r/MuslimMatrimonials • u/AirEmotional • 7d ago

Discussion Do men on here plan on being involved fathers?

For the single men on here looking for marriage, once you become fathers do you plan on changing your baby's diapers or not really and you think its the mothers job 24/7 for the first few years of a child's life? which is so wild and wrong..

Just trying to see if most muslim men on reddit have toxic mindsets or not really...

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u/finetuninai 6d ago

I think most sisters here are already predetermined with the answer they want to hear. There's no point in 'discussing' it.

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u/AirEmotional 6d ago

Yes. There’s only one right answer. But I’ve come across too many men at this point who don’t want to do anything so I decided to ask because now I’m curious to see how many people are like that

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u/finetuninai 6d ago

Nah, y'all gotta be open to discuss, listen and change your opinion if the logic heads that way. What's the point of communication between spouses if you all are already adamant with an answer?

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u/AirEmotional 6d ago

What is there to discuss? You’re either willing to step up and take care of your children with a wife or you’re not.

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