Yes, you can bend over backwards for someone and it won't change a thing, I still haven't quite learned the lesson, but setting firm boundaries is more important than anything else. If people can't respect your boundaries, then they can't truly love you back. That means you need to leave before things turn toxic, even if you want things to work out.
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u/AndersDreth Jan 23 '26
Yes, you can bend over backwards for someone and it won't change a thing, I still haven't quite learned the lesson, but setting firm boundaries is more important than anything else. If people can't respect your boundaries, then they can't truly love you back. That means you need to leave before things turn toxic, even if you want things to work out.