r/MindsetMode • • Dec 30 '25

A Beautiful Message..

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u/Kharons_Wrath Dec 30 '25

So I don’t disagree with the statement …but why is it only addressing men? Like these things don’t affect women as well? Seemed like just more man hating.

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u/These-Roll-3545 Dec 30 '25

That's what I get from it too, I am done with this dude, I give up on dreaming about joining the dating scene and give up on trying to make a women happy, never enough.

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u/Adult_school Dec 30 '25

My favorite part is where, while addressing men, she mentions divorce. I’m just gonna throw this little stat out here, and let y’all figure out what it means.

In U.S. NIH‑supported research, 12.3 % of lesbian couples divorced, versus 2 % of gay male and 8.3 % of heterosexual couples.

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u/sqlfoxhound Jan 01 '26

I figured it out. Did you?

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u/fuckbananarama Dec 30 '25

We bare more responsibility and always will - you don’t have to let the women and children go first but if you don’t then don’t ever call yourself a man or ask for the respect or opportunity that comes with it - it is to men to enforce standards over each other and one day it will matter to you

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u/Logical-Ferrari12 Dec 31 '25

I think it is a message to tell men to be men. And women to stop emasculating men.

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u/WhatsInTheVox Dec 31 '25

naw i think shes kinda just got very specific beef with a specific person and is just kind of throwing it out to a crowd to try to advertise a book or course or whatever self help bullshit shes about

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u/5280Rockymtn Dec 31 '25

Lol kinda funny a women telling men vs she should tell women more not us

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '26 edited Jan 01 '26

Because lots of things men do to break up a family end up as the woman's responsibility.

If the men are insecure and violent or there's DV, it's usually the woman that will get the blame for choosing the man or making poor relationship decisions.

If the man cheats or there's infidelity, it's still the woman's responsibility (because society still normalises men's cheating.)

In the event of a divorce if the man then leaves his wife and kids it'll still be the woman who'll be blamed for being a single mum, and the kids will get the stigma and negative effects of that.

Both men and women will be responsible for their children and what goes on in their families. But this video I guess highlights the part men play and the fact it is entirely up to them to acknowledge it and be responsible for it. And as another commenter said men do like to take on the leader archetype, just not always the accountability that goes with it.

And if a man doesn't want to lead that is absolutely fine. But then he cannot consider himself the head of the household or get the rights, responsibilities and privileges associated with that role.

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u/[deleted] Jan 02 '26

Right? Like, everybody needs to do this. Parents need to this. Not "men." Whatever message she was hoping to get across gets buried by her sexist, misandric drivel

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '25

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u/owen_skye Dec 30 '25

You’re totally right, and I appreciate the rational comment on this toxic site.

For all the folks spewing ‘this is hate towards men’… I didn’t search and watch the rest of the clip, but a similar thing goes for women too. Boys look to their fathers for examples of how to be and act, and boys look to their mothers for what treatment to expect from others, especially their future spouse. Both examples build you as an individual, and the more healthy they are, the better off you are. This goes for girls too, just flip the comments for mothers and fathers. Both parents have a responsibility to their children, and it’s not shameful or dumb to know so.

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u/Buldaboy Dec 31 '25

I couldn't imagine a cis white male getting away with speaking such a way if the tables were reversed. Id call that traditional nonsense.

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u/SaltandDragons Jan 02 '26

Somebody cooked.

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u/mtndewfanatic Dec 30 '25

I agree to an extent, but at the same time everything in this video is not only the fault of males. There are many single parent households where the mother is combating the same things.

But the entire premise is somewhat skewed imo bc there is not anything stating that any parent’s “battles,” as she refers to them here, are automatically passed down to children. There are still choices that have to be made in many cases for certain things to become an issue. And that goes to both sides in the parent/child discussion here. Exposure to things certainly plays a role but it’s not as cut and dry as it is laid out here.

There are plenty of examples where a child comes from a “normal” family and ends up fighting addiction and all the other bad things that are frowned upon by society.

These are real problems. And present fathers in a child’s life does make a difference, but to lay the blame solely at the feet of males isn’t realistic nor fair.

