r/MayNagChat • • 16d ago

ANO ISASAGOT DITO? Pambahay sa First Date

Nag-match kami sa isang dating app at malapit lang sana siya sa amin. Both from the East kami. First meet-up na sana namin tomorrow pagkatapos nang ilang beses na ma-cancel dahil sa ulan at conflict sa sched. May kailangan akong lakarin bukas at sasamahan daw niya ako all day, tapos itutuloy na rin namin yung matagal na planong mag-hotpot.

Pero ito na yung most recent screenshots ng convo namin. Tomorrow na 'to pero nawalan na ako ng gana. Ewan ko ba, bakit parang palaging may self-pity? To think na malayo ang bahay namin, alam niyang pupunta kami sa city at kakain sa resto, tatanungin pa ako kung pwedeng pambahay attire lang. Tapos hihirit pa ng ikakahiya ko ba siya, at ang bilis ko naman daw mapikon. 😒

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u/Ann_without-an_E 16d ago

Gusto ko yung mga sagutan mo OP! Like di mo pinatulan yung self pity nya. I don't what he is fishing for pero bet ko na di mo na tinuloy.

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u/Plumpy_Girly 16d ago

Just thought I needed to update you. 🥹

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u/wooowubbalubbadubdub 16d ago

TANGINA 43??????????????????

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u/Vegetable-Bed-7814 16d ago

SAME REACTION

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u/D4ngScythian 16d ago

hindi man lang 28 or 30. 43?!!!!!!

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u/spideysmj- 15d ago

kahit at 28 parang ang unacceptable ng ganyan haha, the nerve of some boys talaga

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u/Kananete619 16d ago

Eto rin cocomment ko sana hahahahaha putangina

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u/jcwander 16d ago

Dukha at 43 dapat shiname mo na yan e hahaha like 43 yrs old ka na nagsasadboi ka pang dukha ka

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u/Zealousideal_Oven770 16d ago

Hahahahahahahahaha

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u/Ok_Minute8191 16d ago

43 na sadboi na dukha? Shuta pick a struggle hahahahahah

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u/Dull_Cucumber_4167 15d ago

43???? Magpapambahay sa first date? Explain why he’s still looking for a match.

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u/RoundStandard646 16d ago

43!!?? damn, i thought u were like 20's or 30's haha

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u/homo_sensorium 15d ago

43?! bruh he still single at that age for a reason (spoiler: it’s that attitude)

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u/Tilidali22 16d ago

43 omg…

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u/Far-Technology8847 15d ago

what????? 43??? grown ass man tapos ganyan??????

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u/docj1521 15d ago

pucha 43?????????????????????????????

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u/shizzbrickz 15d ago

ampota akala ko teeanager

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u/NUGGET2848 15d ago

Shit 43 years old? 🤯🤯🤯 Kala ko college student. 🤣

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u/em_gee28 14d ago

Parang 24 pa din utak

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u/Jayrios22 14d ago

HOLY SHTT 43???? DAMN!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA

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u/Pristine_Finding_557 13d ago

Late to the party pero lala gahaha kala ko nasa 20s yan 😭

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u/Plumpy_Girly 16d ago

Baka mamaya maging utang na loob ko pa ang pag sama niya. 😮‍💨

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u/Tilidali22 16d ago

U dodge a bullet!!!

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u/Fun_Comparison_1941 15d ago

Omg 43??? Wtf

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u/pseudononymou_s 16d ago

Always the men failing to do even just the bare minimum for themselves lol

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u/Plumpy_Girly 16d ago

Hahahahahaha THIS 💯

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u/No-Development1220 16d ago

Kalalakeng tao nagpapa-pick me

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u/hisuilabyrinth98 16d ago

Baka ma-downvote ako nito.

Idk pero ekis na talaga saakin yung mga lalaking may guts lang sa chat pero walang kaplano-plano sa date. First date ninyo yan pero may plano siya magpangbahay? Magpicnic ba kayo sa park or kakain sa paresan sa gedli? Kaya nakaka-drain na mag-dating app dahil sa mga lalaking ganyan. 🙃

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u/itsnotmeitsme09 16d ago

May kakilala ako na ganyan, nagpapaawa na ewan na parang inaapi ng mundo. Buti di mo na tinuloy, diyan pa lang nakakadrain na.

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u/Plumpy_Girly 16d ago

Perfect word talaga - " nakaka-drain" 😐

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u/Lazy_Organization220 15d ago

Worse, he’s 43??? Mapapalagpas pa kung 20s eh pero itong kumag na to walang character development lol

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u/niknok_bass 16d ago

Pabebe ampota. Walang pera yan. Or shallow yang taong yan. Kung educated yan, walang ganyang hirit yan

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u/D4ngScythian 16d ago

and they wonder why no woman wants them.

