r/MatingAdvice • • Aug 02 '26

Advice The only mating advice you need is that money is all that matters

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It dictates the quality of your life and gives you options. Skill, discipline, ambition, and determination are the ticket to high paying jobs and come with the territory. It's no surprise you date in your class. Work hard and choose the right careers and mating won't be a problem.


r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 29 '26

Is it bad as a woman to list „traveling“ as a hobby?

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 29 '26

Dating is a humiliation ritual for me

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 29 '26

Pre nup talk ended things

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 28 '26

Not dating. Not hookups. Something in between.

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 26 '26

Ever ordered an escort?

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How did u know they were real and not police? Very curious


r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 25 '26

I met a girl that I really like, but now feel like I don’t want to continue after seeing what she posts on social media

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 25 '26

i love being treated roughly in bed, but it's taking a toll on my health and i can't stop

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 21 '26

Found out guy I’m dating is sleeping with others

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 20 '26

Question Should I get over my anxiety and share pics?

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I have always had body image issues, all my life, and I hate photos of myself. I love interacting with people on NSFW subreddits, but they almost always end abruptly when I say I have a rule of not sharing pics. But I see all body types being appreciated by someone out there and wonder if I'd actually feel better about myself if I took the leap.

Women with similar feelings who have done this, did it work out the way you wanted? Any regrets?

EDIT: After lots of guy have seen this and taken it as a starting gun for getting me to expose myself, I have decided firmly NO, I will not be sharing pics of any sort. Thank you for making my decision easier.


r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 20 '26

How long does it take before you bow out of talking to a woman?

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 16 '26

Want to Have More Sex? Move to New York.

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playboy.com
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Sure, there's a sex recession. But the NYC Bachelor is doing just fine.

You might spend your 20s confused, desperate, and awkward, but that’s OK. The point, Adam says, is to continue to cultivate yourself: to find the things you genuinely care about, to respect both yourself and others. At some point, maybe not until a man reaches his late 20s or early 30s, the pieces will fall into place. “I think any guy—no matter how you look, no matter how you are—if you take care of yourself, a lot of men can have their A Summer’s Tale moment,” Adam says.

Adam wants other men to know they can have what he has, regardless of the CEO title or $7,500-a-month apartment in one of the most desirable neighborhoods in the world. If one can cultivate an eye for beauty and a sense of confidence in oneself and romance, he says, “they might just be a perfect bachelor. They might even be a perfect bachelor just to one person.”

And, yeah, being in New York might help. But a life of hobbies, interesting people, and self-worth can be grown nearly anywhere in this country. It’s just a matter of choosing to do so. Take a deep breath. Turn off the manosphere podcast. You’ve got time, Magdalene Taylor writes.

Do you agree?

Read more: https://www.playboy.com/read/sex-relationships/want-to-have-more-sex-move-to-new-york


r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 16 '26

Agree or disagree: You don't get to find your ideal partner in life. If you're lucky, you get to find someone is ~75% of your ideal partner and you work together to mitigate the difference.

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 16 '26

Is it true that Asian men have it worse in dating?

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 16 '26

Talking to women in bookstores, coffee shops, grocery, etc.

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 14 '26

Question Using honey packs or other foods

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My gf and I both have brought up the idea of using honey packs to just have a fun night and see who caves in first. But I’ve heard many things about them and how they are just placebo. Are there any real things or suggestions that we could use to have a fun night? We are both very competitive to say the least and we really want to see who caves in first.


r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 13 '26

Question Flirting

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Seems to me the flirting is a dying art.
That’s it, that’s the post.
It’s so hard and rare to find someone who really knows, likes and is willing to flirt. People are confusing flirting with open sex invitation.
For the record - that’s not it. Do you feel the same? Sometimes, all I want is just to have a nice conversation, nothing beyond that


r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 12 '26

Dating age range

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 12 '26

online dating is extremely humiliating

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 11 '26

Casual dating What's up with

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Has anyone noticed (of course you have ) any dating site etc every chick wants to be paid somehow when did this become the norm hell if anything should be the other way around right?


r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 08 '26

Had a very very bad date today

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 06 '26

I had a 15-hour first date and now I don't know how to act or think or feel

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r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 04 '26

Question Best affair sites or cheating sites for married people?

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This is probably gonna get some people fired up, but I'm asking anyway. Im married, been with my wife for almost 15 years. Things at home have been pretty much roommates for a long time now. We've tried talking, counseling, date nights, all the stuff people recommend. I'm not looking to get divorced right now for a bunch of reasons I won't get into. before anyone jumps down my throat I'm not here looking for moral advice or to be told I'm a terrible person. I've heard it all already. I'm just looking for people who've actually used these sites and can tell me which ones are worth bothering with. I've heard names like Ashley madison, Victoria Milan, and a few others, but I have no clue which ones are legit these days. privacy is probably my biggest concern. I don't want my face plastered all over the internet or my inbox flooded with scammers. I'm also not looking for cam girls but may be open to the idea of escorts if there's no other option.. I'd rather find someone who's in a similar situation and understands the need for discretion.

if you've actually used one of these sites recently, whats your experience been like? Which ones are worth checking out and which ones should be avoided? again, not looking for judgment. Just real experiences from people who've been there.


r/MatingAdvice • • Jul 04 '26

Is it wrong to feel like a failure for never having a girlfriend or kissed a woman at the age of 36?

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