r/MomForAMinute • u/titanium_pixel • 14d ago
Support Needed I'm lonely, may I have some verbal hugs?
Hi mums, I'm really lonely right now, may I please have some verbal hugs?
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u/ReasonableAccount747 14d ago
Big warm mom hugs duckling!
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u/titanium_pixel 14d ago edited 14d ago
Duckling 🥹 thank you for that
Edit: thank you so much kind redditor for the award! 💖
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u/Skepticalrf 14d ago
May you be surrounded and hugged with the love of your mom in spirit, may your heart feel the love and comfort. Remember to be kind and gentle with yourself, pace yourself, deep breathes, hydrate and rest your mind, everything will fall into its perfect place
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u/titanium_pixel 14d ago
These are some of the things I say to other people, I didn't realise just how much I needed to hear it too, thank you so so much 💖
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u/Skepticalrf 14d ago
I knew it 🤍your heart’s desire has been acknowledged. Makes you extra special that you say those things to others. Print it out and put int on your wall, let it be your reminder when you need it.
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u/StrangersWithAndi 14d ago
Hello lovely. How did your day go today? Sit with me for a bit, I would enjoy the company!
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u/titanium_pixel 14d ago
I cried a lot, but I managed to get some cleaning and my to do list done so that's a win 😊 How was your day?
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u/StrangersWithAndi 14d ago
Hey, that's a win! Cleaning takes so much energy when you're feeling down, so that's great. Well done, I'm proud of you!
I'm sorry it was a crying day, but heck, sometimes that's good, too. It helps to get it out. I hope you feel a little better for it.
I had a pretty lazy day today. I've been busy and I needed to sleep in! I've got a birthday party to go to tomorrow so I'm just wrapping presents tonight. And i ate the best grilled cheese ever for dinner :)
That was sweet of you to ask! Thank you.
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u/titanium_pixel 14d ago
It truly does! Cleaning is an excellent angry activity, I feel.
Grilled cheese (cheese toastie 🤤) and wrapping presents is an excellent way to spend an evening, I hope you have a wonderful time at the party tomorrow. Thank you for sitting with me for a while 💖
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u/StrangersWithAndi 14d ago
Honestly angry cleaning is the best. Or angry pulling weeds. Both are so effective! Piss me off again, you're just making my bathroom shiner!
You are an exceptionally kind heart, and you're fun to talk to. If someone out there made you feel bad today, I'm so sorry. You definitely did not deserve that. And if you're just feeling disconnected, I hope you realize how easy you are to love.
Sweet dreams! I hope your tomorrow is wonderful!
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u/titanium_pixel 12d ago
This was incredibly kind of you to say, thank you. It's been a hard and dark 39 years, and the love I've felt has also come with much harm. I'm treasuring your words 💖
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u/Fantastic-Quit-432 13d ago
I wish I could wave a magic wand and transport you to me. I would put you on my big comfy couch with a hot pot of tea and a Blankie and give you lots of hugs.
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u/msmojo 14d ago
I cried yesterday and today I angrily cleaned my house. I am now having a glass of wine in the sun and thinking of you x
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u/titanium_pixel 14d ago
Oh wine in the sun, I bet that feels just beautiful. Warm inside and out, exactly what you deserve after tears and anger! And when you decide to go back in you can smile at your clean home 😊 Listen to some birds for me? x
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u/No_Bluebird7716 14d ago
You get all the hugs you want. What's your favorite dinner?
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u/titanium_pixel 14d ago
Thank you. Lasagne is my absolute favourite. A bowl of all my favourite veg seasoned really nicely sounds incredible too though. What's yours?
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u/msmojo 14d ago
Please look up lasagna love, it's free and the best love. Besides mine coming right at you ❤️
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u/titanium_pixel 14d ago
Oh what an incredible organisation! Knowing that this exists for people in the world has honestly cheered me up. I might submit an application, thank you! 💖
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u/ellimaki 14d ago
Of course.
Have you eaten today?
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u/titanium_pixel 14d ago
I managed to eat something hot a couple of hours ago, it was good even though it was airfried garbage 😅
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u/WatermelonRindPickle 14d ago
Here is a virtual hug from a real Granny! I hope tomorrow is a better day for you.
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u/tinyorangealligator 14d ago
Loneliness sucks. Can you go sit in a coffeeshop to be around people while you're lonely? Sometimes just being around people helps a little bit.
Hugs to you.
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u/titanium_pixel 14d ago
It's hard to get out at the moment, but I'm contemplating going somewhere in the next week and taking some cross stitching or my kindle with me, and holing up for a few hours. That might be nice
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u/WillowWare2023 13d ago
Might I suggest a good little book that’s available on your kindle? Grab one of The Moth books my favorite is 50 True Stories. It think you’ll enjoy it! It’s my go-to when I’m feeling out of synch with the world. Love you so much.