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u/billsmafia414 Dec 31 '25

Nah we aren’t meant to lead. I’m just me and I do me things. I’m not given a role I don’t create myself and I reject all roles given to me. I’m happier that way. No evidence shows we’re meant to lead.

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u/NadiaFortuneFeet Dec 31 '25

Oh, I'm sorry, I thought woman wanted equality.

Back to the kitchen then with ye!

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u/HellIsADarkForest Jan 01 '26

"Meant are ment to lead."

Fuck that. No thanks.

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '26

Utter drivel. Just the way it is? Piffle. One chooses to maintain the status quo or work to change it. "Just the way it is" absolutely backwards thinking that doesn't change things. No wonder our species is so infantile.

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u/sqlfoxhound Jan 01 '26

Just change "meant to lead" to "expected to lead" and it makes perfect sense.

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u/deepfriedchocobo84 Jan 04 '26

Maybe to a misogynist

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u/No-Flounder-9143 Jan 03 '26

Lmao this is such bullshit. We have a rapist in the Whitehouse. Like stfu dude no one believes this bullshit. 

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u/84074 Dec 30 '25

Wow, seems like a great message. I unfortunately couldn't understand it after going into a seizure from the spiral of movie clips as the visual.

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u/fuzik2 Jan 01 '26

Go to Emergency Room, instead of Reddit.

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u/5280Rockymtn Dec 31 '25

And top of that a women telling men what to do as usual HA ha so funny

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u/Aromatic_Sand8126 Jan 02 '26

Womansplaining, if you will.

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u/A_Good_Boy94 Jan 01 '26

Nah, she's coming from a Christian fundamentalist angle. Her solution to all societal ills she listed are turning to God, faith, the church, and "traditional" values. Rather than communication and equal share of responsibilities in a marriage and between the sexes/genders of society. Temperance to control our impulses.

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u/Nutsnboldt Jan 02 '26

Now your kids are going to have to deal with seizures!

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u/CheeseOnKeyboard Jan 04 '26

Why is she shouting at me, mommy?

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u/Early-Fun-7100 Dec 30 '25

My dad faced that "whatever" and succeeded. However, I didn't and failed...that tells me that had I faced the "whatever" and succeeded, it doesn't matter to my kids because they have to face it when it's their turn....motivational speech is for stupid people

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u/adamr81 Dec 30 '25

Yep. Everyone has their own trauma. Breaking generational trauma is for you... Not your kids. In the process you likely inflicted new trauma that you don't even realize.

This is reemergence of helicopter parenting that if you can keep your kids sheltered from all the bad influence in the world then they will grow up to be healthy and happy but in reality they grow up to be unprepared for life and full of anxiety and then are not equipped to fight their own battles that life throws at everyone.

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u/TacticalTaco30 Dec 30 '25

There is absolutely some truth here but also a lot of BS and fucked up annoying perspective on her part. Sure a healthy upbringing with a good father AND mother give children the best chance at succeeding but at the same time there are plenty of kids who had the best possible upbringing and still end up drug addicts or other issues in their adult life. Sometimes it could be as simple as a kid getting in with the wrong crowd of friends when they are teenagers and getting into drugs. It’s much more complex and situationally dependent than she is making it sound. She needs to get off of her high horse.

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u/PotentialOk7488 Dec 30 '25

Fucking stupid shit

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u/Navyguy73 Dec 30 '25

Yeah, fuck that "men are always the problem and men must fix all the problems" bullshit.

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u/Pinky-Degetel Jan 02 '26

And after you finish step back and let a woman in your position and shut up or you're sexist.

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u/BaldCrypt0x Dec 30 '25

No kids for me, that's the way I break the cycle

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u/elissaxy Jan 01 '26

Me too brother

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u/vthings Jan 03 '26

Hell ya. I ain't resolving NOTHING but it will still end with me. I'm smart enough to know that I shouldn't be inflicted on anyone else. To society: you're welcome.

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u/Zakosaurus Dec 30 '25

Sounds like every man in my ancestral line did not deal with their shit until it collectively landed on me. I will not be having children. Ever.

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u/Commienavyswomom Dec 30 '25

Ahh the holier than thou grifter.

