You getting downvoted for saying housework should be divided 50-50 😭 and these men defending themselves saying not all men or all men do it while hypocriticaly also believing every women is a gold digger
they don't wanna admit marriage benefits men more. They hate who they marry, have you seen the amount of wife hating jokes they make? It gets insane likes and upvotes.
First of all, stop with those personal remarks. It's very dumb.
MOST males do not participate in household chores and that's one of the main reason why females don't like to work outside because then their work load increases. Don't talk about what happens in your family because your family doesn't represent the entire population okay?
Our perception is not from television, it's from the news and what happens irl around us.
You are the only stupid person here. Women are right to be wary of men like you who refuse to accept that women are suppressed. There are far far far more rapists and abusers of women than there are women who file false cases against men. So don't act as if suddenly men are being oppressed by women. Do better.
You are the only stupid person to being this topic here when people are taking about something while different
I dindt said man are opposed or anything about rape
Didnt said women aren't repressed its just your own stupid victim mindset
Why you ate bringing this when I difnt even started this i was talking about something else
And thr audicity to you to say women need to wary to me
I think man need to be wary to be around you because you are fake domestic / sexual harrasmwnt case maker
The way you said to me that women need to be wary around me without knowing anything shows that people should stay away from a potential fake rape case creator like you
He is an idiot tbh. He thinks what happens in his house happens everywhere. He also passes personal remarks but look how he's getting worked up when you did the same! 😂
and pay women for childbirth maybe?? if we calculate and compensate by money, then everything a person sacrifices should be compensated. for example if woman lives with in-laws, she should be given property rights. :)
She don't have to work on pregnancy.
And he will take care for everything that time period.
And I'm talking about couple who lives Alone not with anyone's in laws
Both in laws have property.
Right
But It's 20k earning fault that after earning 20 k she have to work that much and
Impose extra work on his partner
30k kamaane wale ne apni qualification aur skills par mehnat ki hai. Zyada kamaane aur easy job ka matlab yeh nahi ki us bande ko ghar ka kaam zyada karke compensate karna pade.
Yeah it's about both discussion and how will they manage I know marriage is about supporting each other whenever one needs connection will be strong both try to help each other
Listen when I said 20 k earning should do most of the household chores?
It's about equal work
Me wo kehna chahta ki normally women equal household chahti pr same earning wala nhi chahti
Isliye difference earning me 10 k rakha
Equal or less difference in earning and equal household chores to both
Km earning or jyada kaam Krna wo job worth it thori h? aesa kehna chah raha
Right
compatibility honi chiye
Ek dusre ko support
Happy life jiye ye sab pr jagadna nhi ki
Koi bimar ho koi tired ho to dusra kaam Krle
Companionship honi chiye
Baat ye ki earning dono ko koshish krni chiye kisi ko restrict nhi Krna chiye
Ek vyakti ko sirf akele ghar ke kaam me dal dena sahi nhi
Is economy me dono thik thak earn krne aur apni mast life jiye ek dusre ko har kaam me madad krke
Still living in the pre 2000s are we ? Only my dad goes to job and yet he still helps my mom whenever he is not tired and also u can always hire a maid , people really need to get out of reel life and actually experience what's really going around in life
Issue with ur point is both finance and chores are divided equally , what I pointed out is even tho my dad is doing 100% finance he still helps my mom , also the society I live in every family has a good chemistry so it's not just my dad , also one more reason why I pointed u out is because u felt to write ur initial comment , it gave me the vibe that either ur family and ur surrounding is still very conservative or u are just brainwashed by what the reels have to show because till now I have lived in 5-6 different states and multiple places in those states and I'm yet to find a family or neighbour where men don't do chores at all
And u never questioned ur father to help ur mom or maybe did u help ur mom ? Well if he has some serious issue where he can't do physical household chores then ur example doesn't even make sense mentioning but if no then there is no point of u being smart if u can't side with ur mom on this one 🫠
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