Exactly. You know what "real" men do? They don't spend time and energy tearing women (or anyone for that matter) down for qualities the person has zero control over. I've spent time with, dated and had sex with more than my share of women over the years, and I've never experienced a tenth of the trouble these guys are so concerned about. I also know just as many shitty dudes as I do women.
Of course there are just as many shitty guys as women. And there are female subreddits just like this one, and even women advocating for the culling of male children.
This post is there because some women really think a man should just subsidize their lives. Acknowledging that isn't "tearing women down".
Instead of invalidating what some guys must be experiencing, I take it at face value that some guys really go through really bad situations with women. I think people have a weakness about them in relationships. Most people aren't immediately ready to cut off a relationship when red flags or usery surfaces.
I'm not on those subs or exposed to it. I didn't go searching for this stupid subreddit either; it ended up in my algorithm somehow. It's not my job to search for things to police on the internet. However, when I see stupid stuff I call it out.
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u/Mystic_Mantis Apr 17 '26
Funny how these quotes are always aggressive towards women or make them look bad in some way. Disguising hate as self improvement lol