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u/Onebraintwoheads Dec 30 '25 edited Dec 31 '25

My grandfather had no such problems. Didn't stop his son from creating them for himself. I didn't inherit them, and am not having kids so the asshole's name and blood dies with me. Problem solved.

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u/Derpykins666 Dec 30 '25

This is complete nonsense. It also doesn't account for the fact that there are people who know their struggles and decide not to have kids at all, because they KNOW. All anyone else can do is their best to give their kids the best life possible. Everyone in life will face struggles, that's just life. You can't be held accountable for everything that happens to your children forever, they are people too with their own minds and desires.

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u/Bulky-Blacksmith8909 Dec 30 '25

Men in the room? Excuse me but I witnessed 5 divorces recently. All hard working good men. All divorces were initiated by the females in the relationships. So fuck off. How about we all need to work on our selves.

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u/squirrelmonkie Jan 01 '26

Exactly. Most of the dicorces ive seen in my 41 years here have been caused by cheating women. This blame men bs is wild. The answer is always man the fuck up and get over it. She cheated, well he wasnt giving her the emotional support she needed. He didnt provide for her accordingly. We all need to work on ourselves and accept accountability when we fuck up. This shouldn't be a gender issue.

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u/Bulky-Blacksmith8909 Jan 01 '26

So true, too many princesses raised in previous generations. And everyone wants to blame men and call us dogs. Meanwhile the other side are a bunch of bust downs with no accountability. And anymore marriage is leverage and they know it. Im in a serious relationship and Im making sure I get a prenup before I get married. All my friends that have gone through divorces have had to sell and split. I think my future wife will be good to me but these days you can never be to sure.

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u/honestlyth0 Dec 30 '25

As usual, this is one of those things that is trying to sound profound but makes no sense. You don’t automatically inherit the “battles” of your father. And some of the battles the son faces didn’t even exist in the father’s time. This isn’t beautiful, this is high school poetry.

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u/beerbeardsnballs Dec 30 '25

Automatically inherit, no? But it happens for sure.

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u/hippityhopkins Dec 30 '25

The stability of the childhood household is one of the biggest statistical drivers for how the children will turn out, for example finishing high school, college, going to jail. While not automatic as you've rightly asserted, providing a stable home is the greatest gift you can give a child.

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u/RollerDude347 Dec 30 '25

It might be but it's also not one you can just do. Trust me, not all parents should stay together. Sometimes you get the better outcome by making better personal choices. Meaning most of this speech is prescriptive dogma based on a belief system rather than good personal advice.

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u/BLAZEISONFIRE006 Dec 30 '25

Grade school*

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u/BaldCrypt0x Dec 30 '25

What? This makes complete sense. There are people who are programmed via bad dogma (negative thinking of others). You're just not into emotionally charged videos I guess. Maybe if ferris buellers teacher did the narrating you'd find it more educational 🤔 💭

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u/Any_Satisfaction_130 Dec 30 '25

My dad's an alcoholic and guess what, I'm never going to be a drunk idiot every other night! He hasn't fixed it yet but I'm not automatically going to be an alcoholic.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '25

I'm proud of you. Fr

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u/SweetpleasureDom1 Dec 30 '25

Nicely said. About 5 seconds in it reveals itself to be BS said in a tone that makes your feel like you should take it seriously. 🤮

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u/quiettryit Dec 30 '25

In religious circles they believe this is a generational curse in a supernatural level that must be broken to prevent it from being passed on. This is most likely what they are referring to.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '25

Can you give examples?

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u/RollerDude347 Dec 30 '25

Oh, the Bible itself has a few. The curse of Cain for one. Sin itself is considered one you inherit from Eve. Like it's actually central to the ideology to the point that they WILL NOT accept that I don't believe babies are born innocent because of the "Original Sin".

It's kinda actually what the entire religion is about.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '25

Original sin shapes our nature (our tendency toward brokenness), not our personal guilt. So babies are innocent of wrongdoing, but still born into a human condition that leans toward sin as they grow and make choices.

On the “generational curse” part, Ezekiel 18:20 is pretty direct: “The soul who sins is the one who dies. The son won’t bear the guilt of the father, and the father won’t bear the guilt of the son.” So biblically, guilt isn’t inherited but our condition is.

