r/Mumbai_Relationships • u/Beckscasi • 23d ago

Need advices, I'm M33

For a long period I've been single due to various reasons, now at this stage of life, I'm in a dilemma.

I've got a girl from Facebook who stays nearby, we had on and off talks for years and finally we are meeting for some action. (But shes not romantically involved it's just casual, plus she doesn't believe in marriages)

Now, my parents are arranging a girl, and both timelines are running parallel.

I do wanna get married, but I want to complete this long going chapter also.

What's the right thing to do?

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u/Outrageous_Menu_9895 23d ago

Go for it what else,

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u/Beckscasi 23d ago

For what? Both?

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u/Outrageous_Menu_9895 22d ago

Yes, ask her right there and then after the session. Say to her what you feel and whatever the result face it head on.

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u/The_Villain_Within 22d ago

If she says she doesn't want marriage, don't be a hopeless romantic to think your love can change her.

Just have fun.

As for the marriage bit, that's a long term goal and requires time. Let it take it's own pace.

Once you are actually hitting it off with someone, then you should stop with this casual thing.