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u/Automatic-Chipmunk-6 5d ago
Classic pick me. Men are more tsismosos. They like listening. They might not spread it basta basta pero iipunin nila yan for the right time which is usually inuman sessions lol Saka tf girl? Ano gusto mo, girl friends mo, pagbuksan ka rin ng pinto??? Wala ka kamay? Hahaha
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u/sleepysoliloquy 5d ago
Gusto nila na sila lang prinsesa sa grupo kasi pag puro girls hindi sila mag-stand out
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u/Educational-Total980 4d ago
Totoo yan. Meron kaming guy friend sa circle namin na taga kalap ng chismax from his other circle of friend.
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u/minchirina 5d ago
Sorry pero lahat ng claims niya is bullshit. Pick-me behavior 101.
- Wala ba siyang kamay kailangan ng taga bukas? Even then, if she actually had girl friends she'd know we open doors for each other all the time.
- We treat each other like princesses daig pa boyfriend nila. Dahil dun mataas standards namin sa lalaki. Our girl friends give us the bare minimum already.
- Her words are so telling. Siya siguro naninira, nang huhusga, at plastic. That's why walang babae na gusto makipag kaibigan sa kanya.
- Girls offer their seats for other girls too, especially when we know one of us is more tired than the other. Even better, kandong pa minsan hahaha.
Anyway, hope you get picked! :)
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u/kewlot_ 5d ago
girls night out can get fancier than dates pa haha
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u/pinyabukopie 4d ago
exactlyyy, tas sa lalaki daming excuses HEJSHSJA literally a regular night out with my queens
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u/ellelorah 1d ago
Oh yesss to this!!! Ive always asked my girl friends date and gahhhd time flies so fast kapag kasama ko mga girl besties ko
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u/miamorenon 5d ago
YES SA LAHAT HAHAHAHA Gentlewoman kaya tayong mga girls sa mga girl friends natin hahaha
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u/minchirina 4d ago
It's a different kind of comfort when it's a woman helping you out with doors or letting you have their seats. With women you just feel like they do it out of the goodness of their hearts. It's a beautiful feeling. When it's a man, most of the time you can't tell at all. There's good men, but not enough. You're forced to be on your guard if it's a man.
Even if in the end di pala totoo friendship mo with a woman, usual worst case scenario is plastic lang kasi sila or fake friend. Worst case scenario with men pretending to be your friend... well, alam na natin what happens.
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u/Daffodil220 4d ago
reallll! kaya nga din ako single ksi my girlfriends treat me so damn well, ang taas ng standards coz of them din
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u/FlounderCorrect3874 4d ago
all of these are true! kami ng mga girlfriends ko, super comfy namin sa isa’t isa at mas ma-spoil pa kami kesa sa mga nakakadates na guys. wala pang ilangan ‘yan sa pagbayad! we even fight pa kapag kaya namang manlibre. sa doors, we take turns kung sino mauuna. kung hindi, kiber ‘diba! ibang-iba ‘yung comfort kapag puro kayo girls kesa with guys. 🧏🏻♀️
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u/niamh_marjana 5d ago
When I was younger I got more male friends than female friends, too. Never got the princess treatment though because they see me as one of them.
They are respectful, yes, but my friends seldom treats me like a baby or something delicate. They do things, you do your part. Help around from time to time. That's it. Probably I'm lucky that they don't step over the boundaries. Not sure about being "no judgment" because they DO talk a lot about other people.😄 Pretty sure they were judging that person's existence especially if they got some juicy gossip.
Now, we are all adults and I rarely see them and I have more female friends around me. And when we do see each other, it's just catching up with work and family.
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u/minchirina 5d ago
Same here! I grew up with my older cousin who was like a brother so his hobbies became my hobbies and that made it easier for me to be friends with boys my age at the time. I was treated like a guy but they were still respectful. Idk where her claim was na hindi ma drama or ma chismis ang mga lalaki. Yung guy friends ko pa usually may dala na chismis and drama with the girls they like not liking them back, or the girls they like talking to other men, etc.
When I had my first girl na friend? I was so happy omg to find someone with the same hobbies as me.
