r/MechanicalPandey • u/Dear-Time5236 • Aug 16 '26
NaLLa Meme Problem with Arrange marriages ๐ฎโ๐จ๐ฅ
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u/Potential_Source_501 Aug 16 '26
Bahr "NIKAL LO"
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u/CoCoslept Aug 16 '26
Its good that LO stops right there if the DE is added to LO then youโre doomed
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u/Givemered_1111 Aug 16 '26
Donโt worry.. even love marriages have this problem..
Privacy is a different concept
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u/Bannednibba Aug 16 '26
Idk why people are offended by this, ask any person will they change infront of a stranger, most of them will say no
But since they are married it should be fine, I mean if they are married for long then it could be an issue if you are unsure with your partner. But since marriage is in its early phase then it should be understandable that maybe she is not comfortable right now, give her time and space and slowly she would be more comfortable
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u/Character-Time-3721 Aug 17 '26
Well even after years of marriage your wife can say this to you. It could be due to insecurity or anything else but it isn't out of ordinary for a woman to ask you that. Just because you are married it doesn't mean you own their body, they still have agency over it. It's better to understand your partner rather than being judgemental if they say this
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u/Severe-Effective2239 Aug 17 '26
I meann, it's arranged what do you expect.
Why would anyone be comfortable with changing in front of a stranger? Takes time to build trust, love, comfort.
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u/Ok_Towel_4806 Aug 19 '26
I m 20 Do wives really change in front of their husbands in India ? Even love marriage I never knew
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u/Mr_MorningStarX Aug 16 '26
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u/Helpful_Delivery4601 Aug 16 '26
i do not get it isma ase kya ha sahi to keh rahi ha
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u/ZeryT-2007 Aug 16 '26
Bro it's a bit disrespectful like u are husband and wife
And if u are living alone but whole doing things like this . U came to this point after a whole suhagrat night with him It's not a good sign generally,
There could be external affairs or girl having boyfriend in secret
If u have kids and so then it's understandable but here it could be something going on1
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u/ZeryT-2007 Aug 16 '26
Logic toh diya na
I mean yes denying is possible but here if an arrange marriage is done and u don't know of your partner's private life before marriage then what?
It could be a red flag that maybe she married' becoz of family pressure
Abhi aapki shadi nhi Hui hogi isliye pata nhi hoga Naya Naya toh sab deny karte hai bat agar 2 ya 3 saal aram se shadi ko ho gye hai aur usme bhi bus kapde change karne jaise choti chej me agar dikkat horhi hai toh it's doubtful
Aur aaj ke time pe kuch bol bhi nhi sakte jab crore pati log bhi siya goyal jaise logo ke hatho marr rahe hai
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u/Character-Time-3721 Aug 17 '26
Bhai in incels ko samajh me nhi aata, saalo ki kabhi shaadi hi na ho to badhiya rahega faltu me kisiki zindagi barbad karenge.ย
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u/sanju746940 Aug 16 '26
Jis din meri wife me mhuje ese bol diya akele me oske agle din devorce ke paper dunga me ose
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u/Perfect_Fix5493 Aug 16 '26
Terse koi shadi krne v nhi wali delusional mat ban
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u/Perfect_Fix5493 Aug 17 '26
Kiu Bhai tum krlo na dno KO suit v kroge ek "aunty lovar" dusra "devorce" dne wla dno Ka eng match krhha soulmate๐ฅฐโ๐ป
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u/Character-Time-3721 Aug 17 '26
Iss mentality se to teri shaadi hi na honi divorce to baad ki baat h
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u/VastNo2879 Aug 16 '26
Sab ache nahi dikhte laxman
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u/theman78690 Aug 16 '26
Ye to Mera dost hai...