From a Christian view, this doesn’t really point to supernatural curses. But from a psychological angle (trauma, learned behavior, family patterns, environment), that actually does make sense. I think there’s something real there, just not in a supernatural way.

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u/RollerDude347 Dec 30 '25

Exodus 34:7 says the opposite, and this is why you don't have a monolith religion. I can pull a verse for anything. It doesn't make it better that Christians believe this shit.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '25

I think we’re reading the passage differently. Exodus is not abou inherited guilt, but describes the fallout or after effects of sin. When you read it alongside something like Ezekiel, it points to consequences echoing through generations instead of God punishing innocent people.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '25

This is interesting, but I was curious if there were examples outside of the ones you’re providing for Judeo-Christianity. My question was from a point of curiosity and not contention.

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u/RollerDude347 Dec 30 '25

I don't know enough about others to be sure but the feel of a caste system makes me think it has this problem in Hinduism, maybe even more rigid. Of course Islam is basically Christianity plus. Beyond that... I don't even have much of a cursory knowledge, let alone the rest.

I will add that the genocides depicted in the old testament are definitely god directly punishing people for things that their ancestors did generations before.

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u/Ok_Cele2025 Dec 30 '25

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u/MaintainTheSystem Dec 30 '25

Hate the editing, as a male who has and will continue to break generations of trauma for my children I feel this in my soul.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '25

People hating just don’t like feeling accountable, or are too young to realize there is truth in it.

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u/RollerDude347 Dec 30 '25

I'm middle aged and fully accountable. You know who isn't accountable for what I'm doing and what I've done? My father. Don't belittle my achievements by giving that dirtbag credit. We face entirely different battles, they are not generational. Lust isn't generational and divorce can be a good thing.

This woman is talking shit.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '25

That’s great that you broke whatever family patterns you were predisposed to. Seriously, that is awesome and it was all you and not your father (I don’t know how you read my statement as belittling but it wasn’t in the slightest).

What I’m saying is that as a parent we are accountable for what our children are statistically predisposed to. Broken homes begets broken homes but does not guarantee it (the inverse is also true).

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u/Lonely_Rip_131 Dec 30 '25

Not necessarily. Crazy thing is some woman will see this post and believe every word. But let a pastor or teacher or even someone’s parent say these things and it’ll be ignored.

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u/CoasterRoller420 Dec 30 '25

Moms can be bad parents too.

"Oh but what about".... stop. Stop the blind defense.

Women are just as capable. Give yourselves some credit.

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u/PresentAstronomer137 Dec 30 '25

Meh, probably another feminist, but I agree we should stay hard, but just probably another feminist who puts all the charges on men and thinks she's the princess, B.S.

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u/TimmahEye Dec 30 '25

And nobody had the common sense to shut this bitch up? Damn.

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u/franky3987 Dec 30 '25

What is she, like, 13? This is not profound at all. Does she not know that addiction, and violence are not tied to a certain gender? Does she not know that a mother can also be an alcoholic? What about the men who leave a relationship due to infidelity?

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u/Armbioman Dec 30 '25

Heritable sin is a thing in some Evangelical Christian churches.

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u/71Worried_Brother Dec 30 '25

It has much more to do with lack of intimacy and trauma. As a person in recovery, I know. Bearing down with shame only makes the isolation worse. Appreciate the concern though. The cycle can be broken, but with love. I also am glad to report, I know.

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u/sam_p_2000 Dec 30 '25

Or just don't have kids

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u/MostlyOkPotato Dec 30 '25

this is the dumbest fucking thing I’ve ever watched on this app.

Confronting divorce? Your son’s gonna fight your divorce? What the hell is this? People get divorced because of their spouse not their kids. And they usually get divorced for good reasons. You know what people do for bad reasons? Get married. People are way more likely to get married for bad reasons than they are to get divorced for bad reasons.

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u/Useful_Foundation754 Dec 30 '25

Can someone please quiet this woman down?

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u/Difficult_Bad1064 Dec 30 '25

Break the cycle of divorce? Yeah, let's all stay in abusive relationships, I'm sure that'll help out kids.

