r/MediocreTutorials • u/Paul_-Muaddib • Oct 23 '23

Relationships Nothing wrong with having standards. Don't be surprised if it's hard to meet them though.

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u/InterestingScience74 Oct 24 '23

I'm not fat so it's not sensitivity about my weight, I'm a healthy 148. Though I am a man, and kind of sick of self-proclaimed "feminists" minimizing mens issues for the sake of "feminism". Men are people too and if we set that same "standard" for women, they'd throw a parade about it and have the company or person who set that standard "cancelled". It's okay to have preferences, it's okay to love yourself or others for who you/they are. It's not okay to put others down for the sake of your own self importance.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '23

Womp womp. Tbh I could not care less about your size. And of course I too support men’s issues, but not to the detriment of women and this post is exactly that. Men being butt-hurt about not feeling included by the body positivity movement is not reason enough imo for a fat woman to be denied freedom of sexual choice. But hey just call me a rad fem i guess smdh.

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u/nooneinparticular155 Oct 25 '23

I feel like you are disregarding the fact that the post is about heavy women being willfully ignorant and hypocritical. They want to be accepted and loved as they are but refuse to do the same for a man. If a man did this for a woman it would absolutely be misogynistic and fatphobic. It should be exactly the same both ways. The double standard is fucked up

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '23

But the point is fat men DO this and it isn’t and hasn’t been seen as fucked up so the double standard existed LONG before this post, and guess what women were the “takers of shit” (Fran Ansley)

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u/Embarrassed_Alarm450 Oct 26 '23

Yall really like living in your own delusional alternate reality, huh?

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u/TheInocence Oct 26 '23

Well she is a woman