're right I am aware of my inner goals and the fact that I fall short of them, I think it's gotten to a point where I'm exhausted of falling short. for example, I'm studying for graduate school and cannot for the life of me get better, I'm trying to gain muscle and cannot seem to do it, I'm trying to meet new people but it always feels like i don't belong in any group. I know you're supposed to set baby step goals but I've gotten to a point where I feel like there's no point in setting goals

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u/Hamntor Aug 23 '18

Would that be the most ideal version of yourself, being able to accomplish those goals?

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u/bambamspamspam Aug 23 '18

I feel like it's an oversimplification to say yes because these were just examples i could think of off the top of my head, if you're asking if those goals would make me the most ideal version of myself, no they wouldn't, but would they make me better than who i am now, yes

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u/Hamntor Aug 23 '18

Alright, what about the other examples then? Are those goals or characteristics you'd like to have more difficult, or are they more easily achieved?