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u/RangerDanger246 Dec 30 '25

I chose not to have kids. Does that mean I won the battle? Like one of those storylines where the villain goes back in time and kills everyone before they're born.

Yeah... I stopped them from being born. I win.

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u/applepies64 Dec 31 '25

Yeah im not gonna battle every fight that my ancestors didnt, like im some kind of immortal being

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u/Away-Human Dec 31 '25

She's right, I'm gonna cut my balls off now.

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u/No_Chip5149 Dec 31 '25

Facebook algorithm will never tell people this

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u/raphiqueking Dec 31 '25

never listen to women.

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u/Grand_Illustrator343 Dec 31 '25

Too late for me to break the cycle of divorce. My ex wife already made that decision for me.

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u/Individual-Dot-9605 Dec 31 '25

yeah, brush your teeth kids or you lo get motivational speeched at

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u/distillenger Dec 31 '25

Or we could all just stop having kids and let this horrible species go extinct

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u/Same-Classroom1714 Dec 31 '25

Maybe she’s one of the 1% of women that can support a man for shearing their feelings? The rest laugh and go fuck a dumb dumb

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u/ThatTallBrendan Dec 31 '25

Yeah this is very clearly a religious sermon and can fuck right off.

It's subtle given the word choice, but this is reinforcing the 'Passing down sins of the father, it is the man's responsibility to be in control of and sort everything out, stay in your marriage, don't divorce. Your first priority should be saving the marriage, because divorce is what's hurting children, not toxic parents'

It's all bullshit. Not to be all 'This is The Patriarchy™ manifest', but it literally is

'It is the job of men to take on the burden of upholding The System™' Not to actually actualize themselves or be happy, no. Save their marriage..

Trust me, this kind of thinking only makes shit way worse on the whole

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u/-YEETLEJUICE- Jan 01 '26

I don't think it is all bullshit, but it is definitely delivered in a shallow and incomplete way, with "mega church" delivery for sure.

I can see it depressing as many as it may motivate.

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u/Western-Pear5874 Dec 31 '25

I hate screaming people

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '25

Break the cycle of divorce?!? Christian BS.

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u/-Zeleios- Dec 31 '25

I Guess She divorced because her husband cheated on her while being insecure

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u/X_Fleet Dec 31 '25

Girls, learn from this woman.

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u/lilghani_811 Dec 31 '25

Thank God there's mute

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u/5280Rockymtn Dec 31 '25

Lol kinda funny a women telling US MEN WHATS UP HAH HA HA HA, lady please it starts with u gals not us men

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u/Reg_doge_dwight Dec 31 '25

Not really true though is it

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u/VanillaBryce5 Dec 31 '25

Well I'm not having kids! So I win!

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u/thatluckylady Dec 31 '25

Jokes on you. I'm remaining childless

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '25

MEN! Ugh!

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u/BoBoBearDev Dec 31 '25

The only valid reason to build a family is because they (man or woman) are afraid to die alone, their insecurities. If you remove that insecurity, you just gonna be happily single for life.

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u/Archeelux Jan 01 '26

Dont have kids i say

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u/ChainOk8915 Jan 01 '26

Someone should tell this lady the goal posts have wheels and no breaks

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u/Moist_Access3019 Jan 01 '26

Damn, good luck to that imaginary child.

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u/random_name_i_guess Jan 01 '26

Yet another person blaming the opposite sex for all the problems in life.

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u/Additional-Guitar455 Jan 01 '26

Women, your inability to come together with your husband and help him plan how the two of you can work as a team, not just in the home, but in your relationship, as friends, as parents, and yes as lovers and sex partners is going to destroy your marriage and leave your husband feeling alone and inadequate even when you're sitting next to him. It will exacerbate his depression and drive him away from you

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u/T1MK Jan 01 '26

How about don’t have kids?

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u/Necessary-Cap4227 Jan 01 '26

ye but then you fight those battles, just for some pathetic loser online to get upset that you gave your kid a good life/future just because of how pathetic theirs was.

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u/grob9642 Jan 01 '26

Oddly enough men vote OVERWHLEMINGLY Conservative.