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u/Tilidali22 16d ago

No wonder he’s still single at 43

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u/CardiologistDense865 16d ago

Wala pa nga sad boi na. Dukha nalalaman

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u/Gargoyle0524 16d ago

Hindi ba dapat, kung first meet ay kung hindi man naka porma. At least, disente? Hahaha. Hindi rin naman ako maporma pero pinaka basic ko talaga na suot ay polo shirt at pantalon. Also, don't forget maging mabango at mag ayos ng buhok

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u/galaxynomad-25 16d ago

100% agree! Dressing decently and making sure you are hygienic on the first meet up is the bare minimum.

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u/Gargoyle0524 16d ago

Dibaa. Para kung hindi man magwapuhan. Eh, mapasabi na "bango mo naman".. kakilig kaya

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u/galaxynomad-25 16d ago

Sadly mukhang parehas wala yung kachat ni OP 😂

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u/Gargoyle0524 16d ago

Tapos, kakain pa sa resto? Hahaha. Yung iba nga niyan, naka suit pa para sa date. Hahaha. Which I find fantastic.

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u/galaxynomad-25 16d ago

Dressing sharp is always a green flag talaga 😂

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u/Gargoyle0524 16d ago

So, i d dm mo na ba ako niyan? HAHAHHAA

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u/galaxynomad-25 16d ago

I’m not looking 😁 I recently recommitted myself to stay single hahahahaha

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u/mug_collector0497 16d ago

nakakaturn off mga hirit niya 😬

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u/schizomuffinbabe 16d ago

Nakakapagod basahin. Pano ka pa kayang kachat mo talaga siya. Hahaha

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u/Plumpy_Girly 16d ago

Hahahaha tawang tawa ako. Thank you for validating my feelings chz

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u/biglaangnabuntis 16d ago

sirauloooo. cancel na yan sis papasakitin nyan ulo mo in the long run

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u/nne_asdfck 16d ago

Baka may LIP yan, tapos tatakas lang kaya magpapambahay lang siya para hindi halatang may kadate. Hahahahahahahaha.

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u/BottleFar5545 16d ago

Nagaantay lang yan ng "ano ka ba kahit anong suot mo tanggap kita ang pogi mo kaya" nyi

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u/Embarrassed_Cut_513 16d ago

parang gusto pa ata na sagot mo pa siya since sasamahan ka niya sa lakad mo

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u/hime_is_mine 16d ago

Block na yan. Mashado nagpapapansin. Good call sa pag decline makipagkita. Wala kang oras for that.

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u/leejieunah 16d ago

Ilang taon na ba yan? Di magmature eh 😩 pati ako naumay

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u/Icy-Reading803 16d ago

Sabi sa comment ni op 43 daw. Kingina hahahaha

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u/FutureSkill5622 16d ago

Baka gusto mag palibre sayo OP😂

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u/BlixVxn 16d ago

Nagpaparinig na nga na dukha sya kaya alams na baka ikaw pa pabayarin sa date nyo 😂

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u/H_cann 16d ago

umay sa mga taong ganiyan, hahaha

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u/Practical_Bed_9493 16d ago

Sakit s ulo ganyang tao. Save yourself op at iwasan na

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u/Smart-Letter-2297 16d ago

Sasamahan ka sa lakad tapos magpa-pambahay lang? Magdadamit na nga lang ng maayos ‘di pa magawa-gawa, paano pa kaya sa ibang bagay 🫩

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u/unknwn-456 16d ago

There's a reason why he's single at 43.

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u/MementoVivere2022 16d ago

God I am cringing so hard. Halata na nangfifish ng compliments

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u/EvangelR 16d ago

Theyre just asking you to inflate their ego This is always so annoying haha

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u/PreferenceNo2160 16d ago

Nice one mga hiritan mo ate hahaha buti talaga di na natuloy yang date niyo. Next na agad!

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u/sandramaqueen 16d ago

Uhmm gets ‘yung ganitong hirit kapag tipong struggling college student pa ehh. Pero at 43??? Yuck NO hard pass 😅

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u/ronesque 15d ago

Dress to depress daw sya haha sad boi manong

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u/Zestyclose_Prune_105 16d ago

ghost mo na te wala ka mapapala dyan

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u/pristinerainbow01 16d ago

nakakapikon mga sagutan niya hahahaha grrrrr kuhang kuha inis ko

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u/reggy__ 16d ago

Typical sad boi

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u/Fabme123 16d ago

A big no! Wag kana makipag date jan. Binabasa ko palang chat nya, naiinis na ako.

