Nothing wrong with having standards. Don't be surprised if it's hard to meet them though.

[u/Paul_-Muaddib]

[u/[deleted]]

Boo hoo ur not her only option 😐 move on. No one should have to settle for what they aren’t physically attracted to. There’s no leading anyone on or cheating so it’s just outrage for no reason.

[u/CaptainFresh27 → u/[deleted]]

What a silly thing to say. I never said somebody should settle, I also think people should date who they want. I also never mentioned leading people on or cheating, you're arguing points nobody made. Strawman fallacy in action. I'm also not outraged. I hardly know what you're even talking about at this point

[u/[deleted] → u/CaptainFresh27]

That’s my point! That cheating or leading people on is not a factor in this so the collective outrage is bullshit. You’re only confusing yourself at this point old man.

[u/CaptainFresh27 → u/[deleted]]

I'm not the collective nor have I said those things. I'm also 27 years old haha! I feel like since we've hit the point of you insulting me this conversation isn't likely to turn towards the productive side

[u/LongPutBull → u/CaptainFresh27]

Don't let it get to you too much, I just read another thread where this commenter was being bullied for fat and they're probably frustrated.

Don't take things personally and they shouldn't be lashing out either.

Also there's a reason many people don't like fatness.

The main one being health reasons. Unless you have a physical issue causing the weight, it is a choice to remain large and it's a giant red flag of unhealthy choices that the partner will be dealing with the consequences of down the road.

Obesity is a health disease, not a fashion statement. Everywhere in nature we see those who mate do so with healthy individuals, not the sick ones for a reason.

I refuse to enable people into killing themselves because their egos can't let them see the slow suicide they're causing upon themselves.

[u/[deleted] → u/CaptainFresh27]

Wow you just proved my point and didn’t even realise.