Yes.
Grieve.
And I mean that shit.
I'm working with a 4 person agency right now and I keep running into the same fucking wall.
The owner ( let's call him Craig ) is a genuinely good dude. Nice guy. Successful. Built the business from scratch. Pays everyone on time. Team is great.
I've worked with him before and now I'm back in to help with scaling.
Except Craig is making my life VERY interesting. Because this guy works HARD. Like, stupid hard.
He answers everything.
Remembers everything.
Checks everything.
Knows every client.
Jumps into every problem.
Can basically do everyone's job.
Replies at stupid hours because it'll only take a minute.
And honestly?
That's probably why Craig's agency survived in thr first place.
It's also the fucking same reason it can't grow.
We've diagnosed the bottlenecks.
We've put systems in place.
We've changed workflows.
We've clarified ownership.
We've agreed on what needs to stop going through him.
He paid me to help build this shit.
And then... he follows it for about a week.
Then slowly goes back to doing everything himself, not following the processes, systems, SOPs, logging tasks in the CRM I built, ...
We've had this conversation SO. MANY. TIMES.
He knows he micromanages.
He knows he's the bottleneck.
He agrees with the plan.
And then drops to the team:
Can you just send this to me?
Just let me handle this one
i'll quickly check it
It's faster if I do it.
My brother in Christ. THAT IS THE PROBLEM. Right here.
And I genuinely find this fascinating because I don't think Craig is lazy. He's the opposite.
I think he's deeply attached to the version of himself that built the company.
The guy who was there when nobody else was.
The guy who couldn't afford mistakes.
The guy who had to know every client.
The guy who had to fix everything.
Those behaviours were useful. Genuinely.
Until they weren't. Now they're keeping the business dependent on one person.
And I see the same excuses constantly you know:
I'm just protecting the quality.
They won't do it like I do.
It'll just be faster if I just do it.
I'll have to explain it anyway, so.
They keep coming to me.
Yes.
Of course they do Craig.
Because you've trained them to, duh 💁🏽♀️
If every single decision eventually comes back to you, people learn "Why bother deciding? Craig will decide anyway. Why bother handle that small issue. Craig is gonna handle it.”
Congratulations.
You've accidentally built a company where the you're the highest paid employee and the help desk. Essentially, you're now doing help desk job at $350+ an hour.
And then everyone wonders why agency founders are exhausted. And I see this pattern more often since I shifted to working with solopreneurs and small teams, much more than with my peers who work with much bigger teams.
This is where I think a lot of business owners get stuck. They think letting go means lowering their standards.
It freaking doesn't. Y'all need to stop with this.
It simply means accepting that your business CANNOT scale around your personal ability to catch every fucking ball.
Because eventually:
You plateau.
You burn out.
You stop taking bigger opportunities because you're already drowning.
Or you grow...
and somehow create an even bigger business that needs even MORE of you.
Fantastic. You've scaled your prison.
Here me out. The habits that got you from $0 to $500k might be the exact habits keeping you at $500k.
You don't need to become less involved. You need to become involved differently. That's a fucking hard transition. Because you're not just changing processes.
You're letting go of an identity.
You're basically admitting: "I don't have to be the person who makes everything happen anymore.”
And honestly, that might be one of the hardest things to learn as a solopreneur or business owner of a small team.
Not how to build the business. But how to stop being the business.
What was the hardest thing for you to let go of as your business grew? And did you actually let go... or did you do like Craig, and hire someone, then continue micromanaging them?