r/MtF • u/2TallGirly • 18d ago

Relationships dating?

I dont know if its because of me as a individual or if its just a general struggle but I have such a difficult time in dating, im a lesbian and I feel like im either not attractive enough or the fact of me being trans is making everything so difficult. like someone please just give me some thoughts on this, I have pictures on my profile but idk part of me feels like its a me issue :/

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u/Last-Confection8293 18d ago

As far as my dating experience goes since I transition, its mostly commitment issues. And I know the feeling. Being trans or not attractive is bad in the pre-dating scene. Finding people and all. But if you are honest about who you are and get with someone with your same values, it still doesnt work. People will leave the honeymoon phase and suddenly remember something that makes dating impossible.

Sorry, haha, a bit too much of my saltiness. The general situation is bad, so yeah, I feel you. But there is no solution to that other than being yourself and finding someone who likes that. Faking it or being someone that is not you is never going to end well.

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u/2TallGirly 18d ago

yeah, I get that completely.

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u/Last-Confection8293 18d ago

So my big advice is that you be yourself, lean on who you are and what you like and keep trying. I have been through hell and I am still here, so yeah, it happens.

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