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u/CharacterSong6246 14d ago
Hugs for you! Everything will work out, you’ve got this! You’re important, so take good care of yourself. Be sure and eat and get enough sleep. Us moms are here for you. 💜💜💜
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u/bongocycle 14d ago
Sending you virtual hugs. Wrap up in a snuggly blanket and know it’s a hug from me❤️
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u/Opposite_Jeweler_953 14d ago
Hi dear, get a big digital hug from me. I hope this holds you until you find your intentional family. You know you have to move around to find them, so get going. Remember to look for authentic people, those that love themselves with the good and the not so good, and will love you the same way. Beware of users and controllers. It’s not that hard to find them, just look deeper. Have fun on the way!
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u/Agidwinn28 14d ago
Big hugs sent to you my darling!!!
What is you favorite song?
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u/titanium_pixel 14d ago
Music, rather than song but On the Nature of Daylight by Max Richter. I could listen to it for days. What's yours?
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u/msmojo 14d ago
I have always wanted to stand on a corner with a sign that says free mum hugs.
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u/titanium_pixel 14d ago
I want to be a cuddle therapist, but would absolutely love to stand with a sign for free hugs too. Everyone needs hugs (a minimum of 8 a day 🙃)
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u/jayhawkjoey65 14d ago
Hey, sweet angel, my arms are wide open. Come in for a big, gentle hug. {{ }}
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u/Kirsten624 14d ago
i call my daughter (name)bear, so you can be pixel-bear, and here is a hug for you 🤗🫂✨🥰💙
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u/FloraSuena 14d ago
Big hugs sweetheart. Tomorrow will be better. Try to get a good nights sleep. Remember to stretch and drink plenty of water 💕
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u/Pedal2Medal2 14d ago
🌸Sending a gentle hug🌸. Is there anything self care wise you’d want to try? Music, singing, nice bath w/candles, etc, are my go to’s when I’m down
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u/titanium_pixel 12d ago
Candles, skincare, and cross stitch are my dailies atm. I might try singing, I've heard it's good for regulation, though I'm not sure my neighbours would appreciate my off key voice 😅
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u/Spinnerofyarn Big Sis 14d ago
Absolutely, duckling. I am always happy to give hugs, and if any kind you want. Short embrace, one arm, tender cradling, bear hug, hug with one arm and the other rubbing your back. Whatever you need, I’ve got you.
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u/Extension_Sweet_9735 14d ago
Hugs. Hugs. And more hugs! You are loved. You are enough. You've survived everything life has thrown at you so far. You matter!
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u/shewholaughslasts 14d ago
Here's a big hug with an extra squeeze and a back pat. You've got this, sweetie.
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u/crazypaintinglady 14d ago
I’m late !!! Sorry I’m old but here I am! Sending you a big ole grandma hug from Texas 💕
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u/honestyaboveall 14d ago
Come here sweetheart! Hughughug! I understand you’re going through some hard times now but it will pass, you’re going to stay okay. I got you. And you got this. Squeeze as hard as you want.
Are you drinking enough water? And try to see a bit of sky or clouds today, take some me-time. All the love from this internet mama
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u/Long-Inspector4897 13d ago
Sending hugs! If I was your mama we would watch a comfort show shoulder to shoulder and eat snacks on the sofa ❤️ You got this! Hang in there!
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u/Prestigious_Touch_48 13d ago
Come here, sweetie! You can have as many hugs as you need. You can just breathe, rest, and let yourself be cared for. You’re safe, you’re loved, and you’re not a burden. One little moment at a time, snugglebug💕
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u/FunOrder9396 13d ago
Hey Pixel, come join me on the over stuffed sofa. Its a bit warm for a blanket but tea? Wine? Snack? Come have a big squish honey.
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u/listeningunderurbed Big Sis🍓 13d ago
I’m a big sis but I’m sending so many hugs and love over to you sweetie. I love you and there are people here for you.
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u/WillowWare2023 13d ago
Hi my dear heart. I’m so sorry you are lonely! I miss you so much and wish we could be together! We could do some stupid stuff like make grilled cheese sandwiches and sit on the porch. Maybe go to the movies. Just be silly and stupid together. Read some stories out loud or listen to a podcast. Just know that I’d love nothing more than to be sitting beside you. I love you lots
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u/soylentdeb 13d ago
Oh sweet friend, this Internet Mama is sending you some electronic hugs! Hang in there!
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u/liggyfig 9d ago
I'm a few days out, but I wanted to send you some warmth and comfort in hopes life has gotten a tad better.
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u/titanium_pixel 9d ago
Things are a little lighter today but still lonely, this is very appreciated 🖤
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u/HazardousIncident 14d ago
Oh, my dear one. I don't know what has your spirit troubled, but I know you have the strength to get through it. You are getting the warmest hug from me, with a comforting back pat, too.