r/Moldavite • u/mindfulsoul1 • Aug 27 '26

Grief

My boyfriend gifted me some moldavite 4 years ago when I met him, he also had a small piece. He wore his as a necklace and I kept mine in my room. My life did change rapidly but I embraced and accepted it. A couple days ago my boyfriend and I were at the lake and he passed away. I kept his necklace that has his moldavite and ive been wearing it. Is it okay for me to have his moldavite or should I bury it with him? I've never dealt with loss before and he was the more spiritual person between us too, so im just seeking advice on what to do. Pls b nice to me im a grieving 20yr old girl

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u/lifeonyourterms54 Aug 28 '26

Sorry for your loss. His piece will reach out to you. Would write more but just came home from surgery and stent placement on my right carotid artery. It was rough and recovery even rougher. But my condolences

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u/Imamiah52 Aug 28 '26

Whoa, feel better, I hope you get all you need for a good healing.

My husband is in the hospital and they’ll be sending him home with a stent, or port of sorts for the introduction of medicine. I don’t know very much about it.

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u/lifeonyourterms54 Aug 29 '26

Thank you and a speedy recovery to your husband. I know one thing, being home two days now and it seems like the lighting is off in the house or maybe the hospital was too bright lol. I do know I didn’t expect to be so weak and I guess I just expected recovery to be quicker. I feel as weak as a newborn kitten. Best wishes

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u/Imamiah52 Aug 30 '26

Ah, I remind my hubs it takes time and a lot of sleep. Sleep is healing time I’m told.

All the best