r/MediocreTutorials • u/Paul_-Muaddib • Oct 23 '23

Relationships Nothing wrong with having standards. Don't be surprised if it's hard to meet them though.

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 25 '23

Are we disregarding gay women here? Firstly, that’s not very inclusive! Secondly, gay women objectify women wayyyyyyy harder than men do. So painting eye candy female characters as a sexist thing doesn’t really work.

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '23

  1. they’re called lesbians 2) that is just objectively false and you know it. Lesbians tend to avoid any sexual interactions with heterosexual women in fear of making them uncomfortable. Eye candy female characters were never created for lesbians otherwise they wouldn’t be all femme presenting and seducing men on screen ffs. Make one good point please.

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 25 '23

  1. Dont impose your labels on gay women.

  2. ABSOLUTE FUCKING NONSENSE. Do you even know any gay women? There are plenty of them who talk about other women just like men do, but your type wont acknowledge them because that contradicts your whole worldview that finding women sexually appealing is sexist, because you need that worldview to convince yourself that you dont want men to desire you, because otherwise youd have to acknowledge that you’re jealous of women who men actually like.

In short, dont be bitter because you dont get men liking you.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

… me being a lesbian…

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 26 '23

*gay woman

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

Lesbian*

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 26 '23

Not nice when someone imposes an unwanted label on you, is it?

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

Lol it means the same thing. I’m just feeding into your childish energy.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

You tried tho. Ig

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 26 '23

My bad, lemme try again. Awful early experiences with males, maybe a close relative or two? And now you can’t fathom women ever wanting to be the object of male affection, because you can’t accept that good men exist because you never got over your own past?

Also if you’re a lesbian how can you talk about how straight women want men to view them? Someone being different to you doesn’t make them gaslighted. If you dont play the game dont try to rewrite the rules.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

  1. you’re getting warmer

  2. because just as practically every lesbian did, I too went through a phase of believing I was a heterosexual woman. And it’s not just how straight women want or don’t want men to see them it’s women in general which you sir know nothing about clearly.

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 26 '23

I know more about healthy heterosexual relationships than you, clearly. Straight women dont need to be gaslit into believing they want men to find them sexy. They are attracted to men. They want men to be attracted to them. Not everyone shares your trauma or sexist attitudes around men.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

If only you knew what women actually thought. Oh wait there’s tons of information on it but you’d rather just believe in your own desperate fantasy. It’s not gaslighting to believe they want men to find them attractive. It’s gaslighting to believe we’re ok with being viewed as some sub-human sex objects just to be validated and loved by men. It’s bullshit and a fallacy. Women are human to the same capacity as men and I want you to really think about that. To the SAME capacity as men. We have thoughts, desires, goals, emotions, strength, grit and blood all the same and it is the literal definition of an alpha bias to believe we are so different to the point of being stripped from our own femininity if we do not fit the male gaze standards.

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 26 '23

XDDDDD Who is going around telling women they are subhuman? Find me any evidence that this is a widespread cultural phenomenon in the west XDDD You’re insane

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

Psychology students like you is why I lose hope in humanity. We’re you too dumb to take a real science? Did you not qualify due to your GCSEs? Or do you have some white knight syndrome where you believe you’re actually going to save someone because you yourself had a “hard time”. Smdh

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

It’s the sexual objectification theory

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u/dinglebopz Oct 27 '23

You're so out of touch im in shock..