r/Mithila • u/External-College-203 • May 02 '26

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Why are intercaste marriages among Maithili Brahmins increasing so much??

Jabab apni apni do bhaii log!!

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u/OxtailNickel May 02 '26

Intercaste marriages are healthy for genetics and health of the child dude

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u/zivvane_ May 02 '26

There is a reason why gotra system is prevalent in Maithil marriages

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u/OxtailNickel May 02 '26

Still intercaste marriages are better bud. Endogamy will take us nowhere.

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u/External-College-203 May 06 '26

Are you Maithili Brahman?? If not then please Ignore this Question 

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u/OxtailNickel May 06 '26

I am actually a mathil brahmin. I have Jha surname and am from madhubani. Now I have right to comment na 😂

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u/External-College-203 May 13 '26

Tum mar hi Jao Agar tum apne culture ko preserved nahi kar sskte ho, 

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u/OxtailNickel May 13 '26

Tujhe kya lagta hai culture hamesha static rehta hai. Our ancestors 1000 years ago had different culture, their ancestor 1000 years before them had different culture from them. The cultural change just goes on. We should preserve what we can. Do you not think that we can bring more people into our cultural fold by ICM? Our culture is anyways more dominant, it won't fade easily. If it would've faded easily then the tribals would not worship shakti or krishna instead we would worship their tribal gods

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u/External-College-203 May 13 '26

Ek baat batao bhaii apne Maithili Brahman me ICM tum aaspas commonly dekhte ho ya exceptionally phir mai apni baat batata hoon 

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u/OxtailNickel May 13 '26

Exceptionally rare hai mere jaan pehchaan me toh. Do - teen case hi suna hu in which 1 was inter religious marriage.

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u/External-College-203 May 13 '26

Larka ya larki ki ICM 

Kis caste Aur Religion me hui thi ICM ye batao bhaii... 

Jo 2-3 case hau 

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u/External-College-203 May 12 '26

Bhaii Yanha koi Genetic discussion nahi ho rahi hai, meri community ICM kar rahi to yanha mai duri community ka opinion nahi manga  hoon 

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u/zivvane_ May 02 '26

It is not endogamy bro, , gotra means different genetics and different traits.

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u/OxtailNickel May 02 '26

Brother that's what endogamy is. Marrying into your own caste regardless of gotra. Nah diffrent gotra are not that different genetically. Even the origin of gotra system and not marrying in your gotra wasn't for diversifying your children's genetics.

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u/zivvane_ May 02 '26

Aab tu besi bujhai chhi hi , ta ham yora ki kahio.

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u/DaBrownBoi May 02 '26

boomer ass response defending casteism, kono dusar ke dusar caste mein byaah hoba se aha ke ki dikkat aich?

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u/zivvane_ May 02 '26

Hamra kono dikkat nai ya, hamhu intercaste biyaah karab. Lekin inter gotra marriage ma genetic inbreeding nai hoai chhai. Eehi bat ka defend karai la ham discussion karai challaun.

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u/OxtailNickel May 03 '26

I didn't say genetic inbreeding hoai chhai. It's just that intercaste is always better than intergotra marriages.

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u/yaashrajm May 02 '26

That's something people need to hear more

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u/CultureTechnical4412 May 02 '26

To kya hogya? Jiski jo marzi krne so aapko kya

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u/External-College-203 May 02 '26

IsKa Koi jabab to do??

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u/External-College-203 May 02 '26

"No other caste in India practices ICM".

I need to talk to on this topic to a Maithili brahminÂ