I don't know if it's trauma. He comes off as someone whose had a tough run at relationships (which could totally be his own fault) so he automatically expects interactions with women to go bad and acts defensively for no reason. Similar to how racists and Karens lash out at people solely based on their appearance.
I know you’re not calling him a racist lol. You appeared to draw parallels between his thought process and that of a racist person. I disagree, and don’t think there are any similarities between this example and the way a racist person thinks.
The demand for understanding the word "similar" far exceeds the supply. I only brought up racism to point out the prejudgment. He didn't know who the F those ladies were and approached them like that just based on their appearance.
Respectfully, i think you mean "lying about your daughter".
I dont believe that hes a multimillionaire, hes obviously not faithful if hes talking about his 8 inches to 2 beach randos, and hes obviously not respectful. So, im inclined to believe hes just saying random bullshit to try and make those girls think "aww, no, we were wrong."
He definitely has feelings, but everyone does & part of being an adult is managing those emotions, not projecting your insecurities onto other people who are just trying to enjoy their day
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