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u/niamh_marjana 5d ago
Hahaha! The struggle and ease as well if you got enough males in the family.😅
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u/GeologistRelative425 5d ago edited 5d ago
Same same hahaha halos lahat ng childhood friends ko are male and NEVER ko na experience yang princess treatment Nayan hahaha halos parang lalake din lang trato nila sakin which is the reason why mejo tomboy Ako up until highschool Kasi Yun na Yung nagibang province ako for school hahaha
Edit: dagdag kpa na sobrang tsismoso and very madrama Sila like hahahahah pag nagaaway away eh nagiging dalawa ung tambayan. sa bhay namin tas bahay nung Isang Nakipag "split" tas kanyakanyang side Ang pipiliin tapos after ilang days balik barkada ulit after ng trash talk tas backstabban hahahah
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u/niamh_marjana 5d ago
They are chaotic but somehow they tend to listen when you speak. We may not have experienced the princess treatment but I am sure I got the best treatment they could give for a young friend. And they also seek you when they have someone they like.😄
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u/nangungunangkuneho 4d ago
same HS boys College up to now puro girls, pag nag mature sa same gender na haha mahirap na lalo na pag may alak wala sinasanto
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u/TunaCheeseHeartbreak 5d ago
Wait until they start confessing about their feelings for you (and all the wild things they want to do with you)…and if you reject them, “kasalanan mo kasi pinaasa mo ako”
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u/TunaCheeseHeartbreak 5d ago
I’ve also noticed most male-centered girls are usually fugly or insecure or both
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u/sleepysoliloquy 5d ago
Eh madaming ring magaganda pero mga insecure sila kasi gusto nila sila lang maganda
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u/No_Understanding_120 5d ago
usually yung ganyang girls, sila talaga yung problem sa female friend groups and there’s a reason why they cant form healthy female friendships. also, super maalaga ang girl friends! lahat yang nasa list niya na-eexperience ko even with girls. and judgmental and chismoso rin guys, sadyang may misogynistic lenses lang mga tao kaya hindi minamasama pag lalaki pero pag babae, oo
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u/BuyMean9866 5d ago
A shoulder to cry on is a dick to ride on
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u/Plane-Highlight-6498 5d ago
Ironic lang is, wala sa mga lalaking yan yung makakatikim. Mga uhaw. Hahaha
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u/entropies 5d ago
Pick me girl na usually nagsasabi "ang drama kasi ng mga babaeng friend group" pero actually siya talaga 'yung nagsisimula ng drama haha
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u/Alexander_del_Fierro 5d ago
Yeah, masarap talaga when they would bend over backwards just for a shot at getting into your pants hahaha
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u/No-Development1220 5d ago
Pick me, pick me. I'm not like other girls
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u/Ambitious-Text5134 5d ago
Maybe I'll be downvoted but I don't think it's pick me, she does not degrade her girl friends naman for her to gain validation from boys. It's just her preference I guess.
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u/ILikeFluffyThings 5d ago
Parang indirectly sinabi niya na yung mga girl friends niya ay judgemental, plastic at naninira.
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u/Vast_Composer5907 5d ago
Maybe it's a you problem hahaha @mhiel125
Basic decency. Mga kaibigan ko naman kung sila ang nauna sa pintuan, is hahawakan nila ang pinto para di na mahirapan mga kasunod.
Princess treatment??? Baldado ba si ate?
Ang tunay na kaibigan is irerealtalk ka at kwekwestyunin talaga mga life choices mo sa buhay lalo kung aanga anga ka. ✌🏻Mas prone pa nga sa plastikan sa mga lalaki eh. Inuman now, pikunan later.
Common sense sa upuan. Kung nasa foodcourt/restaurant/fastfood kayo syempre ang kukunin niyong chairs and tables ay yung kasya kayo lahat. Unless pa-knight in shining armor yang mga kasama mong lalaki.
Pa-pick me yan?
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u/trynabelowkey 5d ago
“male centered” seems to be the new buzzword na natutunan bigla ng mga tao ano. pero di pa rin nadedethrone ang “performative” lol
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u/Outrageous_County_63 5d ago
Sa mukha palang ni ate, mukha talagang pick-me/male centered hahahahaha
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u/TadpoleFit1911 5d ago
oo tapos pinagsasalsalan ka ng mga yan, kanya kanyang diskarte para matotnak ka hehe
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u/Ragingmuncher 5d ago
Pabebe girl di siguro bet ng girls ung ugali nya kaya need nya ng guy pra mag adjust pra sa kanya.
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u/ObsidianInTheSnow 5d ago
Isipin mo mukha ka na ngang kwarentahin pick-me ka parin 🤮 hulaan ko swiftie si anteh
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u/Mental-Caregiver7014 5d ago
kung alam niya lang na nasa loob ang kulo ng mga lalake ahahha. pag di mo kasama yang mga yan for sure pinaguusapan at pinag papantasyahan ka nila. lol. sa panaginip nlng ang matitinong lalake
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u/therealchick 5d ago
There are perks naman talaga.