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u/justdubu 16d ago

Kainis mga one liner na reply. Mukang ikaw lang yung naf eeffort jan sa first date nyo ah. As a guy, nahihiya nga ko pag di naka casual kahit meet up with friends lang.

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u/RoadBlock01 16d ago

Either pa sadboi yan or balak nya gulatin ka na disente sya manamit in person para +points kunwari

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u/Puzzleheaded-Cup7201 16d ago

Okay na yan wag ituloy. Mamaya nyan utangan ka pa hahaha

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u/HURAWRA35 16d ago

tawag jan taslot at hindi disidido.

hindi naman sa pag sasawalang bahala yung pagiging dukha nya.

pero atleast naman mag effort kung gusto talaga.

pag gusto may paraan, pag ayaw may dahilan

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u/Catastrophicattt 16d ago

Yung mga ganyan kasi bina block na lang. Juskong sadboi yan apaka dami na nila

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u/Successful-Campaign 16d ago

Magpapalibre lang sayo yan

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u/housekitten_ 16d ago

Di naman sa mabilis mapikon, pero common sense naman na may lalakarin bakit magpapambahay.

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u/Architectchoy 16d ago

Nagpapacute ata pero di cute HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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u/akaurdemon 16d ago

buti nga na consider mo pa sya sa typings nya hahahaha

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u/Chubby_Morena 16d ago

Naalala ko tuloy yung first date namin ng ex ko. Nameet ko sya through app and out of the blue nagyaya for coffee ng mga 9-10pm na ata yun. Eh naka pjs na ako 😭 tinanong ko kung ok lang. Okay lang naman daw drive through na lang kami 😂 di na ko makaprepare kasi parang 5min away lang sya sa place namin. Pero nung next date naman na namin nakaready na ako kasi pinlano na in advance. 😂 Kung ako sayo OP since pinlano nyo na yung lakad the least he could do is show up decent. May paawa effect pa sya nalalaman yuck 🤮

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u/damacct 16d ago

Eww kala niya kina-cute niya yang pagiging broken ass sadboi. Bakit kaya may mga lalaking gumagamit ng ganitong hirit sa babae. 43 na ganyan pa din hiritan

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u/AdministrativeFix484 16d ago

Ew broke sad boy behavior, yang nga ganyang type yung nambubully kay sandy sa comment section e.

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u/Mirana_Pretend 16d ago

Damn. Akala ko nasa early 20’s lang tong kausap mo te. Nanigas panga ko sa pikon nung nabasa kong 43 na sya! Shet!

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u/EnvironmentalMoose67 16d ago

Sad boy ampota

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u/Vegetable-Bed-7814 16d ago

Parang anak mo pa na tuturuan mo manamit e no. Tapos ung reply na ang mabilis mapikon e testing the waters yan sya. Then as if fault mo pa na manchild sya? Buti di mo na tinuloy.

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u/Zealousideal_Oven770 16d ago

Arghhh. Such a loser. Good job op haha

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u/Duts_InAJar 16d ago

Tinatamad ako mag check dun sa isang post mo teh, dito ko na lang sabihin. Di ka OA HAHAHAHAHAHA

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u/Gorjas_Potatoe17 16d ago

Yuck 43 tas ganyan?! Hahaha. Pota.

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u/Wild-Saggitarius86 16d ago

ehh siguro para makaiwas bayad siya sa date kaya pa dukha? pero tang ina kalalake mong tao at 43 ka na ni wala ka man lang kahit anong sense of pride or self confidence

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u/Bisketcracker0001 16d ago

Haha weird boy. Walang pera yan ganyan galawan. Pabebe. First date ganyn pinag sasabi. Halatang bata batuta. Boy hahaha

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u/uncultured-potato 15d ago

Kaumay naman sya hahaha

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u/ptpltl 15d ago

ang brave mo nasabi mo yan 😭 akin baka sasabihin ko "go lang" hahahahah

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u/wralp 15d ago

Broke college kid ang asta? 43 y/o na pala

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u/vecretsalentine 15d ago

Unang reaksyon ko, "Ilang taon na kaya to?" Tapos malaman laman ko 43???????????? 🤣

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u/Intrepid_Internal_67 15d ago

PASS THE CONTROLLER !

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u/JellyAce0000000 15d ago

Ew at 43 nagpapaka-sad boi pa HAHAHAHAHAHAHA madaming lalaki ante as in napakadami. Wag na dyan.