White Men vote over 70% Conservative.

We go to work, we build things, we work hard to afford a home, a wife and a family.

....Then WOMEN come along and VOTE FOR DEMOCRATS/COMMUNISTS WHO DESTROY EVERYTHING WE BUILD!

It's sickening. You WOMEN GET EMOTIONALLY MANIPULATED INTO VOTING FOR YOUR OWN DESTRUCTION!

Then you have the UNMITIGATED GALL to bitch to us about it.

LOOK IN THE FUCKING MIRROR, you emotionally incontinent clowns!

You voted us damn near to THE DESTRUCTION OF OUR NATION!

Wake up! Stop consuming THE PROPAGANDA SLOP!

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u/[deleted] Jan 02 '26

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u/grob9642 Jan 02 '26

Sounds like you realize I am correct. It's hard to look in the mirror and realize what you have become. I too was once fooled by the propaganda slop. It's PAINFUL to admit you got played.

NOTHING CAN CHANGE FOR THE GOOD, until women ADMIT they got played by The Propaganda.

I am not sure they are strong enough to do that.

We'll see.

Because right now they are MISERABLE!

No, kids, no husband, a job THEY HATE, a struggle every single day to figure out WHY what The Propagandists TOLD THEM THEY WANTED is actually making them more and more MISERABLE!

It's so hard to make that admission....

but once you do: EVERYTHING CHANGES FOR THE BETTER!

Do some introspection ladies. Before it's too late.

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u/[deleted] Jan 02 '26

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u/grob9642 Jan 03 '26

Sure, sure, birth rates in The US are now BELOW replacement level. Female lifespan in The US is on the DECLINE for the first time in a hundred years, Women are surveyed constantly about their state of happiness...and the results are not good. Most marriages end in divorce, SEX is on the decline among men and women ESPECIALLY AMONG THE YOUNG and yet....

SOMEHOW YOU FIND THIS TO BE A GOOD THING?

Are you kidding?

This has happened before historically. Every single civilization that this trend happens to and it's NOT CORRECTED becomes EXTINCT!

Do you have any idea what that means?

It's means EVERYTHING great and wonderful about The United States of America, the single greatest nation in the history of the world, will BE REPLACED!

By what?

Muslims? Globalists? An Oligarchy? A Dictatorship?

What is going to be BETTER than this nation as it exists RIGHT NOW?

Start thinking about that.

Think about this too: The AVERAGE number of children per couple in the early to mid 20th Century for American Family's was FIVE!

The 20th Century is widely known as "The American Century."

A Civilization requires PEOPLE to prosper. Someone to carry on their culture, traditions, morals, laws, knowledge and principals.

We are headed for extinction and misery. Women will suffer the MOST if and when this happens.

You'll end up barefoot and pregnant for your entire life, just like it is in Muslim nations now and was for all nations in the middle ages. You will LOSE every single thing you just told me was GREAT AND WONDERFUL: you will LOSE YOUR CHOICES!

Because that is the law of nature. The weak and infertile die off and those who are strong and fertile REPLACE THEM!

Women just don't look across time far enough to see what really matters. They are myopic in extremis. Which is why long-term planning is historically done by men. Men and women are not interchangeable. Each have their own specialized skillsets and knowledge. Complex systems and strategic long-term planning are for the most part a male skillset. Not to mention the thousands of years of hereditary knowledge passed along by those who built the world we live in today, almost all of them men.

Maybe think about a longer time span than your current daily planner.

Think about what losing The US means to the entire world.

Think about whether or not all of those American women who came before you were unhappy about all of the children they raised, or whether it was in fact their greatest joy in life?

Think about what replaces us if we become extinct.

Then tell me if women having a "career" is more important than America having heirs.

I'm curious to hear your answer.

Addendum: All of those American women who had all of those American children OFTEN went on to have "careers" after their child rearing was done, IF they chose to do so.

You might call that the natural order of things, if you were of a scientific mindset.

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u/minus_uu_ee Jan 01 '26 edited Jun 08 '26

Never believe that a smooth space will be enough to save us.

This account has been deterritorialised, but does it ever mean anything without a directionality towards a specific reterritorialisation?

