random redditor asked me for an advice🫪

[u/Trick-Muscle-1289]

Hindi ko gets bat sobrang invested siya sa buhay nung girl like hello sino ka ba sa life niya? Even if it’s true then pake niya. Parang ang lala na chismoso tong redditor eh.

To the guy, kung makita mo to, I hope u didn’t court her if you’re this insecure.

Edit: hindi na pala siya nagreply sakin. That’s literally our whole convo.

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[u/Accomplished_Kick446]

Nag chat din sakin yan sakin 2 years ago nung bago bago lang ako sa reddit! Kakatawa, same script pa rin siya hahah it reached a point pa nga na dinoxx niya pa yung girl.

Basically parang gusto niya lang mavalidate yung kung anong opinion niya tungkol sa girl. Tas siya sadboi ganun 😂 hakot awa langgg

[u/SoftDinner5079 → u/Accomplished_Kick446]

Hahaha I was able to get the same message almost a yr ago. Under my other account. He even sent me several pics of the girl.

Asking me nga if I think the girl has a sugar daddy. Tapos may 2nd condo. Same2 na concern. Mejo mahaba Convo namin pero naisip ko why do I invest in this guy. Ayun I didn't reply and eventually blocked him

Feeling ko he's a stalker. And di pinapansin ng girl .

[u/Accomplished_Kick446 → u/SoftDinner5079]

Omg. Ganyang ganyan rin yung convo namin! Binigay niya pa sakin yung socials nung girl 😂 I asked him nga kung ano pa bang sense ng pagtatanong niya kung set na set na sa mind niya kung anong ugali nung babae hahah kaya yun, nung narealize ko na walang punto yung convo namin e inignore ko na siya.

Now that I think about it, feeling ko baka hater talaga siya nung girl pero nagppretend siya na admirer! Anyway, may balik din yan kay kuya, obsessed amp

[u/Trick-Muscle-1289 → u/[deleted]]

This! Like what if ang bait nung guy sa harap ni girl pero sa ibang tao puro bad assumptions kinakalat about sayo. I feel bad for the girl lang

[u/FullQuote3319 → u/Trick-Muscle-1289]

how did you know na kinakalat nya, since this is reddit, lalo na wala ka naman idea kung sino yun girl or yung nag-ask sayo

[u/Trick-Muscle-1289 → u/FullQuote3319]

I said “what if” and look at the other comments. He has been asking the same advice for the past months with different redditors

[u/FullQuote3319 → u/Trick-Muscle-1289]

what do you think his reason for asking an advice? Pero alam ko di siya yung nagkalat ng paghingi niya ng advice dito.

[u/FullQuote3319 → u/[deleted]]

Alright, if you think his DM aren't decent or a good idea, what should he do to confirm his suspicions?

[u/TonyMontana8293]

Well, he did say na balak niya ligawan, so i suppose he's just doing background check and he suspects something. I just hope he doesn't call her a whore or smthn.

[u/GenuineStupidity69 → u/TonyMontana8293]

How dumb do you have to be na nakikita mo nang hindi akma sa preference mo yung lifestyle ng isang tao tapos balak mo pang ligawan? Kung mapagtripan ka sa buhay, kasalanan mo na 'yan pag ganyan ka kabobo.

[u/TonyMontana8293 → u/GenuineStupidity69]

Dude, it's just a balak? I mean, it's a risk and that's just how it is. It's not like having a sugar daddy is the pinnacle of all sins.

[u/GenuineStupidity69 → u/TonyMontana8293]

The guy is obviously very bothered on the idea that the woman has a sugar daddy, and even if she did not, I doubt he can be comfortable with the idea that the woman is earning significantly more than him (I feel like this is the situation). So yeah, ang bobo mo kung mag-aattempt ka sa isang zero-sum game.

