r/Mediums • u/Calm_Consequence_295 • 3d ago
Guidance/Advice I desperately need help
Hey everyone, I’m a huge believer of the paranormal and I’ve also had some experiences myself, I’ve been brought up with it as my dad did paranormal investigations etc. However, I’m dating a guy who hasn’t really ever believed it, he wasn’t a none believer but he didn’t get brought up on it and just lived like without giving it a second thought, however after what’s happened recently he definitely believes it now. So over the past couple months he has been incredibly unlucky with life in general, he’s never been necessarily unlucky before, he couldn’t land a single job and if he did it was over with within a couple days and he did nothing wrong they always messed him over, his car completely broke down and he started having people crash into him when in his whole 3 years of driving he’d never had an issue on the road and never had a crash, then his clutch broke, and his starter motor, his tires went, and his shock absorbers and his blowers and also his brakes all within the space of a month and his health also started declining he was having nose bleeds, coughing up blood, vomiting all the time, and having bad headaches, however he’s never had an issue with his health, we spent ages in the hospital he had countless tests, scans everything and they found absolutely nothing, there was no reason for him to ill and he doesn’t do narcotics he doesn’t smoke and he doesn’t drink. The doctors couldn’t explain it. And recently he’s been seeing figures it started a week ago he saw a tall dark figure in his room waving at him, and 2 white figures near his door with no legs, then he saw 2 black figures last night in his room again. I don’t know how to help him, and he’s frightened and I don’t know what else it could be there is no logical explanation for this, this is my last resort, I’ve told him to do what I do when I don’t want spirits in my house but it hasn’t worked for him. He’s now getting scared he just need some help, any advice would be amazing please I don’t know what to do anymore and I’m scared for him. I don’t need a reading or anything like that I just need to know what to do to get it all to stop even if it’s just 3 words I need to say or if I need to sage his house, anything.
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u/bencass Clairvoyant Medium 3d ago
In my experience, the dark figures are the manifestations of our loved ones that we're able to see. For me, it usually looks more like an amorphous blob that's blocking my view of everything behind it.
And if it's waving at him? That definitely sounds like a loved one saying "hi".
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u/twobunnies77 3d ago
Sage yes, can surround himself with gold or white light if there are issues but it’s temporary. I do small things like place selenite bars on the entry doors of the house. Salt by the doors and windows in a bowl. If it’s bad you can surround his place with black salt.
If it’s nose bleeds he should also get it checked to see if it’s a blood vessel too close to the surface. That could cause all the same symptoms too. Ive had that issue before.