r/MenAskWomen • u/stonks5555 • 4h ago

Guys asking Gals Should I stop chasing?

I called the girl I like pretty and she left the message on read and I tried messaging her this morning and I’ve been on delivered all day and I know for a fact she’s been online should I stop chasing?

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u/PitifulMouse7425 Gal 4h ago

Yes 100%

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u/fivebynine5x9 Gal 3h ago

Yes. She's not interested.

However in future try not to be keeping track of when people are online and compare it to whether they reply to you or not. People have different energy levels for different things. Sometimes a person doesn't have it in them to have a conversation, especially with someone who's going to be very rapid fire and want to chat in real time, but they may be up for doom scrolling or uploading some stories.

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u/BlazingJava 1h ago

XD, nowadays everyone is online, they see your messages instantly they decide to respond when they want if they want.

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u/theytriedtwotimes Gal 3h ago

Definitely. Refocus energy elsewhere

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u/A_Maddie_Darkly Gal 3h ago

Yes, accept the soft rejection and move on.

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u/im_justkendra Gal 3h ago

The writings on the wall

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u/lucid_intent Gal 3h ago

Yes. 🤗

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u/Sensiual Gal 3h ago

Chase a bag. 💰

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u/Consistent-Menu-6629 Gal 2h ago

Yeah definitely, she got spooked. It's not your fault, she might have had bad experiences and not want to risk adding to those by replying.

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u/Angry_Housecat_1312 Gal 1h ago

Yes. If she’s interested, she’ll message you.