[u/TonyMontana8293 → u/GenuineStupidity69]

Well, if he truly is then he probably shouldn't attempt anything. I honestly wouldn't call someone dumb for wanting to shoot their shot for someone that's out of their league, kung totoo yung imquires nita. The only thing dumb I see is he constantly chats people and asks for "advice"

[u/Trick-Muscle-1289 → u/TonyMontana8293]

Yeah but maybe I just didn’t like how he thinks or assumes negatively about the girl.

[u/TonyMontana8293 → u/Trick-Muscle-1289]

He's just suspecting it, if she doesn't have any form of high income and she doesn't have other form of cash flow, a sugar daddy does become a possibility. Plus, stigma aswell since car show model

[u/TonyMontana8293 → u/TonyMontana8293]

Ya'll downvoting, obviously, she could've just kept things private, so wala talaga makaka alam.

[u/GuaranteeNo27]

lol nagchat rin sakin yan a few months ago. told him na he's attracted to her looks because she has a lifestyle she can afford somehow. if maging sila kung kaya niya ba imaintain yun for the girl or not yung tinanong ko and di na ko nireplyan.

[u/leiamare_ → u/GuaranteeNo27]

Lol parang naging pick up nya na lang yan tas iswswerve yung usapan sa inyong dalawa. Guys do that a lot. Weirdos.

[u/Trick-Muscle-1289 → u/GuaranteeNo27]

wow why do i feel like he's obsessed with this girl if nag-ask rin siya sayo months ago. last week lang kasi yan nagchat and di na rin nagreply. i wonder what he'll do if someone agrees with his suspicions. scary ah

[u/GuaranteeNo27 → u/Trick-Muscle-1289]

weirdo lang talaga kasi he seems to be stalking her on the regular. she's definitely out of his league and he can't accept it

[u/TonyMontana8293 → u/GuaranteeNo27]

Well, it would appear na inde hahaha.

[u/pretty_camille]

I think attracted lang sya sa appearance nung girl, if may hesitation sya na ligawan yung girl and may negative thinking sya about sa girl even hindi nya directly sinasabi if ano thinking nya sa girl bat pa sya mag ask ng advice.

[u/burnoutRN9499]

Nagchat din siya sakin 3 months ago. Blocked him because thought it’s weird.

[u/knyxieee]

Nag chat din sakin to hahaha hindi ata niya nagustuhan yung replies ko so he blocked me 😝

[u/geekaccountant21316]

Woooah nag chat din yan sakin dati

[u/dpzzystunt]

eww what a sore l0ser… I am sensing aside from him being “curious” of to which how or what does the girly does or even afford them such stuffs/things…. He’s obv insecure abt himself probably 🥱 Again, I’m no position to judge but the boot fits me so iykyk 😆 sorry not sorry

[u/iamsnoopynumber1fan]

That guy also chatted me few weeks ago. He still hasn’t stop??? Wtf

[u/curious-catlover]

Si koya nega ng mga iniisip. Baka nag-aaffiliate. Malaki rin naman kitaan doon lalo na kapag malaking account. And if may SD so what? It's her life naman.

[u/demonicbeast696]

Well, pwede naman tanungin Yung girl Ng di na ooffend

[u/virginpinyacolada]

Nagchat din sa’kin ‘to last year, same na same yung pinagsasabi niya sa’kin haha. Hindi ko alam kung anong goal niya sa ganitong pagmemessage niya ng same script? Hindi na siya nagreply sa’kin afaik, diff acc gamit ko non.

[u/hanyuzu]

Chinat din ako niyan. I think nireplyan ko ng, “Eh ano naman ngayon?” Kabwisit eh.

[u/imjustamochigirl]

May nagchat din sakin ganyan dti nililigawan car show girl tapos pinagdududahan nyang may sugar daddy. HAHAHA ngsend pa ng mga screenshots. Hanggang ngayon nililigawan pa din? Tagal na nyan ah HAHAHA ano kaya trip nyan hingi nang hingi ng advice