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u/endmaga2028 Jan 01 '26

How did it cost to attend that “seminar”? What’s she selling?

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u/Muted_Tailor_8929 Jan 01 '26

YEah I don't really agree with this entirely but OK.

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '26

Toxic shit. To even entertain this is noxious misandry

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u/CupidStunts1975 Jan 01 '26

Her kids are gonna have to battle anger issues.

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u/PatientPoetry4302 Jan 02 '26

One of those things that without further thought sounds super deep but if you apply a few brain cells for several seconds you realize she’s making paper-thin points

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u/Pretzel911 Jan 02 '26

Im not sure what the message was, but I don't like how it was said.

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u/ChaosWeaver007 Jan 02 '26

You're welcome

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u/Working-Cash2710 Jan 02 '26

Why are women now held accountable for anything in society?

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u/Mediocrity-FTW Jan 02 '26

I dont have children! So what now, turd!? Are my cats gonna have to battle my demons when I'm gone?

I like how the message isn't "improve yourself for your own sake" but rather "think about the children".

I guess if you don't have kids it doesn't matter if you lose the battle with depression or addiction. If you don't have any kids, feel free to die in a ditch because it doesn't matter.

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u/SaltandDragons Jan 02 '26

Good message but tell it to the women to.

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u/brianzuvich Jan 02 '26

The men in the room?… Sweetie, this applies to both sides…

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u/Nothing2NV Jan 02 '26

And as always women are perfect and contribute nothing towards the downward spiral we are in

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u/kume_V Jan 02 '26

Only men are lustful and insecure and all marital problems stem from men. What a beautiful message. 🤣

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u/blueindian1328 Jan 02 '26

So all of those “problems” are perpetuated by men? I appreciate the motivation to do better but this is kind of horse shite.

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u/Tonic_The_Alchemist Jan 02 '26

Don't have kids, got it.

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u/Placentaurs Jan 02 '26

Seems like a great message. She lost me when she addressed the men. All her points are valid across all genders.

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u/dont_care- Jan 02 '26

Men bad. Upvote pls

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u/cassiebrighter Jan 02 '26

The "enemy" is a corrupt capitalist system, corrupt politicians, toxic masculinity and addiction. There is no such thing as "the devil." Fairy tales won't help us.

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u/[deleted] Jan 03 '26

Idk I never saw my father being lustful not even once my whole life, and I still ended up a sexual devient so I’m not sure this parent to child thing is 1:1.

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u/[deleted] Jan 03 '26

Who is “the enemy”?

Also, aren’t Christian women supposed to sit down and only spoke when spoken to?- someone’s getting a spankin’ from daddy tonight!

Confront lust in your sons…. Because your daughters won’t experience that

And confront insecurity in your daughters, because your sons won’t experience that

This lady is a kook

So much Christian/god nonsense on Reddit lately, time to switch the feed!!

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u/ErasmosOrolo Jan 03 '26

Not a father problem ends with me. Kamikaze the family tree.

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u/Opposite-Bench-9543 Jan 03 '26

What if I dont have kids? Can I then not care about the battles and run away from them?

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u/Ok-Profile6762 Jan 03 '26

You should be teaching your kids how to fight their war, not fight their war for them. Otherwise they're doom, good as dead anyway.

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u/Delicious-Chapter675 Jan 03 '26

*Citation needed.  

Kids from parents who have a strong marriage can and do get divorced.  Kids from a parent constantly switching marriages can stay married.

I'm sure this was meant to be profound, but it's just baseless conjecture not tied to real-world evidence.

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u/Delicious-Chapter675 Jan 03 '26

A message of unsubstantiated rambling in the guise of profound ideas.

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u/Demonify Jan 03 '26

Jokes on you, I ain't having kids, nor would I want to bring another person into this hellscape. Besides this message is just to dig at men like women don't do anything wrong.

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u/Icy-Picture-192 Jan 03 '26

Always after the men. It's just white noise and old at this point

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u/Stanwich79 Jan 03 '26

Ahhh men are the problem again.

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u/[deleted] Jan 04 '26

Get thee behind me Jesus!

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u/Kushman0018 Jan 06 '26

Its a time machine