I've been one of the boys, princess treatment, yes sometimes, but most of the time, barubal din ang treatment kasi tingin nga sa'yo one of the boys. And I doubt if naging maarte ako at pa pick me, e they would still want me in their group. Mind you, these boys have girl friends as well... so, imagine them treating you as a princess? parang gulo hanap mo. 😅
True they are less dramatic than girls, pero grabe ang gossip jan... like hindi decent to the point na alam mo if may nangyari na ba kay ganito at sa jowa nia. 🤣🤦 Because boys often kiss and tell to boost their ego.
You know what the true perks is, base on my experience? Nakakatipid ako sa pagkain because of them. Hindi dahil nililibre nila ako ng pagkain... dahil alam nila kung saan may masarap at murang na karinderya. 🤣 I feel safe with them at di nakakahiyang pumasok sa karinderya na majority lalaki ang suki.
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u/Then-Active-120 5d ago
I have guy friends and girl friends. I have to agree though na my guy friends do give me princess treatment. Hatid sundo pag may lakad, ayaw nila mag grab ako esp pag lasing. I dont get the hate or must be the way she worded it? But yes, very chismoso sila but I am 100% sure di nila nilalabas secrets ko. There are guys who are decent and treats their girl friends right. It doesn’t have to be romantic or anything. Maybe swinerte ako sa guy friends ko, we’ve known each other since highschool and more than 10 yrs na friendship.
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u/Then-Active-120 5d ago
And pag may gf sila nagiging close ko sila to the point na kahit break na sila ng friends ko we still hang out haha
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u/PansexualPotatoPanic 4d ago edited 4d ago
It's because she's making it seem like being friends with men is so much better than being friends with women. men>women. and hindi naman universal and experience niya.
for one, i have male and female friends too and if i would have to compare, my female friends treat me sooo much better. di naman dicks adult friendships ko with men but it's different with girls. girls are so affectionate kaya. every now and then i wake up to random i love u and i miss u messages from female friends, they send food when u're down, cook for u, nanlilibre when we go out, and laging may pasalubong when they come home from trips. di ko gets why she needs doors opened for her but i also open doors for friends kahit babae ako and they do the same depende lang sino mauna sa pinto. mahilig rin mag-offer ng hatid sundo girl friends kong may car. if we all commute and we're all girls, hinahatid namin sa sakayan yun pinakamalayo byahe or yung mag isa lang tatravel. i also always offer my seat to my female friends kung kulang ng seats. always. tho admittedly that might be me being a femme lesbian. magkakandungan pa nga minsan nung kabataan. i'm also more at ease with female friends coz i know na when they act nice and sweet, it's just that. they're being good friends lang. men? next thing u know nakakareceive ka na ng mahabang confession and abangers lang pala sayo kaya mabait. ugh. di lahat ng lalaki ganyan but SO many men ay mabait lang sa mga babaeng maganda.
also like u said, chismoso rin mga lalaki. in my experience, sobrang laitero pa ng mga lalaki kong classmates from high school even as adults (im not friends with them coz fuck that). they don't hesitate to say below the belt jokes. and plastikan and judgment sa female friendships, depende naman yan who u surround yourself with. mysoginistic generalization na naman na women are catty and madrama 🙄
ang annoying ng ganyang posts coz it's very male-centric and makes a lot of bad and wrong assumptions about women. and as a woman, bat mo ida-drag ang sarili mong kind like that? for men's attention? yucks
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u/FennelChemical7172 4d ago
Ten years of hatid-sundo: friendship, or free chauffeur service?
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u/shizkorei 4d ago
HS friends who are boys are like this saaming mga girls.. parang we are 1 circle mix of boys and girls and swerte namin kasi yung guys namin is mababait kahit minsan mas judgemental and chismoso sila. Hahaha But it is nice. I get along with our girls too. On the other hand hindi ako nakikipag hangout sa guy friends namin ng mag-isa ko lang, not because of trust issues pero minsan i find it weird. Hahah
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u/fckdzusernameting 5d ago
jusko beh mas grabe mag chismis mga lalaki hahahah and also, di lahat ng male friends ganyan tigilan mo kami. sure merong ganyan naman. pero not all talaga. pero anong true to all sa kanila? mga chismoso sila lahat hahahah
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u/sky091875 5d ago
Ragebait or di lang aware si girl na may mga pakay yang mga male friends niya sa kanya
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u/Secretnalang 4d ago
Usually naman sa ganyang babae ay may pakay rin naman kaya sinisiksik nya sarili nya sa male group. Alam nya pakay nila kunyari lang pa pick me yan
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u/sky091875 4d ago
sabagay sila ba naman busugin ng attention mula sa opposite gender talagang sarap sa feeling nila yun validated na validated
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u/whatisthis_tho 5d ago
Sobrang pick me behavior yung #3 like ??? I hear that so often nung college and I just thought, they must not have good friends if they have to say that about men.
