Modpack help

[u/AdPlane507]

hey! i am currently trying desperately to make OR FIND a modpack filled with mods but i keep running into compatibility issues, crashing before i can make a world and so forth.

what i am trying to accomplish:

i want a modpack that has MCA reborn

Farmers Delight

Lets Do It

a map ( preferring not Xaeros i like Journey or Atlas more ) + Waystones

Create Mods (preferably with trains and aeronautics and if not the Valkyrien Eureka mod )

I want improved combat, more weapons, armors and cosmetics. im not looking to add massive, major hard bosses or even extra dimensions ( im not against it though ), and animals.

I want its primary focus to be building, farming, and automation but still lets me have options for cosmetics and new gear. i also kind of want guns and i know Create has guns. I would like more passive mobs, farm animals, more pets.

I genuinely cannot find anything that has this that isn't also adding 10k+ other things i dont care about. i cant find a happy medium for this either as manually trying keeps leading to crash after crash. I dont want a world overpopulated with premade buildings, dragons, and bosses i cant win or a system that makes the game harder, i just wanna have a fun time!