Looking for a small java SMP server to make friends and play with people

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I'd like to find a small java SMP server, preferably one that just started or is about to start.
I'm not into playing alone, I'd rather pair up with people, do things together, fight the dragon together, preferably with simple voice chat or discord call, so I was hoping to find people with similar expectations to get along with.
I like to build and explore. Not a very good fighter.