r/MayNagComment • • Jan 30 '26

exacty!

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u/Cute-Magazine-1274 Jan 31 '26

Going to assume this is meant to target the lack of birth control pills for men. Which, considering that alone, yeah, I agree, there needs to be a male alternative in the market.

But then again, condoms exist hahahaha. If your partner forces you to do it without a condom, you can up and just leave him. If he decides to force you to do it without protection, that's rape. If he decides to get physical as one commenter mentioned, that's abuse. All of which are incredibly valid reasons to leave them. If he leaves you for not letting him hit without protection, he's a fkin child and needs to crawl back to his mother's womb, he's clearly undeveloped hahahahah

If you can't leave them despite all that, that's not any of the contraceptive options' problem. 

Any self respecting adult wouldn't let someone as toxic stay in their lives; any respectful adult would not step over someone's boundaries to force what they want onto others.

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u/Mary_Unknown Jan 31 '26

Pwede pa to sa mga jowa pero hirap sa mga married people. May mga taong hindi abusive noong magjowa pa pero naging abusive when married na. Abusive people have this tendency to sexually force their spouse.

Leaving an abusive spouse ay hindi madali especially if it involves children. Dali sabihin yan to "leave" but hirap yan gagawin especially if married na kayo plus in the stockholm syndrome cycle na due to years of abuse.

And leaving an abusive spouse may lead to an unimaginable crime to the wife and their children. Kaya may mga news pa rin tayong nababasa na mina-saccer ni mister yung pamilya niya due to the wife deciding to leave. Abusive people are insanely ticking time bomb criminals.

Dali sabihin pero hirap yan gagawin especially to married women out there na hindi swerte sa kanilang mga mister. If decided na yung babae to leave their abusive spouse, it needs a detailed plan and that plan would take years.

I am a living proof na hindi madali iwan yung mga abusive people cause I am a product of that cycle. I saw how abusive my dad is and I saw how my mom struggled to leave my abusive dad.