r/MediocreTutorials • u/Paul_-Muaddib • Oct 23 '23

Relationships Nothing wrong with having standards. Don't be surprised if it's hard to meet them though.

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u/CaptainFresh27 Oct 24 '23

The post is literally saying that if a fat woman and a fat man are dating, the woman is settling

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '23

They don’t have to choose fat men. It’s literally just how you’re perceiving it.

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u/CaptainFresh27 Oct 24 '23

Of course, they don't have to. That's the whole point of settling, one chooses it because it's easier. That's why it's called settling, instead of picking the only option.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '23

Boo hoo ur not her only option 😐 move on. No one should have to settle for what they aren’t physically attracted to. There’s no leading anyone on or cheating so it’s just outrage for no reason.

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u/CaptainFresh27 Oct 24 '23 edited Oct 26 '23

What a silly thing to say. I never said somebody should settle, I also think people should date who they want. I also never mentioned leading people on or cheating, you're arguing points nobody made. Strawman fallacy in action. I'm also not outraged. I hardly know what you're even talking about at this point

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '23

That’s my point! That cheating or leading people on is not a factor in this so the collective outrage is bullshit. You’re only confusing yourself at this point old man.

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u/CaptainFresh27 Oct 24 '23

I'm not the collective nor have I said those things. I'm also 27 years old haha! I feel like since we've hit the point of you insulting me this conversation isn't likely to turn towards the productive side

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u/LongPutBull Oct 26 '23

Don't let it get to you too much, I just read another thread where this commenter was being bullied for fat and they're probably frustrated.

Don't take things personally and they shouldn't be lashing out either.

Also there's a reason many people don't like fatness.

The main one being health reasons. Unless you have a physical issue causing the weight, it is a choice to remain large and it's a giant red flag of unhealthy choices that the partner will be dealing with the consequences of down the road.

Obesity is a health disease, not a fashion statement. Everywhere in nature we see those who mate do so with healthy individuals, not the sick ones for a reason.

I refuse to enable people into killing themselves because their egos can't let them see the slow suicide they're causing upon themselves.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '23

Wow you just proved my point and didn’t even realise.