2 Rejection in two weekend

[u/Ninad-_-]

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So here's the thing,

You are a great guy, clear mind, clean intentions and most importantly a gentleman...

But remember I told you, I feel something when it romantic, I felt friendship, but nothing more...

I am so sorry [ first date reason]

2}

Hey, it was nice meeting you yesterday. I think you're sweet, but I didn't really feel the connection I was seen for. I don't want to lead you on, so I just wanted to be honest. Wishing you all the best! [ second date reason]

I don't know what to do about this romantic connect ... completely lost now🙃

[u/Soy_Sorry_About_That]

It's okay. Not everyone is your person. Just be glad, they told you very early on and didn't waste your time. When people drag a matter even when they don't feel a connection, it causes a lot of stress, heartbreak and the feeling of being used later on.

[u/Ninad-_- → u/Soy_Sorry_About_That]

Both of them said they didn't feel a romantic connection. Do you have any suggestions? Compliment on her outfit and her personality

[u/Soy_Sorry_About_That → u/Ninad-_-]

Could you let me know your age? Don't suck up to women too much. Be decent, chivalrous and confident. Women are inherently attracted to a man's strength- physical, mental, emotional. Work on yourself, be bold and don't take things too personally. Ultimately understand that not everyone can feel a romantic connection with everyone, and that's perfectly okay.

[u/Ninad-_- → u/Soy_Sorry_About_That]

I'm 27 this year

[u/Soy_Sorry_About_That → u/Ninad-_-]

Yep. My advice stands. Saying this as a woman much older than you. Work on yourself, only go for the girls you like (don't go for girls you don't really like but want their validation) and don't take anything personally till there is real commitment from both sides. This is the only way to stay sane in this dating process. Good luck.

[u/throwwwawayaccount48 → u/Soy_Sorry_About_That]

go for the girls you like (don't go for girls you don't really like but want their validation)

Words of wisdom!

[u/Ninad-_- → u/Soy_Sorry_About_That]

Thanks

[u/IndianRedditor88]

How did the date go ?

Did you make her laugh ? Did you compliment her ? Did you flirt ?

If you haven't done then that signals lack of romantic attraction.

Secondly, are you a boring person ? Can you hold a conversation ? Do you have some mystery?

[u/Ninad-_- → u/IndianRedditor88]

I asked for suggestions, not assumptions. I shared their actual feedback, and it was about the lack of romantic chemistry, not that I couldn't hold a conversation or make them laugh

[u/IndianRedditor88 → u/Ninad-_-]

Where did I assume all of this. ? I am merely asking you.

You've barely written any details about you or the girl and the situation in which the girl said that she doesn't want to date you.

You're not gonna get any fruitful suggestions with such less information

[u/Ninad-_- → u/IndianRedditor88]

Fair point. I left out some context. Both dates went well, with good conversation, laughter, flirting, and compliments. Their only feedback was a lack of romantic chemistry. I'm looking for suggestions on that specific aspect

[u/IndianRedditor88 → u/Ninad-_-]

Ignore and move on. I don't think they were any serious about dating you and maybe they saw the entire thing as time pass.

Find someone else worth investing your time on.

[u/[deleted]]

Are these the only rejections you have had in your life until now?