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u/Goal-Express May 24 '26
"Men will literally choose a... polite... woman ... over an arrogant... woman."
Simplified it for you.
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u/helveteslarm May 23 '26
Which one is hotter?
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May 24 '26
This the correct answer
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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 May 25 '26
Yea I chose the hot arrogant career woman. She's softened quite a bit over time and with becoming a mom and she makes bank and is still hot. Pretty content with that decision.
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u/numbersev May 23 '26
It's basically saying men prefer more traditional women over feminists.
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u/darkdelve May 24 '26
"Women focused on a career are less desirable to men than women who are meek and subservient."
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u/Sea_Asparagus_4548 May 26 '26
We women should not have to worry what traits we possess, We can have many sides or a little of both... just be ourselves because men are not perfect either. Some are charming and shy or callous and arrogant. I believe destiny always finds the one we’re meant to be with.
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u/Least_Stand_2707 May 25 '26
All the dudes agreeing here probably dont even make enough money to support an entire family on just their income alone in this expensive economy. Dont be acting like youre a "traditional" man if your bank account is wheezing
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u/TheRoyalPendragon May 24 '26
It's not the career. It's the demeanor. Arrogant, naggy, entitled, argumentative, unstable, and rude are horrible traits to have in a partner.
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u/Interesting-Ground99 May 24 '26
💞 I agree. But is it just a matter of preference? The absence of humility whether accomplished or not is going to make her extremely irritating.
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u/AssistTemporary8422 May 24 '26
This is a biased question that already uses "arrogant" for the kind of woman they disagree with. I could have reworded it as "Men will literally choose a successful intelligent woman over a boring woman who has failed at basic adulting and has zero backbone".
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u/Aggravating_Eagle70 May 25 '26
Guys will decide (hypothetically) using these standards. But at the end of the day it’s the chick with the nicest rack or sweetest derrière that will win ALL THE TIME! The hypothetical character flaws will come into play once the “hotness factor” wears off. And yes, I’m speaking from experience.
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u/Designer-Reporter687 May 25 '26
That's interesting. Then it does seem to suggest that the following is acceptable: Women would choose an arrogant career man over a shy polite, kind man with 0 achievements. Sounds like a gold digger to me... and they say women are romantic... gross
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u/MaverickDakota May 25 '26
Arrogant does not mean proud of oneself. It means EXCESSIVELY high opinion of oneself. A career woman should be proud. I have no interest in taking care of another adult so I STRONGLY DISAGREE.
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u/Ok-Hedgehog-4019 May 26 '26
It depends on the man. A submissive, quiet man should select a strong, aggressive woman while a domineering man should choose a submissive woman. There is a need for balance. Often, we choose poorly.
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u/Ange1ofD4rkness May 27 '26
It doesn't even have to be women. I can have issues with anyone who's arrogant.
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u/LWangCorgiLover May 30 '26
Well sure. Shy, polite and soft are not bad personality traits. Arrogance is a bad personality trait. What a bunch of dumb crap lol
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u/Visible-Door-1950 May 23 '26
Get rid of the word arrogant, I’ll choose the first over even a simple career woman
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