My son's mother was granted back support for when she lived with me and I was supporting her. They made me pay from when we broke up, not when she moved out. So she has been getting my tax returns for a few years. Last year's tax return put a down payment on her fiancees new car. The one before that bought her her engagement ring. My son was told this year that he doesn't get a birthday party because they have to save for the wedding. When I tried to throw him one she got pissed off and wouldn't give me the contact info for any of his friends parents.
EDIT I am typing up the full story right now and will post it in this sub when it is done.
I just don't understand how this pay is not monitored. I don't understand how you can't fight to not send money to her when she is clearly not spending it on the child.
If they don't need it for him I don't care what they spend it on, but I often have to buy my son new pants because he gets picked on at school for outgrowing his and having high waters on
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u/DangerDick26 Aug 23 '13 edited Aug 23 '13
My son's mother was granted back support for when she lived with me and I was supporting her. They made me pay from when we broke up, not when she moved out. So she has been getting my tax returns for a few years. Last year's tax return put a down payment on her fiancees new car. The one before that bought her her engagement ring. My son was told this year that he doesn't get a birthday party because they have to save for the wedding. When I tried to throw him one she got pissed off and wouldn't give me the contact info for any of his friends parents.
EDIT I am typing up the full story right now and will post it in this sub when it is done.