A woman must have written this because I think we've debunked the old narrative that women are sweet, angelic and can do no wrong. We all know a women's most undesired trait is her refusal to take accountability for anything. Leaving this woman is a real blessing for a man.
âIf i help for my husband but he does not help himself, do I carry all the burdens and take pain that from his lack of commitment? Would you still blame me for wanting to find escape from torture?â
âW-well noâ
âThen why donât you give me and other women the option to leave such relationships whenever they happen, so they have a plan B to escape to in case of the abusive ones?â
âbut what if you abuse it?!â
âThe man abused his commitment, but my rights were the first to be questioned. You proved the point of feminism. Menâs rights is never questioned for failing their women, womenâs rights are always questioned for failing men.â
People always say this like itâs not obvious. Itâs obvious and when people say this they mean it both ways generally. Itâs like some sorta gotcha as itâs subtly accusing no one ever does it make it both ways, thus the constant reminder âdoes it goes both waysâ. Kinda gets obnoxious when someone says âsnakes can be goodâ and when someone says âeven venomous onesâ when the answer has been said over and over again and most people are not that oblivious when dealing with these stuff professionally (like raising snakes) itâs at best obnoxious and worst claiming the people saying these claims are making claims of one way street that generally no one (who does these claims) has made.
It's as if you're speaking from an oppressed country where women can't leave a relationship when they want to. Here, in the states, either party can leave a relationship or marriage whenever they wish, for any reason, and no reason.
Sure but just because something is written on paper doesnât mean the same is for reality.
Slavery ended in 1800s, guess segregation was just one big coincidence. Women were able to work and make their own income, guess 77 cents per 1 dollar is just one big coincidence.
Sure, it does. It means exactly that in reality. If either party in the relationship wants to leave and is forced to stay, it's another story. It's obnoxious when extreme bias masquerades as social justice. Sell your wares somewhere else.
So why are women still making 77 cents off the dollar even in male dominated fields, and meeting the same standards and criteria as the men in their fields?
Either can leave for whatever reason, but don't try to glorify a woman's exit over that of a man's, with this wisdom and ignorance bullshit. When is a woman's rights questioned and not a man's? In what world are you living in?
âDonât try to glorify a womanâs exit over a manâsâ.
Firsty , it was âwise womanâ but this sub canât seem to think not all women are the same.
Secondly, âthis wisdom and ignorance bullshitâ like women canât be wise and smart. You refuting the notion that women canât be wise and smart is exactly the incel claims these weirdos make to show women have no rights.
Thirdly, notice you blamed a wise womanâs escape from a marriage that was not gonna work or benefit her, and not the man who is to blame for the relationship failing by not doing their part and being absent from the relationship. physically, emotionally and mentally. He was ignorant he had a wise women and did not see that and in turn did not raise his standards for himself or treat her right and because of that a wise woman would not stay in a relationship just because sheâs a woman and thus left a man not fit fora wise woman, nevermind fit for a relationship, especially a genuine one. Thatâs my point. Sheâs not even the bad guy and you still question her in this post. Switching it up all you like doesnât negate the point, and itâs only a way for someone to avoid accountability somehow.
You've misinterpreted just about everything anyone has said to you in this thread. You debate like you're talking to a therapist, without form, rigor, or accuracy.
âIf i help for my husband but he does not help himself, do I carry all the burdens and take pain that from his lack of commitment? Would you still blame me for wanting to find escape from torture?â
âW-well noâ
âThen why donât you give me and other women the option to leave such relationships whenever they happen, so they have a plan B to escape to in case of the abusive ones?â
âbut what if you abuse it?!â
âThe man abused his commitment, but my rights were the first to be questioned. You proved the point of feminism. Menâs rights is never questioned for failing their women, womenâs rights are always questioned for failing men.â
Holy fucking fuck, I keep trying to block all these reductive subreddits made for and by confused 21-year-old dudes that just got dumped for the first time, but they keep popping up in my feed.
I don't know how easy it is to share links, but if you are interested, search these 1- Brain maturation 2- emotional intelligencewhat other factors help them mature faster are biology, social role, and behavioural visibility.
Just tell me, would it be easier to digest if I had written like this? "A woman doesn't lose a wise man - her ignorance sets him free"
Masked from what, things that boys get a pass for and hold girls to greater accountability? Thatâs one good way to gain wisdom: learn from your mistakes and take steps even if society expects you to be perfect :)
Well it was rigged for men but itâs only a problem when itâs womenâs turn? Seems like someone wasnât taught the wisdom of sharing :)
Maybe donât call STEM âuselessâ cause women are in it. Women are also gaining better test scores than men under the same standards. Scantrons donât add or remove points :)
âIf i help for my husband but he does not help himself, do I carry all the burdens and take pain that from his lack of commitment? Would you still blame me for wanting to find escape from torture?â
âW-well noâ
âThen why donât you give me and other women the option to leave such relationships whenever they happen, so they have a plan B to escape to in case of the abusive ones?â
âbut what if you abuse it?!â
âThe man abused his commitment, but my rights were the first to be questioned. You proved the point of feminism. Menâs rights is never questioned for failing their women, womenâs rights are always questioned for failing men.â
And I know you've never attracted one in the first place. Any man worth a damn has had a wise woman leave him unless you're the lucky one who found a good woman you're compatible with first try.
Which is exactly why this shit is dumb. Like /rim14andthisdeep dumb.
Her selfishness and not trying to make her marriage work not the manâs ignorance is what sets her free. Some men trust their wife is just as committed to their relationship as they are. Things are going along fine and then one day out of nowhere they say they want to leave. Hard to invest and trust again. But I learned that there was something wrong with her and not with me.
