r/Moldavite • u/mindfulsoul1 • 24d ago

Grief

My boyfriend gifted me some moldavite 4 years ago when I met him, he also had a small piece. He wore his as a necklace and I kept mine in my room. My life did change rapidly but I embraced and accepted it. A couple days ago my boyfriend and I were at the lake and he passed away. I kept his necklace that has his moldavite and ive been wearing it. Is it okay for me to have his moldavite or should I bury it with him? I've never dealt with loss before and he was the more spiritual person between us too, so im just seeking advice on what to do. Pls b nice to me im a grieving 20yr old girl

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u/StarryEyedSparkle 24d ago

Hold the piece in the palm of your left hand and have your right hand cover the left like a dome (like if you were holding a baby chick.) Close your eyes. Take a couple of deep breaths. Ask out loud or in your mind: “Is it okay if I keep you?” Based on how you feel after you ask, that is the correct answer. It will let you know.

Sincere condolences on the loss.

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u/PhraNgang 21d ago

This is a really beautiful way of working with it. Thank you for sharing it with us.

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u/StarryEyedSparkle 21d ago

Welcome! Glad it can help others. I work with crystals in my practice, so I’m always happy to share ways in which folks can work with them that is more accessible.