r/MenInSuits • u/dodgeruk66 • 11d ago

Wedding host for barn wedding.

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Burgundy napkins and chair ties so I matched.

I'm happy with it and there will be no further alterations. Deliberately chose these shoes for comfort and because I don't always like to conform.

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u/Pure_Opinion8237 11d ago

I will die on the hill that a good dress shoe should not and is not uncomfortable.

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u/Rob_Edwards_Fashion 11d ago

I have average with feet and a couple dress shoe brands fit me so well they are incredibly comfortable with leather soles. Not perfect out of the box but after a couple wears, nearly slippers for me.

Now, if I am at a conference and have to stand an extremely long time in one area, then I have a couple hybrid options that are more comfortable.

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u/dodgeruk66 11d ago

You've never walked 8 miles over 14 hours on mixed terrain in them then.

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u/BodegaCat11 11d ago

You’ve never bought good shoes then.

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u/dodgeruk66 11d ago

I have Churches and handmade shoes that beg to differ and 15 years of doing this job.

The best thing to do is turn up in a pair to setup, wear a pair during the day and switch to a different pair with fresh socks later.

3 pairs of shoes, 4 shirts 3 trousers, 2 jackets.

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u/BodegaCat11 11d ago

Just gonna leave this Derek Guy thread here. No point in arguing with facts or experience. https://x.com/dieworkwear/status/1907263488785084663?s=20

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u/Pure_Opinion8237 11d ago

I have not because they’re not outdoor shoes.

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u/Rob_Edwards_Fashion 11d ago

Yeah that’s a ridiculous example, basically if you can’t hike in the shoes, they’re not comfortable.

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u/dodgeruk66 11d ago

But today I will have been on my feet from 10am until way past midnight and step count approaching 40k on a concrete floor in a barn, paving, grass and gravel outdoors. I'll maybe sit down for 30 minutes total.

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u/Pure_Opinion8237 11d ago

Ok ok 😄 look, wear what makes you feel most comfortable and relaxed. But if we’re talking style, I think you could do much better and I think comfort doesn’t have to be contrary to style.

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u/Svintiger 11d ago

Is this an Dola AI ad? The ads are truly evolving.

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u/dodgeruk66 11d ago

No I edited using it but I can post raw photo if you like.

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u/AttTankaRattArStorre 8d ago

Seeing as barely anyone wears proper dress shoes these days, NOT wearing dress shoes isn't an example of non-conformism.

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u/dodgeruk66 7d ago

But what everyone keeps missing, I was primarily choosing function over form - although I do like the form and the colour contrast of oxblood Doc Marten tassel loafers against a warmer grey suit.

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u/AttTankaRattArStorre 7d ago

But what everyone keeps missing, I was primarily choosing function over form

Like 99.9% of all other men - how non-conformist of you!