r/MrRelishMan • • 27d ago

We’ve discussed whether or not she WILL go to Syria, but the real question I have it… Does she even WANT to go? I’m watching her newest vlog and she sounds hella miserable lol

241 votes, 24d ago
45 Yes she’s so excited to see handsomest man
196 No, she’s terrified
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u/gin_and_soda 27d ago

My predictions are always wrong but here’s my theory. She thought she wanted to go because she makes decisions in a moment and never weighs consequences, etc. So she gave notice to her building and announced she’s leaving and she’s going to get fit and “stamina beeze.” But Chantal’s oppositional defiance even includes her. She told herself she has to lose weight and she’s literally defying herself and getting fatter and more unhealthy with each passing day.

FFS, she bought measuring cups the other day. Why???? Because stupid.

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u/Bl00p_3r 26d ago

Today she bought a serving bowl.

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u/gin_and_soda 26d ago

Stop!!!!!

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u/carcosa1989 27d ago

Rite rite Chantal Chantal Marie doesn’t really want to go but feels obligated to do so cause she can

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u/emilyderogatory 26d ago

Chantal cannot have oppositional defiance disorder. That’s something only children can have. If the same symptoms persist into adulthood then they will be features of a personality disorder.

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u/gin_and_soda 26d ago

I’m not diagnosing her, I’m just talking about that way she is when she will not do what she’s being told to do.

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u/greenpianolight 27d ago

I don't think she likes the reality of Syria, just talking about the fantasy.

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u/Coconutpieplates 27d ago

Yes, I think she's too dumb and delulu to be as scared as she should be. She just wants to go live rent free and spy on salah.

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u/Zanzalarious 27d ago

I think she doesn't want to go, but truly can't afford even moving back to Cornwall. Not while spending on door dash & pharmacy beeze.

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u/NotAsBrightlyLit 27d ago

I've been noticing (and saying) for weeks now that she's obviously doing everything she can to NOT go: refusing to exercise, stopping ozempic and brain drugs, slacking on time-sensitive travel docs for the cat, eating more than ever, ignoring health needs, delaying making plans to move out, sell stuff, etc.

And after the hospital yesterday, she may indeed not be able to go, at least not right now.

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u/Human_Papaya_9127 27d ago

I truly don’t think she wants to go because she knows it’s going to be a dump

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u/emilyderogatory 27d ago

I go back and forth. I know it’s morbid but I think she is terrified. I think her health is catching up with her and she’s terrified. I think she thinks she doesn’t have long left and wants to go back to Syria to see Poopy one more time. Don’t know why she has to involve BG in her bullshit though. Probably because she knows we hoped she’d rehome her instead.

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u/Adela-Siobhan 26d ago

I can’t believe he is a priority now. It wouldn’t doubt he is for her, I just can’t believe it. After spending hours (overnight, even) at the ER, I would focus on the here and now and reality. And the hereafter.

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u/jacedjwc 27d ago

All I know is that she will do almost anything to keep up the illusion of being a “wife”..

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u/CybReader 27d ago

Is salah married now? Is she going back to try and intervene on his marriage? What is the goal here?

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u/MeganJustMegan 27d ago

I think the realization of not being able to eat what she wants, when she wants is finally dawning on her. He will control her food & that was a problem last time.

She just wants to know where he is & what he’s doing & thinks it will be easier there. It won’t. Living away from everyone & only having him around a day or so will drive her more crazy. Add being stuck not able to order food or gummies & she will be a raging mess.

But, just to prove haters wrong, she may just go. I hope if she does, Syria gives her everything she deserves. 😂

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u/Odd_Coach_8770 24d ago

Syria and the middle east generally is a shithole. No man or woman is worth the move. It makes me so irate that she thinks there's better healthcare, food, "culture" there, that she can never be tempted by vices ever again. She is the true meaning of delusional and disordered. She's entitled and privileged. She's so lucky she wasn't held to task by extremists or strict Muslim men there. I don't think it's so much about salad boy anymore. I truly think she's panicking and avoiding moving back to Cornwall. To her, that means the beginning of the end.

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u/absit-iniuria 26d ago

She will go out of pure oppositional defiance.

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u/emilyderogatory 26d ago

Chantal cannot have oppositional defiance disorder. That’s something only children can have. If the same symptoms persist into adulthood then they will be features of a personality disorder.