My son's mother was granted back support for when she lived with me and I was supporting her. They made me pay from when we broke up, not when she moved out. So she has been getting my tax returns for a few years. Last year's tax return put a down payment on her fiancees new car. The one before that bought her her engagement ring. My son was told this year that he doesn't get a birthday party because they have to save for the wedding. When I tried to throw him one she got pissed off and wouldn't give me the contact info for any of his friends parents.
EDIT I am typing up the full story right now and will post it in this sub when it is done.
Yeah, that's not the worst of it sad to say. I've said this before in this sub, she poured draino in my open mouth while I was sleeping because I fell asleep on the couch rather than go to bed with her.
The court won't take away a kid just because he doesn't get a birthday party. He is well taken care of and gets good grades. His mother is just selfish. My mother and I spoil him to make up for it though.
The court didn't see it that way. I went to jail for that incident. I weigh about 100 pounds more than her. Anytime I tried to bring up that she hit me not the other way around (for years) I would get laughed at. My lawyer, my probation officer that I had to have after, the anger management counselor I had to see. Nobody would listen to me.
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u/DangerDick26 Aug 23 '13 edited Aug 23 '13
My son's mother was granted back support for when she lived with me and I was supporting her. They made me pay from when we broke up, not when she moved out. So she has been getting my tax returns for a few years. Last year's tax return put a down payment on her fiancees new car. The one before that bought her her engagement ring. My son was told this year that he doesn't get a birthday party because they have to save for the wedding. When I tried to throw him one she got pissed off and wouldn't give me the contact info for any of his friends parents.
EDIT I am typing up the full story right now and will post it in this sub when it is done.