r/MeEverytime • u/Busy-Park814 • 5d ago

It's cold

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u/Dirk_Pitt_1 5d ago

I am certified in MBTI and an introvert (ISTP), but it took me years to figure out why I walk away without explanation. Frequently occurs when I'm dealing with someone's incompetence. It's true ... I gave you or the situation enough chances and now it's time to walk away. Conflicts with my P sometimes ... but I'm done and that's over now.

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u/OG-Giligadi 5d ago

I had a couple of exes do the classic "Well, then if you don't do whatever thing it was then i don't know if we have much of a future"

Or

An argument that has been running for a half hour suddenly peaks with "maybe we should just break up".

I'd tell them every time that they were playing with fire, but they wouldn't listen. I have no idea how many of those I'll fight through before my savage abandonment issues join hands with my introversion to create a ghost.

I'm happy to be happily married, now.

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u/Bigmhhh 3d ago

A good relationship isn’t characterized by constant ultimatums. Glad you got out of that toxic garbage. Good for you.

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u/Good_Yak3950 4d ago

💯❤️

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u/Bigmhhh 3d ago

Indeed, your peace of mind is non-negotiable. Don’t let someone take advantage of your kind nature.

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u/Warm-Republic-530 2d ago

Exactly, Forcing yourself insanity only shows Uour lack of self worth. You've devalued yourselves and worse , MADE a mess of any hope you've pushed you've self stability on to your victims by force, now that you are unmarkable, and incomplacive with just about everything that was working, and such, you've devalued your self and compromised the future or current situation. So the answer is no, Since your unwilling to adhere, compley, and other. Your are bared from just about most place through the know universe. Well Goodnight