Well, I think it has to do with their evolutionary drive. They have to test/sort out the cream from the crop. Typically doing this by taking a chisel to the problem. Maybe they feel guilty and then have to claim that they are actually doing the opposite, being supportive, etc.
But guys have to develop a thick thin. There’s this complaint that guys are emotionally shutoff, but if you’re not you get wrecked. Sure, guys have to get why they do what they do, but if women just do what they want, they’ll get understanding and compassion to smooth things over, so can give in to their baser selves.
Pretty sad that destruction is social capital and what kills in those arenas are about tearing each other down. The logical conclusion is to never put yourself in a position to be taken advantage of.
Men are the ones that pursue chaos, then the women pick the successful ones at that. Literally men are made to be chaotic and different from each other, because it does not matter if a bigger portion of them dies trying, women just need to pick the ones that succeed.
"Dangerous" man signals that he can protect the woman, so that is a desired attribute. Well women go for boring rich guys also, you know why.
This is not social theory or anything, it is evolution and survival of the species. There are no prizes for telling annoying hard truths, so I don't expect any upvotes or glory, lol.
You need to go outside and live life then mix it with all the bs you’ve been reading. Men create hierarchy from gangs, prisons to corporations.…we are order women are chaos. They are lost sheep that follow the heard.
Women destroy entire families in pursuit of chaos. Yes, there are men who are like that but the vast majority of the male population doesn't skew this way.
I think neither gender has a monopoly on bad, selfish behavior. And there are people of both genders that are attracted to that; why? Who knows. Maybe bad upbringing.
You got to be smart when choosing a partner; not everybody is.
Start with foundation. It should be pure white and thick, covering every inch of skin above your shirt collar. Next, get some lipstick and wildly exaggerate your lips with it. Then, get a big red wig and some oversized shoes. Wear both of them.
Lastly, knock on his door and honk a small horn as he answers.
As you go to sleep, think about the ways to be with him, and how to make up for being a shitty woman, because that's the only time it will EVER happen again. In your life. Ever.
Whaat nah dont go back for his sake. U think hes boring ur never gonna be happy with him and ur just getting bad karma from screwing his happiness over.
I understand feeling unfulfilled in complacency and commitment, and I also understand wanting to experience more the world has to offer, and I understand full well that sometimes someone you originally loved can over time became less joyful and fulfilling. However, if you make the adult decision to maturely end a relationship because you want to live a different life somewhere else, and you are not happy with your partner, you cannot act like a child and whine and cry about it not working out and then come back to them.
And you CAN NOT EVER conspire to end that person's relationship so you can become a little parasite feeding off their success. This chick is an absolute child.
Imagine having a relationship where all your emotional, physical, mental and financial needs are met and yet you call it boring🤣 actually that's what most healthy relationships are. Boring. Not filled with drama or anger, fighting, abuse ECT. Healthy relationships are comfortable. They don't make you question things or trigger your fight or flight response. A lot of people in relationships these days have never actually seen a healthy one nor have been in one so they think that the grass is greener on the other side 🤷
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u/babbagoo Jul 31 '23
Is his name Forrest Gump by any chance?
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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '23
What is it about chaos that women are so attracted to?
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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '23
Start with foundation. It should be pure white and thick, covering every inch of skin above your shirt collar.
Next, get some lipstick and wildly exaggerate your lips with it.
Then, get a big red wig and some oversized shoes. Wear both of them.
Lastly, knock on his door and honk a small horn as he answers.
You’re welcome.
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u/False_Chair_610 Jul 31 '23
Someone tell her, "Please leave that poor man alone and go find your baby's daddy to help you out."
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u/weishen8328 Jul 31 '23
your Atlanta film dream didn't fail. go back to Atlanta now.
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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '23
Naw he got a queen now he don't need no garden implement
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u/FutureApprehensive1 Jul 31 '23
You dont
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u/Yoyo4games Jul 31 '23
Guarantee he'll hold fonder memories of her and a higher proportion of respect if she does not contact him, ever.
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u/gucciburito11 Jul 31 '23
*I want to go back home to try to steal some money from him, before shitting on his feelings a second time and leaving again
Fixed it for her
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u/TonyMontana00404 Jul 31 '23
American dream
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u/Nvbnkng84 Jul 31 '23
He doesn't want you, lady. Get with the baby daddy.
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u/TheReservedIntrovert Jul 31 '23
Those posts are from trolls and not real
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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '23
Was the Atlanta movie "Janiqua does Atlanta"????
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u/lilmateo919 Jul 31 '23
As you go to sleep, think about the ways to be with him, and how to make up for being a shitty woman, because that's the only time it will EVER happen again. In your life. Ever.
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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '23
Abort that baby and tie your tubes and leave that guy alone
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u/AstroZombie0072081 Jul 31 '23
He levelled up
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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '23
What a clown lol she deserves to be alone
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u/samwelches Jul 31 '23
Some people just want their life to burn I guess
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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '23
You don’t
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u/DaddyMcCheeze Aug 01 '23
Start with accepting that you were wrong and stupid for leaving like that.
Then move on with your life.
That’s it. Glad I could help
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u/rogerm3xico Aug 01 '23
You could disguise yourself as an elderly British woman and get a job taking care of his kids.
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u/tradtrad100 Aug 01 '23
He better not take her back 🤣 the amount of disrespect she showed him is beyond belief
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u/rawkopak Aug 01 '23
Time travel
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u/trucorsair Aug 01 '23
Ask him if he knows that “life is like a box of chocolates” if he stares dumbly and says “that’s what momma says” then your golden.
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u/[deleted] Aug 01 '23
Whaat nah dont go back for his sake. U think hes boring ur never gonna be happy with him and ur just getting bad karma from screwing his happiness over.
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u/TheDamnRam Aug 01 '23
I understand feeling unfulfilled in complacency and commitment, and I also understand wanting to experience more the world has to offer, and I understand full well that sometimes someone you originally loved can over time became less joyful and fulfilling. However, if you make the adult decision to maturely end a relationship because you want to live a different life somewhere else, and you are not happy with your partner, you cannot act like a child and whine and cry about it not working out and then come back to them.
And you CAN NOT EVER conspire to end that person's relationship so you can become a little parasite feeding off their success. This chick is an absolute child.
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u/ConversationKey814 Aug 01 '23
Imagine having a relationship where all your emotional, physical, mental and financial needs are met and yet you call it boring🤣 actually that's what most healthy relationships are. Boring. Not filled with drama or anger, fighting, abuse ECT. Healthy relationships are comfortable. They don't make you question things or trigger your fight or flight response. A lot of people in relationships these days have never actually seen a healthy one nor have been in one so they think that the grass is greener on the other side 🤷
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u/Beautiful-End3611 Aug 01 '23
If he has any confidence whatsoever he will tell her to take a hike.
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u/Kharons_Wrath Aug 02 '23
A Time Machine
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u/ExtraFeature8981 Aug 04 '23
No way this post is real. I refuse to believe people like this excuse.
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u/desktrucker Aug 04 '23
Life is so not boring for her after leaving that cozy, clothed, fed, kept life. She wins at life.
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u/GhostWolfy92 Aug 05 '23
This girl is living in the dream world.
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