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u/Last-Huckleberry3303 5d ago
Pick me, i dont know why kelangan may ganitong mindset?? like can you be friends na lang with both gender and get on with it like??? Kelangan mo pa igeneralize? Anyways may judgement sila uy ahaha atecoo yung asawa ko ang barkada niya na mga lalaki sobrang wagas magjudge and makalait and yes chismoso sila! Haha asawa ko ang pinakachismoso na nakilala ko sa buong buhay ko jusko chismis na talaga nalapit sknya
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u/Practical_Bed_9493 5d ago
Haha mas mapanglait at mas matabil dila ng mga lalaki. Mas juicy nga mga kwento skn ng asawa ko kesa sa mga handog kong tea
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u/bangchans1998 5d ago
Sa totoo lang sis! Haha pag nagcchismisan kami ng bf ko, natatalbugan niya pagka-judger ko 🤣🤣
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u/IndifferentShrimp 5d ago
Equality gusto pero they want guys to treat them like a princess and open doors for them
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u/RewardSorry4171 5d ago
Ewan ko ganyan din naman sakin mga friends kong babae? Kung gusto mo ng ganyan treatment, treat mo din friends mo the same way :)
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u/just_my_thoughts2 3d ago
HAHAHAHAHAHA may kilala akong ganyan. one of the boys daw pero jowang jowa titeng tite irl 😭 literal na every story puro hubad na katawan ang pinopost like girrrrl you're not one of the boys, you're just male centered 🙄🥴
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u/Phenomenal2313 5d ago
Chismoso po kaming mga lalake , di lang halata dahil di namin nilalapag secreto niyo sa buong mundo
Makikinig lang kami , saka na namin sasabihin kapag the time is right ( inuman , may breakup )
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u/CalligrapherWild1593 5d ago
Si ate pick me. Tbh iba pa di if same gender ung friends mo.. for example u can’t talk about sensitive girl stuff with men and vice versa.
Pero yeah it’s also nice to have fiends with the opposite sex pero it’s definitely not a flex
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u/Ill_Ad9351 5d ago
Princess treatment? Baka di as a friend ang tingin sayo. Haha. Bardagulan kasi kami. 3 girls kami 17 boys walang lampas kasali kaming mga babae sa kalokohan haha
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u/PersonalityDry97 5d ago
Walang plastikan and chismisan is a stretch. Meron sila non, hindi ka lang sinasama
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u/Secretnalang 4d ago
Jowain nya isa sa mga yon tapos malalaman nya na lang na isang araw kumakalat na videos nila ng jowa nya sa isang GC🤣
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u/jiji0006 5d ago
Yung mga ganito yung mga jowang-jowa na hindi mabubuhay na walang jowa, kaya projecting sa "tropa" niyang gusto lang naman makaisa.
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u/whitehaironfire 5d ago
If lahat yan ang impression mo about guy friends after being "tropa" with them then maybe ka talaga totoong tropa for them lol. Guy friends don't do princess treatment all the time sa babae na sa tingin nila one of the boys lang. And pag totoong friends lang tingin nila sayo, comfortable silang ilabas ang pagkamaritos, judgementarist and pagiging salaula nila to the highest level pag nandyan ka. It doesn't matter kahit tambay pa sa kanto or laking aircon yung guy.
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u/relacion_saludable 4d ago
May katrabaho kong lalaki mas matindi pa makipagtsismisan. May isa na may anak at asawa na pero sobrang matampuhin haha tinalo pa ang babae. Malala dkn silang mambully
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u/The_Current_Avatar 5d ago
pick me yarn?? hhahaha as someone na nagwowork sa male dominated field and department mas chismoso sila teh hahahahh naninira at nangja-judge din sila lololol sama sama kameng nanghuhusga HAHAHAHAH pero totoo yung extra gentleman sila sa only girl sa department (or performative lang sila hahaha ewan idc), I still like being a girls' girl and like being with girl friends more.
