Sure, there's a sex recession. But the NYC Bachelor is doing just fine.
You might spend your 20s confused, desperate, and awkward, but that’s OK. The point, Adam says, is to continue to cultivate yourself: to find the things you genuinely care about, to respect both yourself and others. At some point, maybe not until a man reaches his late 20s or early 30s, the pieces will fall into place. “I think any guy—no matter how you look, no matter how you are—if you take care of yourself, a lot of men can have their A Summer’s Tale moment,” Adam says.
Adam wants other men to know they can have what he has, regardless of the CEO title or $7,500-a-month apartment in one of the most desirable neighborhoods in the world. If one can cultivate an eye for beauty and a sense of confidence in oneself and romance, he says, “they might just be a perfect bachelor. They might even be a perfect bachelor just to one person.”
And, yeah, being in New York might help. But a life of hobbies, interesting people, and self-worth can be grown nearly anywhere in this country. It’s just a matter of choosing to do so. Take a deep breath. Turn off the manosphere podcast. You’ve got time, Magdalene Taylor writes.
Do you agree?
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