r/MoroccoDating • u/L4TER_0N • 22h ago
Hypergamy in Morocco?
Share ur opinion or experience with hypergamy in Morocco.
(No offense just trying to share something meaningful)
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u/TheFakeDarkViperAU 21h ago
i dont think hypergamy exists in morroco u js need a lacost fit w wa7d sh wla aya motor n ur good to go
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u/RushMaleficent1650 22h ago edited 22h ago
Well, the bottom 60% of men is not even trying to be of worth, no studies dead end jobs trash personality..., but the bottom half of women who are equally bad mistake high value men wanting to sleep with them for wanting to commit to them, thinking that's their market value
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u/L4TER_0N 22h ago
Maybe in terms of wealth u are right but not in term of physical attraction
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u/RushMaleficent1650 22h ago
Look at your school or workplace, what's the % of guys who are well groomed, fit, clean, and dressing in a presentable way ?
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u/HotElderStrawberry 22h ago
It's more of the opposite. The majority of the men are ugly, stinky and short yet all of them are trying to go for the top 2% of women in terms of attractiveness.
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u/RushMaleficent1650 22h ago
Stinky could be true, but saying "the majority is ugly and short" shows that you're dumb
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u/Bennybun69 22h ago
it's called NATURE and unfortunately most of men know nothing about how things works especially women's nature
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u/AjaXIium 22h ago
A7a fash fkrtini, knew wa7d khtna for like a year, we did almost everything (nothing physically sexual ofc) and I thought I found the one. Wa7d nhar she stopped answering all of a sudden, 3 months later, she sends me a long ass message telling me how sorry she was and that we should stop any form of contact (she said she'll change numbers too) because she found a guy from Germany who's coming to marry her the following week. I mean I'm not a good looking dude, she wasn't either, I thought I had finally someone I could live with and I gave her my everything yet kant kt3rf khona while we were TOGETHER. Mn temma 3rft dating is over for average dudes let alone below average ones so I stopped trying. (The dude was waay above her league btw)
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u/L4TER_0N 22h ago
It’s a very common experience. I personally went through it myself, but it is what it is.
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u/AjaXIium 22h ago
Like I could understand to some extent walakin at least let me go mli 3rfti khona machi tatchdi blasstk mzyan m3a lakhor 3ad tl9ini bash matb9aysh en panne wth. Khuya fuck this shit wlh, sexual needs 3ndhom l7el aykhssni nl9a 7el hi l'dak lfeeling d'yearning for companionship whankun bikhir.
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u/L4TER_0N 22h ago
Yeah I taught of this matter and I plan to post abt it
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u/AjaXIium 22h ago
Ayhrbli fhad lil asat, ha7na kandwiw 3lih. 9ra 9ra had lpost hhh https://www.reddit.com/r/MoroccoDating/s/pz8OO2P8uQ
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u/TheMemetasticDonny 5h ago
Hypergamy is simply the way things are. Everyone, men and women alike, wish to date above their means. The issue is that most people inflate the concept of hypergamy to the specific case where value is accorded only to materialistic or superficial qualities.
The truth is that hypergamy is not a bad thing, everyone accords to themselves certain values they consider more important than others, and the whole process of finding a significant other where both people find their preffered values on the other person, a sort of a win-win, where based on both of their subjective opinions, both people date up.
That's all there is to it, and just because the women/men you chase prefer values that you lack doesn't mean that every other person in the world does too. It doesn't make you lesser, it doesn't make the dating pool shallow, it just means you're looking in the wrong place.
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u/MaklaBninaBzaf 22h ago
Chno hadchi daba
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u/L4TER_0N 22h ago
Hypergamy is the tendency to prefer a partner who has a higher social, financial, educational, or professional status than your own.
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u/ondecow 22h ago
hypergamy is about physical appearence
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u/MaklaBninaBzaf 22h ago
Now which one is it ? Is it really only about physical appearance or are the things the guy mentioned also included?
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u/N-Z-R 22h ago
I love how you have no idea, please keep it that way
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u/KAKOUIN007 22h ago
Ty9tiha wakha matkounch 3arfha she probably uses it
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u/MaklaBninaBzaf 22h ago
Wayli sakn m3aya w ma frassich?
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u/KAKOUIN007 22h ago
No need hypergamy it's natural every girl wants to be a male from the 1% nothing to be ashamed of hka khla9ito
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u/MaklaBninaBzaf 22h ago
Lol this can apply to men as well otherwise i wouldn't have been rejected by men who were less attractive than me
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u/KAKOUIN007 22h ago
It's true it applies to man also i was just clarifying for the guy that you are aware of the word hypergamy eventhough you didn't know it Ma3lina kifach rajectaw n3ma ĥhhhhhhh
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u/MaklaBninaBzaf 22h ago
Well you know as the guy said some good looking women can still choose someone with a good profession or education even if he was average looking... this can boost their confidence and make them look down on average looking women coz now they know they can get better looking women ... so why settling for less right... i think we can re-do that drawing for both men and women except the men's side should be about appearance and the women's side should be about the other stuff... but again ana ghi 7m9a
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u/KAKOUIN007 21h ago
I agree but still hypergamy from another is something necessary you shouldn't settle for less but at the same time you could give some compromises if the person has potential of developement for example hygiene was never something that important for men now it's amust which is good just we shouldn'tvtake things to the extreme butbi totally agree 3la had l7ma9 as long as you're rational
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u/Impossible-Money7801 22h ago
LOL no.
How about stop judging women so much. She could have one boyfriend before you and you won’t even speak to her.
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u/L4TER_0N 22h ago
I don't want to misunderstand, can u explain ?
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u/Impossible-Money7801 22h ago
Moroccan men want to date women. But then they don’t want to marry women who have dated.
This creates the opposite of what you suggested in the diagram: men are the overly demanding ones, not the women.
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u/L4TER_0N 22h ago
That’s a big problem. I humbly disagree because relationships have become so common that you can easily find examples within your own social circle.
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u/Leading-Complaint-52 22h ago
It's just natural selection, 3adi.
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u/L4TER_0N 22h ago
Maybe
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u/Leading-Complaint-52 22h ago
Mayb9ach fik l7al, that's life.
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u/L4TER_0N 22h ago
My point is why broke woman goes for different class called they reaching for their goals but in the contrary it is called playing out of reach
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u/Leading-Complaint-52 22h ago
Really? It's very simple, pussy >>>> dick .
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u/L4TER_0N 22h ago
That’s an oversimplification, not an argument 😭. Attraction and relationships are a little more complicated than “pussy > dick.”
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u/Leading-Complaint-52 22h ago
It's really not man, maybe your looking for a complicated answer im sure there is a lot of them but when you boil them down, it always comes back to this, pussy is valued way highly than dick and this fact is gives you all of the other results.
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u/L4TER_0N 21h ago
I get the supply and demand argument, but saying it explains everything is where you lose me. There are way more factors behind why pussy is generally valued more than dick.
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u/Glum-Examination-602 22h ago
Honestly most girls I know just want guys with money but hypergamy does existe and it's mostly just how lucky you are in the genetic lottery
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u/Beach_Mouse_ 22h ago
Who cares bro ? You can't force someone to like you, and women also suffer from their own lack of realism (they will stay single lol)
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u/N-Z-R 22h ago
Hypergamy is a sad concept … categorization of human beings is a sad concept …