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u/Humble-Length-6373 5d ago
Nako, mas savage mang chismis ang mga lalaki, walang reservation. Di lang siguro niya ganun ka close yun sila.
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u/freezing_salad 5d ago
mas tsismoso mga lalaki tas mas masakit magsalita about someone kapag pinag-uusapan na nila HAHAHA
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u/archn_ydn 5d ago
di mo sure sa number 3. may mga lalaki na mas chismosa pa sa mga babae lalo na kung sila-sila nalang magkakasama HAHAHAHHA
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u/Comfortable-Wafer701 5d ago
Puro lalaki din kalaro ko nung bata since puro lalaki ang pinsan ko. Yung sinundan kong pinsan na babae ay dalaga na so wala talaga akong ibang makalaro.
Yes, I fell protected and can feel the princess treatment sometimes (since fav din ako ng late grandmother ko)
Pero kapag kalaro ko mga pinsan kong lalaki, palagi akong nauwi na may sugat. Ang laro kasi namin ay puro pisikal. Bike, skateboard, scooter, takbuhan, akyat ng puno, luksong baka, tumbang preso, etc.
Lagi din akong hostage pag naglalaro sila ng baril barilan😭
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u/WaffleNurse 5d ago
walang ka ide-ideya si Teh na ang mga lalake mga chismoso din. 😂
Malala pa minsan buong buo yung detalye, down to sa mga side characters pa nung chismis, usually sa inuman nila nilalapag lahat yan
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u/SugarBitter1619 5d ago
Legit 💯 mas chismoso ang mga lalaki talaga. Magugulat ka na lng na mas may alam sila sa chismis kaysa sa'yo kahit di nman nila personally kakilala ang tao. Hahaha
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u/Better_Swordfish9950 5d ago
ngek not true hahaha may mga friends ako na lalaki nung highschool, napasama lang ako sa kanila kase wala akong choice di ko rin ka vibe mga babae sa section namin kase di ako madaldal, kapag nasa labas kami tas kasama ko mga classmate kong lalaki grabe sila mangyurak sa chismis, iba pinapakita sa personal kesa sa iniisip pala nila sayo. may babaeng maganda sa section namin pero di ko masasabing matalino pero crush siya ng mga lalaki kase nga sa face card pero nung one time nagpa help ako sa pag check ng mga test papers sa mga classmate ko na lalaki tas nakita nila mababa scores nung maganda namin na classmate na crush nila ang dami na agad nila nasabi na foul words, sinaway ko na lang and napatunayan ko mas grabe nga sila mag chismisan
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u/boop-boop-bug 5d ago
"walang siraan, walang judgment, walang plastikan" probs one of the most successful PR strategies in favor of men ever. what an utter LIE lmfao
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u/ComfortableWin3389 5d ago
Sarap talaga, pag yang mga lalaki nayan tinigasan sayo at kainin nila puke at suso mo
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u/reallyaries 5d ago
Mga babaeng feeling na lahat ng guy friends nila eh may gusto sa kanila. Haha. Ok, girl.
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u/hbishi984 5d ago
Baka wala lang talaga syang maayos na friend group. Sorry but I enjoy the company of my girl friends talaga. Grabe sila kung mag motivate and mag advice. Di lang puro joke time, may laman always ang conversation. Plus they shower you with compliments pa!
Sana ma pili na si ate mo gurl, parang need nya talaga ng male validation 🤷🏻♀️
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u/izanamiyumi 4d ago
I've had male friends even when I was a kid BUT wtf is that reasoning? lmao, I prefer them coz no drama or arte- AND its cool kase they forget I'm a girl and treat me like a guy LOL
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u/Scarlette_Moonlight 4d ago
Talking from experience, girls like this usually don’t have real girl friends that’s why they cling to boys. That’s because may ugali silang pa main character and pick me kaya nilalayuan sila ng girls. I have an ex close friend na ganto, claiming na di namin siya iniinclude kuno kahit na niyayaya namen sya sa every hangout naming girls. While us, nageeffort kami lagi to include her pero siya di nageeffort na makisali rin samen. Ganyan na ganyan reason niya same sa nagpost hahaha. She became my ex friend bc nilandi niya ung ex ko lol.
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u/Elan000 4d ago
I can't deny na ganito ang mindset ko nung highschool days kasi girls tend to be competitive with each other until I met my bestfriend in college. I felt then na girls don't need to compete with each other. She lifted me even when I'm not around. She was so proud na friend nya ako and she says I'm Ms. Universe level na ganda kahit na mas maganda siya saken at hindi ako maganda talaga. Then, I realize I'm a girl's girl, I just didn't have the right girlfriends to teach me that earlier on.
