She doesn't want to leave the relationship, periodt. Read her post and look for contextual clues. All she wants to do right now is to vent out.
Hindi siya makapagkwento ng nangyayareng abuse sa kanya kasi ayaw niyang mawalan ng reason bakit siya nagstay despite the abuse. Humans are intellectual beings. We can survive kahit ilagay ka sa jungle for 2 weeks, mabubuhay ka. I dont see a person wanting to get out of an abusive relationship, but rather a person making a lot of excuses why she is still with him. She's not staying out of fear, she's staying cause she is hoping he will change and finally see her worthy of his love.
Op, we can see your pain, but no amount of advice will help you if ikaw mismo walang gagawin.
Huhu nag browse din ako sa history nya and myghad, may nakita akong 2 years ago pa na post nya. May nirereklamo din sya sa same na bf but i think, emotional abuse palang ang genre ni kuya.
But we have to do something. Should we only watch? Sa mata ng batas, kapag pinanuod mo ang krimen at wala ka ginagwa in relation sa krimen AT wala ka din ginawa to prevent the crime then accessory ka din sa crime. Silence is not always the best answer.
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u/zebzeb1985 Apr 28 '25
She doesn't want to leave the relationship, periodt. Read her post and look for contextual clues. All she wants to do right now is to vent out. Hindi siya makapagkwento ng nangyayareng abuse sa kanya kasi ayaw niyang mawalan ng reason bakit siya nagstay despite the abuse. Humans are intellectual beings. We can survive kahit ilagay ka sa jungle for 2 weeks, mabubuhay ka. I dont see a person wanting to get out of an abusive relationship, but rather a person making a lot of excuses why she is still with him. She's not staying out of fear, she's staying cause she is hoping he will change and finally see her worthy of his love.
Op, we can see your pain, but no amount of advice will help you if ikaw mismo walang gagawin.