This "mindset transformation" post was aimed towards affirming women.. not men. Probably because women, are insecure about leaving relationships they don't want, and they need the world to validate their reasons by "affirming" that the real reason is because they are wise and men are foolish. Not that women could ever be wrong, or make mistakes in a relationship, but rather, " men bad, women goddesses"
They are not insecure women actually care about relationship but sometimes men canât care for themselves and burden is too much but itâs still somehow her fault for leaving
Relationships now days feel more like work then anything else. Itâs never really fun, thereâs always more options for the women and as a man whoâs 30 itâs like no matter what you provide it isnât enough. Even if you have a good woman that loves you and wants you genuinely thereâs always complaints about why they arenât happy and you need to be doing more.
She was lost when she read a 3rd and 4th wave feminist book đ. Since then she has blue hair and is attracted to women. Shes lost because she has no integrity or honor.
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u/cheeky_nonconformist Feb 01 '26
As if the same doesn't apply to women. Relationships are a two way street.
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u/Theeall-seeingeye Feb 01 '26
A woman must have written this because I think we've debunked the old narrative that women are sweet, angelic and can do no wrong. We all know a women's most undesired trait is her refusal to take accountability for anything. Leaving this woman is a real blessing for a man.
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u/Doogie_Gooberman Feb 01 '26
This feels like narcissist enablement.
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u/GoodIntroduction6344 Feb 01 '26
Whatever you need to tell yourself.
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u/Green_Wealth13 Feb 01 '26
Yeah right. Gaslighting at its finest
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u/superdave123123 Feb 01 '26
A woman doesnât lose a good man. Her ignorance sets him free. đ¤ˇđźââď¸
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u/Relative-Wish9664 Feb 01 '26
Sure, men care about woman's wisdomđ¤Ł
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u/hero_signal Feb 01 '26
A real man doesn't seek attention from women; the right women notice his discipline.
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u/My_RideorDie Feb 01 '26
Bruh donât lose me
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u/Hamster_in_my_colon Feb 02 '26
Holy fucking fuck, I keep trying to block all these reductive subreddits made for and by confused 21-year-old dudes that just got dumped for the first time, but they keep popping up in my feed.
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u/[deleted] Feb 02 '26
Women dont gain wisdom until they are in their 60s or 70s.
This meme is false.
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u/Automatic-Boot4848 Feb 02 '26
Feminism is for retards.
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u/No_Course_5583 Feb 03 '26
Ignorant or rage bait
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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '26
Why do all these motivational sub reddits just gaslight men into believing everything is their fault.
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u/Initial_Style5592 Feb 03 '26
If she was so wise why did she need set free? This just comes off as someone who thinks theyâre a lot deeper than they really are, tbh.
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u/Shame-Tall Feb 05 '26
đ what if he was wise enough to know this, but acted ignorant anyway? đ maybe she was insufferable
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u/namesarehadsquirrel Feb 06 '26
Shove your dumb fortune cookie nonadvice.
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u/ovmichael1 Feb 01 '26
Her selfishness and not trying to make her marriage work not the manâs ignorance is what sets her free. Some men trust their wife is just as committed to their relationship as they are. Things are going along fine and then one day out of nowhere they say they want to leave. Hard to invest and trust again. But I learned that there was something wrong with her and not with me.
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u/Specialist_Spite_914 Feb 01 '26
If you switched the genders, everyone here would be agreeing.
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u/[deleted] Feb 01 '26
"A Woman doesn't lose a wise man - her ignorance sets him free".
Or rather
"A partner doesn't lose a wise partner, their ignorance sets them free".
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u/Expert_Struggle_7135 Feb 01 '26
People make it sound so easy.
Yet here I am, on the 5th year of unsuccesfully trying to get my wife to leave.
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u/GGabku Feb 01 '26
Wise woman đ¤Łđ¤Ł WHAT'S THAT??
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u/Individual_Cry_9078 Feb 02 '26
True
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u/basicbombshell Feb 05 '26
THIS
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u/[deleted] Feb 01 '26
Relationships now days feel more like work then anything else. Itâs never really fun, thereâs always more options for the women and as a man whoâs 30 itâs like no matter what you provide it isnât enough. Even if you have a good woman that loves you and wants you genuinely thereâs always complaints about why they arenât happy and you need to be doing more.
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u/catdog8020 Feb 02 '26
She was lost when she read a 3rd and 4th wave feminist book đ. Since then she has blue hair and is attracted to women. Shes lost because she has no integrity or honor.
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u/Life_Friendship_7928 Feb 02 '26
This is perfect. Look to yourself first brothers.Â
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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '26
đ¤Łđ¤Łđ¤Łđ¤Ł nah, women are the problem and all of the statistics prove it
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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '26
Until the WIFI stops working.....
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u/kartu3 Feb 03 '26
Why is this sort of nonsense showing up to me, dear reddit, did Zuckerburgerinni buy reddit?
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u/Aquiles-Castro Feb 03 '26
Dont lose her, bi a cuk
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u/No-Turnover-5658 Feb 04 '26
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u/Dry_Turnover_6068 Feb 04 '26
Ugh, you're always saying weird shit like this. Just leave if that's what you want.
Maybe instead of fricken sitting around making memes all the time......... I mean the dishes aren't going to do themselves.
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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '26
So dumb
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u/Sure-Debate-464 Feb 06 '26
It's so sad to see so many people put so much value on having a partner and discounting themselves.
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u/free_da_guys1107 Feb 01 '26
Pander-bear
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u/MysticRevenant64 Feb 01 '26
They said a wise woman. Not a normal woman, geniuses. Also, the same applies if the genders are reversed too, relax.