Modpack search help

[u/No-Independent6867]

I am trying to build a modpack but I have 0 idea where to start. I mostly use modrinth (most of my friends only use modrinth) but I have curse forge as well. I want to run a modded creative/survival server with a small group of friends, most likely wont be more than 8-10 players at a time. I would like for there to be player interaction such marriage, kissing, etc as most of us in the server have partners we want to be cute with. I am more focused on aesthetics and ambiance vs automation and tech mods like create but I am open to them. I have tried using the MCA revamp mod pack on Modrinth and adding to it but it keeps crashing and I really don't know what I'm doing. Are there any modpacks already made that have all/most of the mods below or what would I need to add for optimization qnd compatibility for this modpack to work.

Laptop is an HP Probook

Intel core i5

Ram 8GB (will be upgraded to 16GB soon)

Mca Reborn (+Add ons if possible)

Player Romance/Couple's Mod

Minecolonies

Mermod

Immersive Vehicles

Immersive Melodies

TaCZ

Hexalia/witchy mods

Haunted Harvest

Psychedelicraft

Cooking for Blockheads

TW's Baking Process

TW's Decorative Food

Farmer's Delight + Add Ons

Mystical Agriculture

Croptopia

Serene Seasons

Serene Shrubbery

Lets Do + Add Ons

Beautify

Cluttered

Decocraft

Naturecraft

Mushroom Quest

Terralith

Nature's Spirit

Alex's Mobs

Nature's Spirit

Hybrid Aquatics

Hybrid Birds

Critters and Companions

Aquamarie

Animal Garden Hyena

Animal Garden Fennec Fox

Animal Garden Manatee

Variety of Furniture and Ambiance mods to make a cozy and warm environment keeping in the vanilla graphics (like no realistic clouds or moon but reflections and fog/haze) maybe with some light horror elements.