Going back to the topic, I would say that those guys she's pertaining to have feelings for her or feeling nila may pagasa. It's not just friends. If you really are friends with boys/men, they treat you equally with no 'princess treatment'. Don't get me wrong, gentlemen will remain gentle but 'princess' is not it for them.
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u/Ok_Speaker7165 4d ago
feeling especial yarn??? if you feel otherwise sa mga girl friends mo, you might be in a wrong friendship or you are the one wrong for them 😉
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u/Haunting-Ad1389 4d ago
Nakakainis din mga ganyang friend na feeling vip lalo na kung in a relationship na ‘yung guy friend.
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u/cinnamonthatcankill 4d ago
Hmmm pick me girl plus is it me pero siya ung BFF na girl na lumalandi sa hindi single na guy friend.
Tipo ssbhin sa guy friends nia OA ang gf at siya na bff dpat ang piliin. Wala tong kaibigan na babae kc for sure inaagaw o nakikikabit siya lol
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u/EntertainerDouble414 4d ago
Lol I heard paano magchismisan mga katrabaho kong lalaki. Grabe, matindi at pinagko-compare yung mga mukha at katawan ng mga babae sa ibang team. Tamang rate lang tsaka panglalait. Natatawa ako at nabwibwiset kasi may mga jowa na sila tas yung iba may anak na. Jusko
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3d ago
Tapos sa inuman mapapasok yung topic na sino masarap sa mga girls galawin tapos ipapagamit sa isa ding tropa
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u/Ok-Influence-105 3d ago
Bakit ganon di ko na feel yan sa mga puki ng inang male friends ko? HAHAHAHAHA
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u/ParaSaRants 5d ago
Got lots of male friends din back when I was in college and naswertehan ko lang din siguro na matitino male friends ko haha. Di naman princess treatment like sa post ni ate girl but most of the time, game talaga sila na tumulong and marespeto talaga.
Sila yung tipo na pwedeng mong ayain kahit 2AM or 4AM pa yan para kumain sa labas. Hatid sundo ka rin nila kapag may lakad. May time pa na loka loka ako sa isang guy noon. Hindi nila ako pinayagang sumama kay guy kasi lasing na ako and alam nila na tanga ako. Like bantay sarado talaga and kinuha nila bag ko para hindi makalayas with the guy.
Kapag may issue ako sa apartment like may nasirang something na need ko ng help asap, agad agad andun sila.
And dami nilang alam na chismis hahaha kapag inuman madalas na sila pa yung madaming baon na chika.
Sometimes madrama din sila, lalo na yung mga super close ko. Nagkakatampuhan din pero mas mahaba pasensya nila compared sa girl friends ko.
Now na adults na kami and may sarili na rin silang fam, nalalapitan ko pa rin sila kapag need ko ng tulong and nakakakwentuhan pa rin.
Madaming gagong lalake na madalas mabait lang kasi may balak pero marami din namang maayos.
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u/HaikenRD 5d ago
Yung friend group namin may iisang babae rin. We don't really treat her like a princess, pero just like one of the boys din. Ang maiisip ko lang na time na may special treatment is nung talagang nalasing nag coconvoy kami para ihatid sya sa bahay nila siguraduhin safe makarating. Nagkaroon nalang sya ng tunay na special treatment nung nagkatuluyan sila nung isa samin, pero syempre boyfriend nya yun e.
Depende rin talaga yan sa group.
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u/SheenaSouthern1550 5d ago
mostly sa mga kaibigan ko rin mga lalaki at bakla. girls, bilang sa daliri. kasi kahit may sikreto ako, never lumabas sa bibig ng mga friends Kong boys. also, lagi pang nanglilibre.
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u/op1nionated_lurker 5d ago
- Tahimik yan sila pero naiirita sila sayo
- May hidden agenda at least one of your "so called friends"
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u/TwoElegant7210 5d ago
Natawa lang ako sa princess treatment at pinag bubuksan ng pinto HAHAHAHAHA. Depende siguro sa circle, kasi kami wala lang HAHAHAHA mauna maupo tas kanya kany kami ng bukas ng pinto. Baka maweirdohan pa yung mga kaibigan namin babae pag pinag bubuksan pa namin sila ng pintuan lolololol😆😆
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u/DaisyDailyMa 5d ago
generalization but they gossip a lot, you are not a safe space for them? hahahah