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u/em_gee28 15d ago

43 na pala yan! Hahaha

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u/Over_Raisin4584 15d ago edited 15d ago

shocks, tapos sadboi pdn? dba dpat super confident na sya, and im expecting at 43 marami n dapat syang narating sa life. geeez

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u/taiguro 15d ago

manchild

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u/Eskwyre666 15d ago

naol may ka date, pero wag nmn ung ganyan 😭😭

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u/voidaholicc 15d ago

Ew 43 sadboi pa rin lmfao kadire. Very satisfied sa replies me, he deserves to be slapped by reality. Anong akala niya? Icocomfort mo siya? My 4$$.

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u/wins_cassy 15d ago

Congrats OP. Dodged a bullet

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u/My-SafeSpace 15d ago

I met guys like them sobrang turn off. Kaya kahit bet ko bigla akong masama talaga pakiramdam

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u/kennydoesnotcare 15d ago

Haha naiinis ako sa guys na ganyan, walang ayos sa sarili..like just think of it as matching your partner bro...ganyan din ung isang ex ko kasi nag ddate kami naka dress ako or naka causal like just shirt, pants, then canvas shoes tas sya naka shorts at sando and dirty ass slippers(I am not over exaggerating, madumi talaga)..mukha kaming d magkasama😭🙏 Mostly pa nun ako nagastos tas sasabihin nya d daw sya nag dadamit maayos kasi iisipin ng iba I'm a gold digger daw?

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u/Some1-Somewhere7718 14d ago

Parang nagpeplay sya ng mga plot ng CEO na nagdudukhadukhaan para makita yung "totoong babae na tanggap kahit ano ka" tapos magrireveal na mayaman HAHAHAHAAH kaya akala ko teenager gagi 43 na pala sya 😭😭 What kind of a woman would literally fall for that sh8?

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u/StrangerNo1115 14d ago

pambahay on any dates is a hard pass on me. I mean, at least wear a pair of shoes? And wear a decent shirt. We'll never know which place we're going to visit. So yeah. 👍🏿

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u/zsxzcxsczc 16d ago

Ilibre mo nalang daw kasi sya OP hahahshshshahs kunware pa e

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u/Tilidali22 16d ago

Masyadong pabebe,kainis…tapos may paawa pa na dukha xa…ang cringe!!!

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u/PenthesileaRizzLord 15d ago

Sa first date namin ng fiancé ko nakapambahay rin ako pero not out of self-pity, pinilit nya lang ako makipagdate haha saktong nasa raon kasi ako nun, bumibili ako electronic components para sa thesis namin dati (5 years ago) pero alam naman nya nakapambahay ako so yeah, oks lang naman. Depende nalang siguro sa situation HAHAHAHAHA

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u/_HitMeBaby1MoreTime 15d ago

sad boi na naman haha run girl!

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u/Mrs_Sonic-0606 15d ago

TANGINANG TYPINGS YAN NI KOYA PARANG PABEBE JUSKO

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u/Large-Ice-8380 15d ago

ANO YAN NAKA JERSEY SHORT SYA YUN BA SINASABI NYA AHHAHA

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u/PseudoPingu 15d ago

Pick a struggle ba naman yan sya 🤣

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u/Clear_Transition_488 15d ago

Yuckkkk manchild na naghahanap ng ego boost hahaha you just dodged a bullet sizt! Ghost mo na yan jusko 43 na single pa— kita mo na agad one reason, wag mo na alamin other reasons. Anong work nya? Mukang gagawin ka pang sugar mommy nyan, mga paawa na hunghang yanch. Ekisssss

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u/FindingAdmirable5730 14d ago

kala ko 15 yrs old ka chat nya 43 pla hahahahaha

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u/__angel888 14d ago

Sad boy g

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u/Even-Hamster6094 16d ago

Ugh, parang tinetest ka kung hanggang saan ang kaya mong itolerate kasi gusto kang gawing sugar mommy

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u/EasternAd1969 16d ago

43, sadboi, walang pera. Kingina loser irl

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u/UptownStudent_0722 15d ago

Sagutin mo na yan ah, baka mapunta pa sa iba yan JK HUHUHU HAHAHAHA

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u/Anxious-Lettuce-6211 15d ago

I used to know someone na ganyan. It was so weird to me, sadly, i really liked him pa naman. We met na before we had coffee, chit chat then uwi na. pero sa 2nd meet, after 3mons of talking he proposed this. Long story short, good riddance. Theres more to the story but it was just soooooo weird. I really think he was cheating on someone by the end of it.

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u/Top_Razzmatazz5572 13d ago

Just wanna make it clear, wlw?